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DeviantlyD -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 2:32:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: DoYouNeedHelp When a woman unveils her body, she is showing her vulnerability and submission. When a man unveils his body, he is showing he is dangerous and dominant. A submissive woman already feels that the man is dominant, usually, and, so, to throw a cock in her face, even just pictorially, is to needlessly put her in her place with threats. "Oh nooooooooo! Danger, danger! Big ol' cock is out to get me! I can see it now. Mr. Dominant walks into a munch, breaks out the goods, and chases all the women around with it. Does it scream "I keeeeel you!" as well? [:-] A dominant woman will see the cocks being flung about freely as a sign that the man is there to use women's bodies and is only lying about his submissive state. So a submissive man who exposes himself isn't really submissive? One of these days, you and your 100 other id's might actually say something coherent. With proper punctuation too! LOL Actually, she has 20 different profiles...with 7 being created within the last week. quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig quote: When a woman unveils her body, she is showing her vulnerability and submission. When a man unveils his body, he is showing he is dangerous and dominant. If the woman orders him to show himself, then, it is by her choice and she holds the power. A submissive woman already feels that the man is dominant, usually, and, so, to throw a cock in her face, even just pictorially, is to needlessly put her in her place with threats. A dominant woman will see the cocks being flung about freely as a sign that the man is there to use women's bodies and is only lying about his submissive state. It doesn't matter how the man feels about it, because, this is nature, not rational thought. You can feel like you are trying to share, all you want, but, the truth is, penises are made to thrust, stab, force into things, break open the womb, and, alter the woman's body through pregnancy. There is nothing submissive about them, which is why so many women want to control a man through chastity devices and why so many submissive men want it that way. What a load of misguided bunkum. I don't even know where to start other than to say that if you believe this ...shit, then you do need help. Arpig, I agree with you entirely on this one. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I don't know, Arpig. Part of that post was some of the funniest stuff that I've read today. I was going to ask if that poster also writes comedy for a living. Nope. Just that one who has made ridiculous posts on here before, but under one of her many other profiles. My theory is that she feels the need to create new profiles all the time to keep her "name" on top and visible as one of the new users. Kinda sad, if that's true. quote: ORIGINAL: lizi quote: ORIGINAL: DoYouNeedHelp When a woman unveils her body, she is showing her vulnerability and submission. When a man unveils his body, he is showing he is dangerous and dominant. If the woman orders him to show himself, then, it is by her choice and she holds the power. A submissive woman already feels that the man is dominant, usually, and, so, to throw a cock in her face, even just pictorially, is to needlessly put her in her place with threats. A dominant woman will see the cocks being flung about freely as a sign that the man is there to use women's bodies and is only lying about his submissive state. It doesn't matter how the man feels about it, because, this is nature, not rational thought. You can feel like you are trying to share, all you want, but, the truth is, penises are made to thrust, stab, force into things, break open the womb, and, alter the woman's body through pregnancy. There is nothing submissive about them, which is why so many women want to control a man through chastity devices and why so many submissive men want it that way. What a load of crap. Hilarious crap but wow....do you truly believe this? Yeah, I figured out who it was immediately like Poise did. You are a strange woman with a very strange outlook on life, it's no wonder that you keep making new profiles to try to find someone, because I imagine when the new prospects get to know what you're like they start running. Yeah, I think she seriously believes it. If you read just a few of her many, many profiles, you would see that. She is looking for a slave, but no sex. She's also an authority on what BDSM is all about....I say that with tongue in cheek, of course. ;) But she seems to believe herself an expert on the subject, according to her many, many journal entries. Wow....just looking at them makes me wonder when the hell she has all that time to write them. I don't even have enough time to read them! LOL It's turned into a weird hobby for me....every few days or so, looking to see if she has a new profile and, surprise, she does! It's very, very, odd.

agirl -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 2:35:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather I can understand how a guy might think sending a shot of his cock to a straight or even bi girl might be an effective lure, but how on earth would a guy think it would be a useful thing to send to a lesbian? Why? How? WTF??? I'm gay, I don't like cocks, why show me yours? This has me seriously confused. And pissed off. They are not only unwanted, they are distressing. The only cock I have interacted with was forced on me, I really resent these men doing the same, forcing their ugly penii on me. It is, to me, a form of visual rape. The men that send pictures of their cocks to you is very likely because you're young, pretty and they fancy you. Sometimes that's all that's required. It's just a picture of a cock, they aren't out to exploit some past trauma that you've had. They don't know you, you are just a bunch of enticing images. I'm not gay, but I'm not visually affronted by unsolicited pics of vaginas. I don't expect completely random folk to give a monkeys about my sensibilities. I'd be rattled if I recieved a picture of a raped and mutilated child and think the person sending it was seriously sicko. If my kids were bothered or distressed by that kind of thing I'd ask them why they continue to expose themselves to it when they know it occurs. agirl

fetisheden -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 3:31:43 AM)
that's the same as asking "why aren't there more female rapists?".women are not as into sex as men.we don't think about it every hour & definitely don't care what some man's penis looks like unless a)he's brad pitt or b)she is already in love with him all this should be obvious to a grown man....

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 5:00:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fetisheden that's the same as asking "why aren't there more female rapists?".women are not as into sex as men.we don't think about it every hour & definitely don't care what some man's penis looks like unless a)he's brad pitt or b)she is already in love with him all this should be obvious to a grown man.... Way to be stereotypical! Not ALL women aren't as into sex as men. Not ALL women only want to have sex with a man only if he looks like Brad Pitt or we're in love. In fact SOME of us are perfectly happy to have random sex. Please don't pretend to speak for us all. KTHX

LadyPact -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 5:10:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD Yeah, I think she seriously believes it. If you read just a few of her many, many profiles, you would see that. She is looking for a slave, but no sex. She's also an authority on what BDSM is all about....I say that with tongue in cheek, of course. ;) But she seems to believe herself an expert on the subject, according to her many, many journal entries. Wow....just looking at them makes me wonder when the hell she has all that time to write them. I don't even have enough time to read them! LOL It's turned into a weird hobby for me....every few days or so, looking to see if she has a new profile and, surprise, she does! It's very, very, odd. Thanks, but no thanks. She's perved Me under at least three of her, ummmmm...... personalities. No different to Me than any other fantasist who crosses the boards. The day that I'm in a city that size and can't find a sub or have some respect in the lifestyle community, somebody promise Me that they will put Me out of My misery.

Endivius -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 5:27:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: The day that I'm in a city that size and can't find a sub or have some respect in the lifestyle community, somebody promise Me that they will put Me out of My misery. Awe sweetie I thought you were a sadist... [;)]

LadyPact -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 5:44:56 AM)
Nobody ever said that being a sadist means I would enjoy My own misery. Perhaps you have the term confused with "masochist"?

HannahLynHeather -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 8:18:13 AM)
quote: women are not as into sex as men you haven't met heather have you? she's a right insatiable little fuckbunny.

Daddysredhead -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 9:50:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA Good GAWD... if at 45 years old you need this explained to you, then it's time to put the bleach-soaked pillowcase over your head NOW and breathe in deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep!!! [8\|] OMFGOSH, I think I just pissed myself!!!!!!!!!!! [sm=mop.gif]

domiman -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 10:41:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: agirl It's just a picture of a cock, they aren't out to exploit some past trauma that you've had. They don't know you, you are just a bunch of enticing images. I'm surprised nobody has noted that (some) men, often being in high places, don't exactly want a picture of their FACES on the Internet! So, their dilemma, is what to show? Of course, (many) women have little problem posting artistic pictures of their bodies sans faces - but at least women have varied body elements that are sensual to men, in general, to portray. A man feels (to himself), he's only got this one thing. Remember ladies, men know they're wallets to (some) women; men know they're fancy houses to others; almost all men know that athletes and men in power get (some of) the best babes; and every male teenager has wistfully seen the guy in the red (insert sports car here) get the varsity cheerleader. Men are objects to (some) women! Only men are a different type of object to women - often an object of means. Now back to those cocky men. Men, knowing they're financial/emotional/security objects, realize inherently that they aren't (always) sexual objects to women. They know women aren't always peeking under the tables to see between their legs. They rarely catch a women staring at their chests trying to peer between the shirt folds in just the right angle that they button up. Men would be ridiculed the second they wore too short too tight too see through vestments. Men don't get any more overt attention walking down the street in this shirt or that. Men get their attention, as I stated, just as women do. But from DIFFERENT things (money & power, mostly). So, men, often show just as many pictures of their motorcycle, or plane, or boat, than they do their cocks. However, men don't generally show their house (which is equivalent to their face) even though they may live in a palatial estate. In short, women and men do what women and men do - despite what they think they're doing - (and especially in contrast to what they say!) - the proof is always in the pudding!

Arpig -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 11:15:58 AM)
You certainly seem to like your pudding, but based on the gibberish you post I will hazard a guess that pudding is what you have in place of brains. Your premise in this post and your previous one in this thread is flawed. This is because, once again, you are assuming what motivates you motivates all men. You assume your experience is that of all men. I never "wistfully seen the guy in the red (insert sports car here) get the varsity cheerleader. " I was simply to busy persuing and getting the pretty smart girls, the varsity cheerleaders held no interest for me other than as a quick fuck, which I never had any difficulty getting from them, despite my lack of a car of any description. You assume women are all mercenary creatures who look to men to provide them with the necessities of life, this is such an antiquated idea that I find it hard to entertain seriously. There may have been a time when this was so, but it hasn't been thus for quite some time. I suggest you check your calendar, please note the year is 2011 not 1911. And women do indeed look at men's bodies, as has been pointed out by several women on this thread, a fact you, in your blissful ignorance, choose to ignore. I find this a not uncommon trait among men who hold the same chauninistic views that you do, facts are not allowed to intrude on your pet theories, because to do so would shatter your fragile self worth. You clearly have a very negative view of women, you stereotype them so as to reinforce your own prejudices, perhaps if you took the time to actually get to know and understand a woman or two you would come to understand just how far from reality your worldview is. And just as an aside, you are using your catch phrase incorrectly. It is not "the proof is in the pudding" it is "the proof of the pudding", short for "the proof of the pudding is in the eating" and it does not mean what you seem to think it does. It means that in order to test something fully you have to experience it. In this phrase, the word "proof" is used not in the sense of showing something to be true, but rather in the sense of testing, similar to it's use in proofreading or proving ground, or proving yeast.

0ldhen -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/28/2011 11:35:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiman Men, knowing they're financial/emotional/security objects, realize inherently that they aren't (always) sexual objects to women. Nope, I don't know what type of woman you've been hanging out with but.... Money...got my own. House....5 bedroom, 2 garages.....check...got that. Fancy car.....I have a car, it's not fancy but I'm a bike type. Bike...hmm......got a Harley, a KTM, a Honda....so...check. So...what am I missing? What is it I, and many like me, are looking for? That long hair drifting over those incredibly intense eyes. That chest, in a tight tshirt,yummmm...... That little round belly that is great for bouncing on...sorta.... The tight blue jeans over engineer boots framing a butt....hmmm....and the ever so slighty(or if I'm lucky, not so slightly) noticeable bulge in the front...... Men are sex objects...oh my...oh hell yeah.... But 1st, I want to know driving the above described body is a brain, that is capable of thought.....along with a heart to love me......after I am secure with that....bring on the sweat, the scent of a man in the sun and wind....then, and only then, am I interested in looking at the rest of the package.

DeviantlyD -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/29/2011 12:11:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 0ldhen quote: ORIGINAL: domiman Men, knowing they're financial/emotional/security objects, realize inherently that they aren't (always) sexual objects to women. Nope, I don't know what type of woman you've been hanging out with but.... Money...got my own. House....5 bedroom, 2 garages.....check...got that. Fancy car.....I have a car, it's not fancy but I'm a bike type. Bike...hmm......got a Harley, a KTM, a Honda....so...check. So...what am I missing? What is it I, and many like me, are looking for? That long hair drifting over those incredibly intense eyes. That chest, in a tight tshirt,yummmm...... That little round belly that is great for bouncing on...sorta.... The tight blue jeans over engineer boots framing a butt....hmmm....and the ever so slighty(or if I'm lucky, not so slightly) noticeable bulge in the front...... Men are sex objects...oh my...oh hell yeah.... But 1st, I want to know driving the above described body is a brain, that is capable of thought.....along with a heart to love me......after I am secure with that....bring on the sweat, the scent of a man in the sun and wind....then, and only then, am I interested in looking at the rest of the package. I'm kinda with you on this one. I don't own my own house though. sniffs But I have never viewed a man as a meal ticket. A sexual object, yes, a friend, yes, a co-worker, yes, a possible love interest, yes, a twat, yes. But not someone whose only interest for me is his financial assets.

DeviantlyD -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/29/2011 12:15:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead quote: ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA Good GAWD... if at 45 years old you need this explained to you, then it's time to put the bleach-soaked pillowcase over your head NOW and breathe in deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep!!! [8\|] OMFGOSH, I think I just pissed myself!!!!!!!!!!! [sm=mop.gif] Be careful...you're going to excite all of the pee fetishists out there. :D

DeviantlyD -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/29/2011 12:19:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD Yeah, I think she seriously believes it. If you read just a few of her many, many profiles, you would see that. She is looking for a slave, but no sex. She's also an authority on what BDSM is all about....I say that with tongue in cheek, of course. ;) But she seems to believe herself an expert on the subject, according to her many, many journal entries. Wow....just looking at them makes me wonder when the hell she has all that time to write them. I don't even have enough time to read them! LOL It's turned into a weird hobby for me....every few days or so, looking to see if she has a new profile and, surprise, she does! It's very, very, odd. Thanks, but no thanks. She's perved Me under at least three of her, ummmmm...... personalities. No different to Me than any other fantasist who crosses the boards. The day that I'm in a city that size and can't find a sub or have some respect in the lifestyle community, somebody promise Me that they will put Me out of My misery. I can't help think she pervs your profiles on ideas because you're a successful female dominant and she...well...need I say more? Her latest is that she's looking for someone to help fund her weight loss in exchange for her mentoring them. She says she doesn't have the money to lose weight. Hey, it's difficult to lose weight, but it doesn't have to be expensive. It's too bad she doesn't seek help...and I don't speak of help for losing weight.

SweetDommes -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/29/2011 1:16:23 AM)
Wait ... it costs money to lose weight? News to me. I've lost 35lbs and have been saving money (drinking less pop, eating less, and working out in our garden growing food). Since when does it cost money to lose weight? Just proves she really is an idiot ...

DeviantlyD -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/29/2011 1:54:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes Wait ... it costs money to lose weight? News to me. I've lost 35lbs and have been saving money (drinking less pop, eating less, and working out in our garden growing food). Since when does it cost money to lose weight? Just proves she really is an idiot ... Thanks for the laugh! I agree with you. It's really more of an excuse, I believe.

LadyPact -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/29/2011 8:15:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiman I'm surprised nobody has noted that (some) men, often being in high places, don't exactly want a picture of their FACES on the Internet! So, their dilemma, is what to show? I trimmed this down just a tad. I'm actually not going to give you too much crap about the part that I took out because at least you did have the sense to mention several times that it was 'some' (not all) women. Of course, if it were Me, I'd tell anybody running into that type to just date a better class of women, but that's a different subject. What you seem to be saying here is that (some) males think the choice is between a face or their cock. (Could mention the ass shots here, too, because it's somewhat the same thing.) If that's really the case, I'd say we're talking about some folks with a real lack of imagination. There are posters right here on this thread who do a much better job of the proposition than that. Like most women here, I get viewed A LOT. I do happen to prefer face shots, but creativity will also get My attention. I would have to think this should especially be true for Dominant males because if they've got no better imagination than either show their face or their cock, that's going to be one boring guy.

GreedyTop -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/29/2011 8:18:21 AM)
~FR~ OP, just as an example of a creative photo, sans dick, face or ass, check out PeonForHer. DELICIOUS pic, I have yet to find a woman on these forums that DOESNT like it (regardless of her sexual or bdsm orientation). Oh, and he's smart, funny, and knows how to engage a PERSON'S brain.

PeonForHer -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/29/2011 10:36:41 AM)
Thanks Greedy - cheque's in the post. [;)]

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