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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 5/6/2007 7:06:20 PM   
Eldritchdancer


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Status: offline 		I would suggest talking to the Lady you will be attending with so that you can dress complimentary to what she is wearing.

This does not mean you have to dress alike. In fact, I would recommend against. Something that will make Her look good, while still being comfortable for you, is a good rule of thumb.

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 5/6/2007 7:20:53 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Personally I love black leather pants with some nice shoes, a red dress shirt and a leather tie.
But I love this shirt  (NOT the shorts!)
http://www.fetishwear.com/FetishMLeatherZipfrontshirt6016-1254.htm

and these pants ROCK...man I want to molest the model wearing them lol
http://www.fetishwear.com/FetishMLeatherFrontLacePantsLP1.htm

A tux is nice too if she's going to be really dressed to the nines.

Good luck
~Lashra


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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 5/6/2007 8:01:41 PM   
Nikko1962


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That's cuz we're too busy over on the double-secret male sub NO DOMMES ALLOWED message board talking about y'all behind your backs.







I still can't read one of your posts without thinking back to the above.  Funniest thing I've heard in 10 years.

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/2/2007 7:55:43 PM   
mydestiny2007


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Status: offline 		Please no pirates clothes. What is with Doms & "puffy shirts", I thought the Seinefeld episode would kill those off.

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/2/2007 10:20:57 PM   
MsRose


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Status: offline 		I'd start with a black (or an oxblood, if you can find them) 10- or 14-eye pair of Dr. Martens boots. Then work your way up from there. Besides, they'll last you a good long while and you won't have to break them in.

< Message edited by MsRose -- 6/2/2007 10:21:34 PM >

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/2/2007 10:41:22 PM   
LadyDominaX


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ORIGINAL: pollux

Ok, here's one I hope is fun for the Ladies.  I've already asked a couple of friends about this on the other side, but I'm curious what the larger crowd will say...

To make a long story short, I recently received an invitation to accompany a lovely Lady to a high-profile Fetish event, as an acquaintance (she already has a personal sub).  So I did some legwork and found out the club where this was happening and they have a very strict dress code -- either formal wear, full uniform, leather, latex, vinyl ONLY.  NO exceptions.  Well, I do own a tux, but somehow that didn't seem right, so I found myself shopping for fetish wear and I realized...

I don't know anything about fetish wear. 

All kinds of questions ran thru my mind...  Are there trends in fetish wear?  What's in this year?  How do you size it?  What sort of shoes do you wear with vinyl shorts?  If you've got a little bit of pudge, is a mesh shirt really a smart fashion choice?  Will those leather pants make my ass look flat?  Can you mix latex and vinyl?  You get the idea.

So Ladies...  May I humbly ask for your assistance?  For you -- what defines the well-dressed male kinkster?  Price no object...  What would you want your pet to wear, or what would really grab your eye at either a formal high-profile fetish ball or, if that's not your scene, how about a more relaxed play party, say with a group of friends from the local munch.

Now, some people will say..you wear whatever your Domina says you'll wear, which makes it easy... But...what if you're single?  Or what if you're just going as an acquaintance and the person inviting you expects you to take care of this decision yourself?

Advice, links, pictures, descriptions, accessories, shoes, fetish wear do's & dont's... anything that turns you on.


I grew up lusting after certain action heroes, so a well groomed, well behaved man in a tux at a fetish event who showed a submissive side by deferring to the ladies would definitely catch my attention.

Outside of that, it really depends on the man.  Some things look dead sexy on one man and ridiculous and clownish on another.  

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/2/2007 10:44:14 PM   
LadyDominaX


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsRose

I'd start with a black (or an oxblood, if you can find them) 10- or 14-eye pair of Dr. Martens boots. Then work your way up from there. Besides, they'll last you a good long while and you won't have to break them in.


That's definitely a good start.  One of my friends was lucky enough to get a pair of RCMP dress boots that were too worn out for formal RCMP wear but still usable for mundanes.  He had them dyed black and they looked fantastic on his legs.  There's something about men in boots, almost the equivalent of ladies in high heels I suppose.

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/3/2007 12:03:31 PM   
skareamoos


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Status: offline 		Most of the comments seem to me to be excessively straight.  I thought that the only clothing a genuine sub needed was straps at wrists, ankles, and (dare I suggest) a pair of other places.  Bear in mind, of course, that I have had more years to get decadent than the rest of you.

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/3/2007 12:50:32 PM   
LadyDominaX


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ORIGINAL: skareamoos

Most of the comments seem to me to be excessively straight.  I thought that the only clothing a genuine sub needed was straps at wrists, ankles, and (dare I suggest) a pair of other places.  Bear in mind, of course, that I have had more years to get decadent than the rest of you.


It's all a matter of taste, and some of us happen to like a nicely wrapped package to tear open later.  What fun would Christmas be without the wrapping paper and ribbons? 
One of the more enjoyable sessions I ever had included literally ripping the clothes off of a sub before having my way with him.

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/3/2007 3:07:31 PM   
Laura


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Status: offline 		Most fetish wear doesn't do much for me. It looks overdone and kind of desperate or too slutty. The tux would have done it for me. I would have had my eye on that all night. 

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/3/2007 7:59:39 PM   
mydestiny2007


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Status: offline 		I think any type of fetish wear is about image. Who can deny that images can be very powerfull.

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RE: The Well-Dressed Male Sub - 6/3/2007 10:36:33 PM   
StacyCat


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Status: offline 		Just to add to the tux comment, one of the local groups had a formal type event, a lot of guys in suits, and they found it stiffling to the play.

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