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bjs - 8/26/2011 8:14:10 AM   
usrnamenottaken


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Status: offline 		Anyone used to hate giving oral, but now you like it? 
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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:15:19 AM   
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i like to post. haha =p

have you yourself stopped hating it, or are you trying to learn if you can "come around"? there are other things i didn't like at first but learned to like because of the other person involved.


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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:17:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I got quite disinterested in it with my 'nilla ex, but only cos it became a part of a very routine, ultimately unsatisfying sex life.

With Master - I love it! I mean, I do the gagging/snorting/choking thing a fair bit, but he absolutely loves it and I'm just amazed and rather pleased with how much pleasure I can give him with my mouth

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:25:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		I used to hate giving blowjobs to my husband. He cheated on me a few times, told me I was not as good as the other girls he had been with. Plus, I felt very self-conscious giving them. Now we're divorced, I have a new boyfriend and have been trying out this S&M stuff with him for almost a year. This is my first relationship like this. I've been fantasizing about having one since I was 16 though, looking at nothing but S&M porn and all. Anyway, my boyfriend didn''t know anything about being a dominant when we started but as I told him what I liked, he's really caught on. When he 'makes me' blow him, I love every minute of it. I get sooo turned on. He orders me to do things, holds my head down, takes total control of it all. And it's like all I need now to get warmed up, it's crazy. 

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:26:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		used to like it.. not so much now.

(Ron.. for you, I'd make an exception!)

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:32:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		  I always liked it,with Master i love it.  I used to hate having my head held down  when Master does it though, it is a big turn on.  I think a lot of it depends on who you are doing it with/for.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:47:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		I like giving them, myself. We were just talking about this the other night, because my friend who LOVES giving bjs just got braces, so she thinks she can't do it anymore. Strong men wept when they heard that.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:50:09 AM   
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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:54:45 AM   
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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:55:13 AM   
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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:55:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		yer such a slut :) (so much part of your charm :) )

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 9:01:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: usrnamenottaken

I used to hate giving blowjobs to my husband. He cheated on me a few times, told me I was not as good as the other girls he had been with. Plus, I felt very self-conscious giving them. Now we're divorced, I have a new boyfriend and have been trying out this S&M stuff with him for almost a year. This is my first relationship like this. I've been fantasizing about having one since I was 16 though, looking at nothing but S&M porn and all. Anyway, my boyfriend didn''t know anything about being a dominant when we started but as I told him what I liked, he's really caught on. When he 'makes me' blow him, I love every minute of it. I get sooo turned on. He orders me to do things, holds my head down, takes total control of it all. And it's like all I need now to get warmed up, it's crazy. 



gaah well, i don't think anyone would want to give your ex-husband bj's under those circumstances. what an ass!

glad you have a good guy this time around and you can really enjoy it! the person really does make a difference. ^_^


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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 9:10:32 AM   
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Yeah, i was always giving my ex bjs and i am sure they were pretty good but not extraordinary..

..but when i was in my last relationship with my Dom is when i started getting good, much better than good actually, it was contest with myself to see how much better i could get...

He wanted deep throat so i learned how to do that.. how to breath thru my nose so i didnt have to stop.. didnt use no wimpy breath right strips neither.. ..i have been told i gave the best bj in a guys life, that my mouth felt like velvet, etc.. and that it was like my mouth was making love to his cock..

I love to torture a cock that i am in love with,.. course a guy wouldnt call it torture, he would call it heaven..

by torture i mean play with it, tease it,.. start slowly up and down the shaft,.. twirling my tongue and lips around it,.. licking,.. flicking.. my tongue and mouth playing with his balls if he likes that.. drive him crazy until he is almost boiling over and ready to cum,. then back off and let him cool a bit,.. then back to drive him into a frenzy again.. repeating that and not letting him cum until i want him to.. then not stopping (unless he was the sensitive type) while cumming to make it feel good even longer.. not running to the bathroom after to spit either...

.. umm,.. what was the question again???

.. dang.. ..sigh.. (tj looks dreamily out into space again)

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 9:16:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah, it's amazing what a difference that can make. I've been wanting to post on here for so long but have been afraid of someone finding out I'm on this kind of site. I've been reading the posts as a guest. It's cool to finally get to join in

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 9:49:50 AM   
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I like giving them and always have, just like everything about it. My current relationship is a bit different...I have had to kind of get him to let me give him one. He'd been in more than one relationship where the woman he was with didn't like it, so he learned not to want it and feels kind of weird about getting it. We're working through that barrier. He's not a raging proponent yet, but getting comfy with it. So much of any sexual act has to do with the surrounding feelings/circumstances.
Glad you're seeing a positive come out of your previous negative experience OP.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 9:52:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: usrnamenottaken

Yeah, it's amazing what a difference that can make. I've been wanting to post on here for so long but have been afraid of someone finding out I'm on this kind of site. I've been reading the posts as a guest. It's cool to finally get to join in


Welcome to the site.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 12:14:07 PM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		when i was married i would run a mile rather than give one to my then husband i used to gag at the thought let alone any more. but now with master i love them and get so so turend on giving them

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 12:16:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

does it score me any points if I could remove some teeth?



Inquiring minds want to know?

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 12:17:49 PM   
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Lol, next to riding...this is about my favorite hobby.......

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 12:22:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		putting in and removing teeth? OK....I guess thats ok, site says........

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