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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 12:47:40 PM

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... bjs... (tj looks dreamily out into space)

Yeah, i was always giving my ex bjs and i am sure they were pretty good but not extraordinary..

..but when i was in my last relationship with my Dom is when i started getting good, much better than good actually, it was contest with myself to see how much better i could get...

He wanted deep throat so i learned how to do that.. how to breath thru my nose so i didnt have to stop.. didnt use no wimpy breath right strips neither.. ..i have been told i gave the best bj in a guys life, that my mouth felt like velvet, etc.. and that it was like my mouth was making love to his cock..

I love to torture a cock that i am in love with,.. course a guy wouldnt call it torture, he would call it heaven..

by torture i mean play with it, tease it,.. start slowly up and down the shaft,.. twirling my tongue and lips around it,.. licking,.. flicking.. my tongue and mouth playing with his balls if he likes that.. drive him crazy until he is almost boiling over and ready to cum,. then back off and let him cool a bit,.. then back to drive him into a frenzy again.. repeating that and not letting him cum until i want him to.. then not stopping (unless he was the sensitive type) while cumming to make it feel good even longer.. not running to the bathroom after to spit either...

.. umm,.. what was the question again???

.. dang.. ..sigh.. (tj looks dreamily out into space again)

Stop it, you're making him twitch. *Makes a note of her expertise*

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 12:54:05 PM

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I can't say I"ve ever loved or hated them. They simply are another part of my service to the man I'm with be it whoever it would be at the time.

Imo it sounds like you had/have issues with them because of your past relaitonships. Now you're in a relationship with someone you apparently enjoy being with and therefore you allow yourself to be more free and open with him and to enjoy things you hadn't before due to what you connected that activity to in the past and the emotional baggage that went with it.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 12:57:35 PM

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I used to hate it. I was very young and inexperienced and the first "Master" I was involved with used to berate me about my bj's. He was seriously the first person I had ever given a BJ. He wasn't the first person I slept with just the first bj I had ever given. I of course had some serious learning to do and of course experimentation. It wasn't allowed and the way he went about it scared the living daylights out of me. I caught him talking to his ex wife about my bj's and I was totally turned off after that. The relationship ended very shortly after that. After him I met this guy that allowed me to experiment and try new things and he was just so........ grateful isn't the word, but he enjoyed himself immensely and it just because a huge turn on for me.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 1:40:26 PM

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Stop it, you're making him twitch.

.. well,.. that was the whole point!

..now, think of the very best bj you have ever had and.. think 10 times better!
... I did say I like to torture and tease, didnt I?..

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 2:02:15 PM

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My ex didn't like them. I think some gf of his in high school or college accidentally bit him. Made him gunshy.

So when I met The Man I hadn't given one in 30 years. He taught me how to. I can't breathe through my nose though. He starts thrusting and my nose starts running. But I'm enthusiastic which counts for a lot in his book.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 2:58:17 PM

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Thanks all for the welcomes. Impish, I feel the same way with my guy. Even though he takes control a lot, he lets me experiment and is very grateful (even if that's not the word :) ). And even though I probably used to hate giving them because of what happened in the past, I still think a lot of what has to do with me getting as turned on as I do is the kinky element added in. My ex would just lay there. My bf now, he's an active participant

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 3:23:32 PM

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Stop it, you're making him twitch.

.. well,.. that was the whole point!

..now, think of the very best bj you have ever had and.. think 10 times better!
... I did say I like to torture and tease, didnt I?..

*stops writing*. Imagines watching tv with you suckling with no real completion in mind. Hmmm. *double underlines your name*. So she says, so she says.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 3:26:58 PM

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My ex didn't like them. I think some gf of his in high school or college accidentally bit him. Made him gunshy.

So when I met The Man I hadn't given one in 30 years. He taught me how to. I can't breathe through my nose though. He starts thrusting and my nose starts running. But I'm enthusiastic which counts for a lot in his book.

Yeah that will do it. Meeting up with a beaver so soon into your sexual experiences will make you not want a repeat. I guess the same would go for you ladies. Ever had some dude bite your clit instead of sucking on it?

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 4:25:42 PM

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At first I was terrified to try it. I'd never given one before and I was sort of scared/nervous about doing it...didn't know if I'd hate it or choke or be horrible at it, and I was afraid the cum would taste bad and I'd end up spitting all over the place and making a mess/ruining the experience for him.

Although this was before we had an official power dynamic in play, my Master never pushed me to try it and told me that I could wait until I felt comfortable with it. Then one drunken night in New Orleans after he'd gone down on me I decided "this feels so good, why don't I try to make him feel the same?" and I tried it. I ended up loving it. Nowadays it's one of my favorite things, I love pleasing him with my mouth. I like to draw it out and make it last as long as possible for him, make it a really amazing experience for him, he just has to sit back and let it happen and enjoy himself...there is so much more you can do with your mouth and your tongue besides the simple up-and-down sucking motion... Turns out he likes a little bit of gentle biting--I was very reluctant to try that part (if there's one thing you hear the most about BJs, it's "oh god NO TEETH".) I love to swallow and suck him dry...

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 4:28:55 PM

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*stops writing*. Imagines watching tv with you suckling with no real completion in mind. Hmmm. *double underlines your name*. So she says, so she says.

Its not me that says it, I was just repeating what I have been told..

But I do need a guy to be responsive, the more the better. I need verbal (both words and moaning, groaning) and physical feedback on what is liked and not liked.. not all guys like their balls played with, licked, sucked for instance..
..a guy that doesnt give me that "feedback" is very frustrating,.. another deal breaker for me..

... my eyes are usually closed.. i like to shut out the rest of the world and just focus entirely on what i am doing.. i become so immersed in that,.. the building could be on fire and i would be totally oblivious to that..

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 4:56:41 PM

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But I do need a guy to be responsive, the more the better. I need verbal (both words and moaning, groaning) and physical feedback on what is liked and not liked.. not all guys like their balls played with, licked, sucked for instance.. (raises hand)
..a guy that doesn't give me that "feedback" is very frustrating,.. another deal breaker for me.. ( Something tells me you get plenty of feedback. What, "oh shit I'm gonna cum" isn't good enough?)

... my eyes are usually closed.. i like to shut out the rest of the world and just focus entirely on what i am doing.. i become so immersed in that,.. the building could be on fire and i would be totally oblivious to that.. (Do your thing. You're like an athlete in the zone. Gooooooooal)

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 5:06:55 PM

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putting in and removing teeth? OK....I guess thats ok, site says........

LMMFAO.....nope...sucking dick...but it must be a dick I like........not just any dick......

Seriously...Dear Blow Job King........which is proper etiquette? Teeth in or out?

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 5:21:47 PM

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But I do need a guy to be responsive, the more the better. I need verbal (both words and moaning, groaning) and physical feedback on what is liked and not liked.. not all guys like their balls played with, licked, sucked for instance.. (raises hand)
..a guy that doesn't give me that "feedback" is very frustrating,.. another deal breaker for me.. ( Something tells me you get plenty of feedback. What, "oh shit I'm gonna cum" isn't good enough?)

I would want a lot of feedback. Yes, knowing a guy is about to cum is good to know too.. so i can.. umm.. act accordingly..

I love hearing moaning tho, and the pièce de résistance is after giving a super great bj.. seeing the guys eyes rolled back, see how hard it is for him to focus after, how helpless he is to even move or stand up with his rubbery legs... that he has to sit/lay there for 5 or 10 minutes while his depleted body tries to come back to life.. Knowing that I can have that effect makes me happy.. I dunno.. does that make me a cumpire???

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 5:38:57 PM

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I would want a lot of feedback. Yes, knowing a guy is about to cum is good to know too.. so i can.. umm.. act accordingly..

I love hearing moaning tho, and the pièce de résistance is after giving a super great bj.. seeing the guys eyes rolled back, see how hard it is for him to focus after, how helpless he is to even move or stand up with his rubbery legs... that he has to sit/lay there for 5 or 10 minutes while his depleted body tries to come back to life.. Knowing that I can have that effect makes me happy.. I dunno.. does that make me a cumpire???

Succubus more likely. That same magic can be worked on your legs as well. Watch your step.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 6:20:02 PM

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Succubus more likely. That same magic can be worked on your legs as well. Watch your step.

oooooh... lil me a Succubus, huh?? I like that, think i will put that in my profile..

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 7:04:19 PM

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I've always rather liked giving oral to either gender.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 7:16:58 PM

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Succubus more likely. That same magic can be worked on your legs as well. Watch your step.

oooooh... lil me a Succubus, huh?? I like that, think i will put that in my profile..

Yes we impale succubi around here.

I can just picture some poor bastard sitting on the couch with barely enough energy to change the channel. He had all type of plans for the day. And then you crawled over and sucked his brain out. Look at him. Sitting there in a drooling stupor.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:14:27 PM

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no, i always liked giving a blow job. i used to like doing it for my bf way back when, but not the actual doing of it, that doesn't do anything for me. what i do like is the power a bj gives me, i mean i have his whole fucking self in my mouth, i can blow his fucking mind with pleasure, or i can just bite down and end his life as he knew it. and i like the way i can with a minimum of effort reduce him to fucking putty, gasping and shagged right out. and i like drooling his cum into his mouth as well, and if you do a really good job of the blow job they will be too out of it to realize what you're doing till it's to late. all that's fucking intoxicating, but the actual sucking? meh. it's just a slab of sweaty skin. not any different from a finger really.

like tj, i'm fucking good at it. stupidly fucking good at it. most women just don't have the first fucking clue, they forget the rest of their body and his when they start sucking. when i give a guy head and decide not to just get him off as fast as fucking possible they usually tell me that it's the best they ever had. what the fuck, i'm a perfectionist and if i'm going to suck his cum out of him, i intend to suck his fucking soul out with it as well.

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:20:00 PM

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I can just picture some poor bastard sitting on the couch with barely enough energy to change the channel. He had all type of plans for the day. And then you crawled over and sucked his brain out. Look at him. Sitting there in a drooling stupor.

uh huh,.. poor dude,.. unable to move or even speak.. thats when a smart lil Succubus goes thru the dudes wallet, pulls out one of his best credit cards.. and says,.. darlin,. you dont mind if i do a lil shopping do you? course cuz he cant even speak,.. the lil Succubus takes that as a yes and off she goes...

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RE: bjs - 8/26/2011 8:22:23 PM

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Nope. Always liked it and always loved the power it gave me over a man. I think you are always good at what you love.

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