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Epytropos -> RE: Finding Aggravated Dommes Funny (9/1/2011 8:08:26 AM)
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"You GUYS. People are different than me and that makes them weird and also wrong." That's what I'm getting from you. Get over yourself. Your way is no better than anyone's, and your absurd dedication to your own self-image is comical. Also, using the word whores over and over while insisting you don't really mean it is not really how communication works. You can kind of get away with it in spoken word because you can pretend you spoke without thinking, but in a text-based medium it really seems contrived. If you don't mean it, don't say it. For instance, when I say I find you contemptible in a minute, I'm not going to immediately clarify "but not like contemptible contemptible, just like, you know, worthy of contempt" because that would be silly.
The poorly-disguised sexism of the thing is certainly not uncommon, but the boorishness of it turns my stomach a little bit. Even if I agreed with your message, which I don't incidentally because if people want to sell their bodies more power to them, the way you present yourself makes me read your post in the voice of someone who only wears clothes from Ed Hardy and constantly talks about how 'the game' went even though he was passed out drunk by the end of the first quarter. I will admit to a measure of contempt for many dommes both here and in the real world, but they don't hugely outpace the general public, and you've certainly inspired more than enough contempt to remind me that shit comes in all varieties.
With that said, I will say that anyone who shows up making threads on the forums whining about literally anything people are or are not doing for/to/with them immediately falls into a nearly-inescapable pit of scorn for me, and that includes people who complain about not being properly worshipped. People who complain that no one will meet them, people who complain about 'fakes,' and above all else people who complain about the quality or quantity of messages they get all fall into this category as well. For a few threads I debated the issue, but it's such emotional dross I no longer engage with it. You do see a lot of that from dommes, especially the lattermost of the three, though I'm sure there are those that would argue this is less because they're more prone to it and more because they experience more of it. This argument is of a "If you were ____ you'd be ____ too' variety which is simultaneously, and for similar reasons, both unassailable and irrelevant, but it might well be true.
ETA: This wasn't a response to poise - I opened this in a tab and got sidetracked and by the time I got back what was a quick reply for me was 10 posts up for everyone else lol
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