NocturnalStalker
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I didn't seek your approval, and I told you why I asked your opinion. I asked Hanners who I should ask, and she suggested some names. One of them was you, she said you were too egotistical to not be so flattered at being asked that you would give an honest opinion <she phrased with a lot more colour, but that is the gist of it>. Apparently she was right, as you are still insisting I wanted your approval or was seeking validation, when all I wanted was some opinions. Because you wanted my honesty. And if I told you that it was a stupid idea, there was a chance that this topic would not be made. If I thought it was a good topic, then that increases the likelihood for it. Regardless if how you want to make it look, when you ask somebody if whether it would be a good idea to do this or not you value their influence. People ask me for my opinion every day for whatever reason so the days of me being flattered by it fizzled out quite some time ago. You asked, you got it. quote:
Implying she is both immature and afraid to ask people their opinion might just be construed an attack. Oh, "might." It "might" be an attack. It "might" not be. It "might" be because she said something confrontational and assuming then got it thrown back in her face. She went down that road, and ran into a dead-end with it. quote:
No she didn't. There was no "debacle" with her partner. I am her partner. And there was no debacle except in your imagination. What we did have is a discussion over the last few days as to whether a particular thread idea was worth perusing. How that could be called a debacle is beyond me. Why must you make me do this... You're her partner? Really? That is why she has two people posting under one account, differentiated by colour. The entire point of your message was that Susan and Cherise had different feelings over the situation you presented me. You were just the messenger in the situation, seeing as the topic's content (if it were to be made) would concern only them. One thought this way, the other thought this way. quote:
I didn't say any such thing and it is to me you owe the apology for bringing up my private correspondence with you in a discussion in which I had no part. Okay, I'm definitely not apologizing to somebody that called me a "pathetic worm" and claimed my existence made them feel debased. quote:
What truth? Anybody want to be my echo? $9.99 per repeat. You could probably make a fortune. quote:
You have misrepresented the events at every turn. Apparently, along with your other shortcomings, it would seem you are a liar. Well you almost made a post without a sly jab to myself! There was no "misrepresentation" at all. To say that you sent me mail without the two people it concerned having *any* knowledge that you were sending a mail out to random strangers on the Internet about an issue they were having must mean you may not be a very good "partner." I know a lot of people would dislike it if they and their SO's problems were being made available to a string of people they don't know well or at all. Doesn't matter how deep that problem is, because personal life is personal life. Then, if they did give consent, why didn't they just send it to me in the first place without needing you to play carrier pigeon? Don't you think that makes my "attack" on her look more, "Hey, he has a good point. Why would she say something like, being too scared to post a topic, when she has to have her friends talk to other people that she doesn't even know and to be judge on whether something her and her partner want to post be green-lighted?" Oh look, Heather got herself in another bind. quote:
Neither of us have opposed that view point. Go back and find one place where either of us has. I challenge you to do so. You're opposing it by opposing whatever it is I'm saying. In case you are unaware, I'm the only person that I can see who is making this pressing issue public. So if you agree with it, logic would dictate you wouldn't question the person speaking it, right? Oh but wait - personal animosity cannot be placed aside. How silly of me to expect all this talk of being "adults" to come into practice for the greater good.
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