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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 3:38:23 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
Nope.  NOT berated.  Little up just a little, 'K?

We checked you out to see what your profile DID say.  In your OP (original post)  you wrote: "I don't have much to my profile."  To me, that says "Something there, but not much."  LP and I both looked to see if we could help with it.  Lots of subs come on and have ..... weird, un-attractive, whatever profiles.  I'm sure we both looked with the best of intentions.  Yes, LP?

NO BIG THING!

For the record, no, I didn't look.  I don't need to.  As predicted, the OP went and looked at My profile.  I don't cruise profiles much.  I don't need to.


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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 3:41:33 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster

surely he wants to be scene and not heard

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LadyPact
If you don't stand out in some way, you're just another one of the heard


OK.  That was just flipping funny.

You're coming along now, aren't you?



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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 3:43:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster

surely he wants to be scene and not heard

quote:

LadyPact
If you don't stand out in some way, you're just another one of the heard


As Hannah would say: Hil-fucking-arious!
I actually did LOL!

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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 3:52:20 PM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		OP you will need thick skin and a solid commitment to survive these forums regardless of what role fits you in a BDSM relationship. That being said, LH and LP both saw potential in your greeting and jumped at the opportunity to help you. Most of the posts we see from beginners are, "Hi, i'm only interested in fucking." So naturally, seeing an intro that is fairly intelligent, warm, and doesn't scream 18 year old kid, gets the active posters interested. They are trying to help you. Take thier advice, it's not only sound, it will take you leaps and bounds ahead of all the dumb dumbs posting pics of their junk. BTW, unless a D asks you for a pic of your junk, keep it to yourself. Welcome to CM and good luck.


Just to reiterate, listen to LadyP and LanceHughes if you seek to be successfull.

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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 3:54:47 PM   
tj444


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ORIGINAL: patheticloser87

i don't get it, i can't be interested in other people's profile without being berated? the first two posters checked out my profile and i didn't give it a second thought.

anyways, everyone have a good day and a good labor day.

they werent really berating you, they were just teasing a little.

Don't get your knickers in a knot over the small stuff on here,.. cuz sometimes people will poke at ya just to get a reaction.. kwim? Stay calm, take the advice you feel is good and that you can use and discard the stuff you cant...

have a nice weekend, and welcome..

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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 3:58:07 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Endivius

OP you will need thick skin and a solid commitment to survive these forums regardless of what role fits you in a BDSM relationship. That being said, LH and LP both saw potential in your greeting and jumped at the opportunity to help you. Most of the posts we see from beginners are, "Hi, i'm only interested in fucking." So naturally, seeing an intro that is fairly intelligent, warm, and doesn't scream 18 year old kid, gets the active posters interested. They are trying to help you. Take thier advice, it's not only sound, it will take you leaps and bounds ahead of all the dumb dumbs posting pics of their junk. BTW, unless a D asks you for a pic of your junk, keep it to yourself. Welcome to CM and good luck.


Just to reiterate, listen to LadyP and LanceHughes if you seek to be successfull.

Christ!  I'm so glad somebody got that.  I was beginning to feel that I was pissing in the wind.


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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 4:01:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Endivius

OP you will need thick skin and a solid commitment to survive these forums regardless of what role fits you in a BDSM relationship. That being said, LH and LP both saw potential in your greeting and jumped at the opportunity to help you. Most of the posts we see from beginners are, "Hi, i'm only interested in fucking." So naturally, seeing an intro that is fairly intelligent, warm, and doesn't scream 18 year old kid, gets the active posters interested. They are trying to help you. Take thier advice, it's not only sound, it will take you leaps and bounds ahead of all the dumb dumbs posting pics of their junk. BTW, unless a D asks you for a pic of your junk, keep it to yourself. Welcome to CM and good luck.

Just to reiterate, listen to LadyP and LanceHughes if you seek to be successfull.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Christ!  I'm so glad somebody got that.  I was beginning to feel that I was pissing in the wind.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
Christ!  I'm so glad somebody got that.  I was beginning to feel that I was pissing in the wind.


< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 9/4/2011 4:04:57 PM >

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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 4:02:49 PM   
Endivius


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< Message edited by Endivius -- 9/4/2011 4:03:35 PM >

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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 4:12:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Endivius

I'm allways right.

Except when you try to spell "always."

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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 4:59:10 PM   
RexDarcy


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Status: offline 		OP, its good to look at other peoples profiles. When you do, ask yourself what you find interesting about what you read. LP and Lance aren't trying to bash you; They are giving you advice that will help you find quality.

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RE: Hey All - 9/4/2011 6:31:03 PM   
Endivius


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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

quote:

ORIGINAL: Endivius

I'm allways right.

Except when you try to spell "always."



I C WUT U DID THAR!!!

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RE: Hey All - 9/5/2011 6:17:08 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		There you go path, look what you've done, one simple post!

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RE: Hey All - 9/5/2011 8:19:55 AM   
hausboy


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Status: offline 		Hi patheticloser....

See how terrible that sounds? I felt bad typing it....

Don't be dismayed.  In fact, if you need a little bit of inspiration, read the "Positive Experiences" section, including a recent post by two CollarMe folks who have found love here, and are now engaged to be married.  Follow the good advice...ignore the bad....be yourself and be patient.

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RE: Hey All - 9/5/2011 12:30:24 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the CM and the boards OP.  If you want to attract quality, then you have to project quality.  LadyP and Lance hit it right on the head.  And do be aware that you'll be the one contacting the female Dominants.  They don't that as much as the submissives do.  Fact of life for male subs.  I'm not saying it's easier for a female sub, take my word for it, it sure as hell isn't.  And don't expect an answer in a day, a week, a month unless you get extremely lucky.  Some of us have been searching for years, on and offline to meet that someone we consider perfect.  It takes time like anything worth getting does.  

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