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ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 7:52:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rule quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt English is not her primary language Indeed, I had guessed as much. quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt based on where she lives, she's been taught a very formal version. If she was educated in Malta (where her profile states she is from), her English is excellent. Indeed, I agree. quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt That doesn't help with whatever issues you have with her content I have issues with her content? That is interesting and new to me. Pray tell what my issues with her content are? I would like to know. You may quote me on these issues, please? Oh you poor misguided thing, don't get your panties in a twist. Do we have to send you to the corner with Kevie? I meant a universal "you" as in anyone reading my post. Happy now?

rulemylife -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 7:57:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Funny, most women I know from here are NOT after anything on your list. They are simply looking for a s-type that sincerely wants to serve rather than look to get their kinks served by some fantasy woman.......and a man that has their life in order. Apparently they are as rare as hen's teeth. LaT, I suggest you browse the red profiles. Create a fake profile as a man and see how often you are asked for money and other scams like being told you need to pay to join other sites.

LaTigresse -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:02:45 PM)
Rule, I am not discounting your experience. I am saying that it is very possible you need to pursue a better class of 'red'. It has been MY experience that I see what I want to see. The rest is only something to tune out, ignore. I don't bother with it. Much like the silly emails I get with the name in blue. I know there are a lot but, unless they offer something that interests me, I tune them out. It is doubtful you will see me doing much posting in a thread lamenting crappy emails, posting examples of such. They are not important enough to even toy with in that regard. I accept that there are morons out there and that there is nothing I can do about it. It is better to ignore them than give them my attention.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:06:40 PM)
As usual, a great post and one whose sentiments I share. Life is too short to get fussed up over the morons you can easily ignore.

rulemylife -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:11:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather quote: But it always comes down to "tribute", sending money on Paypal, or their Amazon wishlist. Because your profile screams "one dimensional kink-centered HNG!!" And how the fuck does it do that? The only thing I talk about is serving with no sexual references.

ummmmNo -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:12:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery washing cleaning, hoovering , dusting, mopping floors, washing car, cleaning yard, cleaning toilets, ironing clothes, gardening and yard work will take more than a couple of hours. You try to be so naive to make me feel bad kevin Kevin, darlin, honey, sweetheart... Stop being dillusional. If you are cleaning EVERYDAY, eventually (unless the Domme is a TOTAL, PURPOSEFUL slob) it would only take a hour or two a day (inside and out). Cooking, may take you four hours total (making her breakfast, something to bring to lunch and a very nice dinner). So, being generous, I am saying that you would work six hours a day. That isn't enough to expect everything else to be handed to you. Again the point keeps getting missed here. Why is it ok for a man to support a woman in that fashion while a woman supporting a man is considered freeloading? My issue is with his attitude. He thinks that he DESERVES to be cared for, and not have to work. At least, that is how it comes across. I don't there is anything wrong with a woman supporting a man. Or a man supporting a woman. I just get pissed when people EXPECT it.

rulemylife -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:18:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Rule, I am not discounting your experience. I am saying that it is very possible you need to pursue a better class of 'red'. It has been MY experience that I see what I want to see. The rest is only something to tune out, ignore. I don't bother with it. Much like the silly emails I get with the name in blue. I know there are a lot but, unless they offer something that interests me, I tune them out. It is doubtful you will see me doing much posting in a thread lamenting crappy emails, posting examples of such. They are not important enough to even toy with in that regard. I accept that there are morons out there and that there is nothing I can do about it. It is better to ignore them than give them my attention. Agreed, but do me a favor and call me RML , because the mods get me mixed up with Rule and then I get in trouble for some of his posts.

HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:26:08 PM)
quote: And how the fuck does it do that? The only thing I talk about is serving with no sexual references. You answered your own question.

rulemylife -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:28:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo My issue is with his attitude. He thinks that he DESERVES to be cared for, and not have to work. At least, that is how it comes across. I don't there is anything wrong with a woman supporting a man. Or a man supporting a woman. I just get pissed when people EXPECT it. Why is that? If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility? They are sacrificing their life to serve you.

rulemylife -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:34:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather quote: And how the fuck does it do that? The only thing I talk about is serving with no sexual references. You answered your own question. Well, you are going to have to elaborate because I have no idea what you are trying to say.

ummmmNo -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:40:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife Why is that? If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility? They are sacrificing their life to serve you. I'm a sub, so I will never own a slave. But, as a submissive, I find serving to be a gift. It gives me GREAT pleasure to serve a Dominant. So, I am going to assume that it is similar for a slave. How is serving a sacrifice then? Also, the Dominant is giving you instruction, attention and time. You aren't taking that into account. They have to work, too. I have Dommed (eh) before. It was very difficult. You have to take into consideration what you are doing to the submissive, how they are responding, where you want them to go physically and mentally, and then decide how to get there. It isn't as easy as you think.

HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:43:27 PM)
From your profile the only thing there is to you is grovelling. There's no person there, just a faceless, soulless kink.

rulemylife -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:46:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife Why is that? If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility? They are sacrificing their life to serve you. I'm a sub, so I will never own a slave. But, as a submissive, I find serving to be a gift. It gives me GREAT pleasure to serve a Dominant. So, I am going to assume that it is similar for a slave. How is serving a sacrifice then? Also, the Dominant is giving you instruction, attention and time. You aren't taking that into account. They have to work, too. I have Dommed (eh) before. It was very difficult. You have to take into consideration what you are doing to the submissive, how they are responding, where you want them to go physically and mentally, and then decide how to get there. It isn't as easy as you think. If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes.

ummmmNo -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:49:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife Why is that? If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility? They are sacrificing their life to serve you. I'm a sub, so I will never own a slave. But, as a submissive, I find serving to be a gift. It gives me GREAT pleasure to serve a Dominant. So, I am going to assume that it is similar for a slave. How is serving a sacrifice then? Also, the Dominant is giving you instruction, attention and time. You aren't taking that into account. They have to work, too. I have Dommed (eh) before. It was very difficult. You have to take into consideration what you are doing to the submissive, how they are responding, where you want them to go physically and mentally, and then decide how to get there. It isn't as easy as you think. If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes. You don't think dominance takes commitment? Also, don't you get pleasure out of serving? To me, that's the BIGGEST reason why I serve. Not because I expect anything out of it, not even orgasms. (Though, those are always welcomed.)

rulemylife -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:50:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather From your profile the only thing there is to you is grovelling. There's no person there, just a faceless, soulless kink. Well gee Sunshine, what would you like to know about me? I posted the profile based on this being a kink site. I didn't know I needed to list my life history.

HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:54:36 PM)
quote: If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes. I am a sub or slave, or whatever you want to call it and it is easy. It takes very little commitment to submit, that is what I get off doing. Some of the individual things I am required to do require a LOT of commitment, but just serving does not. It's what I want to do, how committed do you have to be to do what you want to do?

ummmmNo -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:57:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather quote: If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes. I am a sub or slave, or whatever you want to call it and it is easy. It takes very little commitment to submit, that is what I get off doing. Some of the individual things I am required to do require a LOT of commitment, but just serving does not. It's what I want to do, how committed do you have to be to do what you want to do? What she said.

rulemylife -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 8:58:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo You don't think dominance takes commitment? Also, don't you get pleasure out of serving? To me, that's the BIGGEST reason why I serve. Not because I expect anything out of it, not even orgasms. (Though, those are always welcomed.) I do get pleasure out out of serving and I don't expect anything in return. But doesn't that contradict what you just said about dominance taking commitment?

ummmmNo -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 9:02:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife Why is that? If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility? They are sacrificing their life to serve you. I'm a sub, so I will never own a slave. But, as a submissive, I find serving to be a gift. It gives me GREAT pleasure to serve a Dominant. So, I am going to assume that it is similar for a slave. How is serving a sacrifice then? Also, the Dominant is giving you instruction, attention and time. You aren't taking that into account. They have to work, too. I have Dommed (eh) before. It was very difficult. You have to take into consideration what you are doing to the submissive, how they are responding, where you want them to go physically and mentally, and then decide how to get there. It isn't as easy as you think. If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes. You don't think dominance takes commitment? Also, don't you get pleasure out of serving? To me, that's the BIGGEST reason why I serve. Not because I expect anything out of it, not even orgasms. (Though, those are always welcomed.) I do get pleasure out out of serving and I don't expect anything in return. But doesn't that contradict what you just said about dominance taking commitment? How so? To be dominated, a Dominant has to put for effort so that can take place. Just like a submissive has to put for effort to serve/submit. Both of those actions take commitment. (I didn't think I would have to spell this bit out.) Also, if you don't expect anything in return, why are you worried about someone providing for you?

HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Big difference between master and mistresses looking for slaves (9/6/2011 9:04:38 PM)
quote: Well gee Sunshine, what would you like to know about me? Personally, nothing. But if I were a het Domme I suspect I would want to know something, anything. Is there going to be anything we have to talk about other than you obsequiously thanking me for letting you serve me? You present yourself as solely interested in grovelling and begging, pretty much exactly the type who is looking for a findomme. And that is why you run into them, the Dommes who are not into that pass you by because they are interested in an actual person, not just some guy who wants to crawl.

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