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ORIGINAL: Rule

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
English is not her primary language

Indeed, I had guessed as much.

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
based on where she lives, she's been taught a very formal version. If she was educated in Malta (where her profile states she is from), her English is excellent.

Indeed, I agree.

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
That doesn't help with whatever issues you have with her content

I have issues with her content? That is interesting and new to me. Pray tell what my issues with her content are? I would like to know. You may quote me on these issues, please?

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Funny, most women I know from here are NOT after anything on your list. They are simply looking for a s-type that sincerely wants to serve rather than look to get their kinks served by some fantasy woman.......and a man that has their life in order.

Apparently they are as rare as hen's teeth.

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

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But it always comes down to "tribute", sending money on Paypal, or their Amazon wishlist.

Because your profile screams "one dimensional kink-centered HNG!!"

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: ummmmNo

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

washing cleaning, hoovering , dusting, mopping floors, washing car, cleaning yard, cleaning toilets, ironing clothes, gardening and yard work will take more than a couple of hours. You try to be so naive to make me feel bad
kevin

Kevin, darlin, honey, sweetheart...

Stop being dillusional. If you are cleaning EVERYDAY, eventually (unless the Domme is a TOTAL, PURPOSEFUL slob) it would only take a hour or two a day (inside and out). Cooking, may take you four hours total (making her breakfast, something to bring to lunch and a very nice dinner). So, being generous, I am saying that you would work six hours a day. That isn't enough to expect everything else to be handed to you.

Again the point keeps getting missed here.

Why is it ok for a man to support a woman in that fashion while a woman supporting a man is considered freeloading?

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Rule, I am not discounting your experience. I am saying that it is very possible you need to pursue a better class of 'red'.

It has been MY experience that I see what I want to see. The rest is only something to tune out, ignore. I don't bother with it. Much like the silly emails I get with the name in blue. I know there are a lot but, unless they offer something that interests me, I tune them out.

It is doubtful you will see me doing much posting in a thread lamenting crappy emails, posting examples of such. They are not important enough to even toy with in that regard. I accept that there are morons out there and that there is nothing I can do about it. It is better to ignore them than give them my attention.

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And how the fuck does it do that?

The only thing I talk about is serving with no sexual references.

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ORIGINAL: ummmmNo


My issue is with his attitude. He thinks that he DESERVES to be cared for, and not have to work. At least, that is how it comes across.

I don't there is anything wrong with a woman supporting a man. Or a man supporting a woman. I just get pissed when people EXPECT it.

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

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And how the fuck does it do that?

The only thing I talk about is serving with no sexual references.

You answered your own question.

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

Why is that?

If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility?

They are sacrificing their life to serve you.

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ORIGINAL: ummmmNo

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

Why is that?

If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility?

They are sacrificing their life to serve you.

I'm a sub, so I will never own a slave. But, as a submissive, I find serving to be a gift. It gives me GREAT pleasure to serve a Dominant. So, I am going to assume that it is similar for a slave. How is serving a sacrifice then? Also, the Dominant is giving you instruction, attention and time. You aren't taking that into account. They have to work, too.

I have Dommed (eh) before. It was very difficult. You have to take into consideration what you are doing to the submissive, how they are responding, where you want them to go physically and mentally, and then decide how to get there. It isn't as easy as you think.

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: ummmmNo

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

Why is that?

If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility?

They are sacrificing their life to serve you.

I'm a sub, so I will never own a slave. But, as a submissive, I find serving to be a gift. It gives me GREAT pleasure to serve a Dominant. So, I am going to assume that it is similar for a slave. How is serving a sacrifice then? Also, the Dominant is giving you instruction, attention and time. You aren't taking that into account. They have to work, too.

I have Dommed (eh) before. It was very difficult. You have to take into consideration what you are doing to the submissive, how they are responding, where you want them to go physically and mentally, and then decide how to get there. It isn't as easy as you think.

If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes.

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

From your profile the only thing there is to you is grovelling. There's no person there, just a faceless, soulless kink.

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If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes.

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

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If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes.

I am a sub or slave, or whatever you want to call it and it is easy. It takes very little commitment to submit, that is what I get off doing. Some of the individual things I am required to do require a LOT of commitment, but just serving does not. It's what I want to do, how committed do you have to be to do what you want to do?

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ORIGINAL: ummmmNo

You don't think dominance takes commitment?

Also, don't you get pleasure out of serving? To me, that's the BIGGEST reason why I serve. Not because I expect anything out of it, not even orgasms. (Though, those are always welcomed.)

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: ummmmNo

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: ummmmNo

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

Why is that?

If you own a slave isn't that your responsibility?

They are sacrificing their life to serve you.

I'm a sub, so I will never own a slave. But, as a submissive, I find serving to be a gift. It gives me GREAT pleasure to serve a Dominant. So, I am going to assume that it is similar for a slave. How is serving a sacrifice then? Also, the Dominant is giving you instruction, attention and time. You aren't taking that into account. They have to work, too.

I have Dommed (eh) before. It was very difficult. You have to take into consideration what you are doing to the submissive, how they are responding, where you want them to go physically and mentally, and then decide how to get there. It isn't as easy as you think.

If you are a sub then you should understand the commitment it takes.

You don't think dominance takes commitment?

Also, don't you get pleasure out of serving? To me, that's the BIGGEST reason why I serve. Not because I expect anything out of it, not even orgasms. (Though, those are always welcomed.)

I do get pleasure out out of serving and I don't expect anything in return.

But doesn't that contradict what you just said about dominance taking commitment?

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Well gee Sunshine, what would you like to know about me?