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masterdom718 -> Pile of crap (9/8/2011 2:44:34 PM)

How many think this site is a pile of shit. been on this site for months either your ad is answer your reply and then it ends. doms act like criminals and subs and so called slaves think there doms and you wind up getting insulted by them, either one don't know what they want. In all the months I've been on this thing I talked to a woman almost my age who live in my area who says shes a sub, it was like talking to my uncle long distance.
another one who is suppose to be a slave wound up insulting left and right for no reason.
This sight is a pile of shit nobody meet anyone its just used to lets steam off and for everyone to have there jollys. I think I'll quit this crap and try to find women the conventional way who way more normal the junk of hear.




Lockit -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 2:48:41 PM)

You found my lost cactus didn't you! I'm sorry I lost it up your ass.




Arpig -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 2:51:45 PM)

I don't know what you're doing wrong, but judging from your post, I'd hazard a guess that maybe you're just a shitty communicator.




Adorah -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:01:04 PM)

Well, probably lucky for those submissives that they don't get involved with someone who can 'quit this shit' at their first few disappointments. If you're searching for a mate, you really can't expect to have the perfect person just dropped in your lap because you signed up here. If you want someone to pretend to like you, then maybe a hooker is what you want.




SailingBum -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:02:21 PM)

uhhh you get what you give.. nuff said

BadOne




slaveluci -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:05:16 PM)

I'll have to be sure to tell my master/husband of 5+ years that I met here that "no one" meets "anyone" here. He'll be shocked[sm=jaw.gif][sm=jaw.gif]

luci




PeonForHer -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:14:44 PM)

Mdom,

It's hard to steer through the problems meeting with people here anyway, but you're at a serious disadvantage if you can't communicate in writing. I didn't understand some of what you said here because you'd not phrased it carefully. I think you need to work on written communication. In the meantime, try doing an audio for your profile, and one which conveys your personality. That could help a lot.





LadyHibiscus -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:20:13 PM)

Or harm...




M4S73R -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:22:06 PM)

Awfully whinny for a Dom. just saying




Missokyst -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:29:18 PM)

YAY!! One down....

quote:

ORIGINAL: masterdom718
I think I'll quit this crap and try to find women the conventional way who way more normal the junk of hear.





NocturnalStalker -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:42:13 PM)

And oh look, somebody doesn't like this site so something *HAS* to be wrong with them.

Stay classy, CMsters.




art4YOU -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:44:44 PM)

quote:

How many think this site is a pile of shit. been on this site for months either your ad is answer your reply and then it ends. doms act like criminals and subs and so called slaves think there doms and you wind up getting insulted by them, either one don't know what they want. In all the months I've been on this thing I talked to a woman almost my age who live in my area who says shes a sub, it was like talking to my uncle long distance.
another one who is suppose to be a slave wound up insulting left and right for no reason.
This sight is a pile of shit nobody meet anyone its just used to lets steam off and for everyone to have there jollys. I think I'll quit this crap and try to find women the conventional way who way more normal the junk of hear.


Sorry you feel tis way. this is your first post and i do not think you are making a great first impression.
i have found CM to be a treasure trove of interesting people...when i first got here many Dommes, Doms and subs, slaves helped me with my profile and helped me rethink MY attitude.

this is NOT a "do me" spot you must make an effort but it IS wiorth it...2 years ago i was just back from Texas no hopes etc. Now thanks to lots of coaching from so may of You here (you know who You are and thanks again) i am a slave owned by a Mistress . We met here and are having a great time.

You may try editing your rants before sending them and relax a little bit and let the good things happen. this isn't your magic genie where you rub your hands together and your dream situation occurs.

CM is an awsome spot where the "Magic" does happen if it does not for you then look inside you not at the program.




ThundersCry -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:44:59 PM)

Leave, then...
Thats NOT rocket science...
CM won`t fall apart!




Hisprettybaby -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:45:11 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: masterdom718

How many think this site is a pile of shit. been on this site for months either your ad is answer your reply and then it ends. doms act like criminals and subs and so called slaves think there doms and you wind up getting insulted by them, either one don't know what they want. In all the months I've been on this thing I talked to a woman almost my age who live in my area who says shes a sub, it was like talking to my uncle long distance.
another one who is suppose to be a slave wound up insulting left and right for no reason.
This sight is a pile of shit nobody meet anyone its just used to lets steam off and for everyone to have there jollys. I think I'll quit this crap and try to find women the conventional way who way more normal the junk of hear.


WTF!? Is all that complaining meant to impress? Because if that was your aim, you've failed miserably. Who pissed in YOUR Wheaties? According to your joining date, you've been on here all of two and a half weeks (NOT "months") and you're already complaining? It takes TIME to meet the right person, either online or in real life. You wouldn't expect to just walk up to a stranger on the street and expect her to fall madly for you...or would you?

Just because you click the "Dominant" box on your profile, it doesn't mean you will be instantly swarmed with endless submissives and/or slaves willing to kiss your feet and multiple other body parts. You aren't THEIR Dominant until they agree to it so, until then, you are just two people getting to know one another.

Subs/slaves are people too with individual preferences. There are a lot of them out there and they also get to choose because it works both ways. Sometimes you just have to wait for the ones you want to choose you. For that to happen, a more positive attitude goes a long ways. Oh, and learn to communicate better...correct punctuation, grammar, capitalization, etc. Your OP was very shittily written.

~Hisprettybaby~




art4YOU -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:47:10 PM)

quote:

You found my lost cactus didn't you! I'm sorry I lost it up your ass.


You are the greatest and always know just what to say...i almost spewed my drink when i read Your post. thanks for the laugh




LadyPact -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:58:34 PM)

Here's the key to this whole thing. 

The internet form of meeting people is no different than it is in the physical world.  If you're not swarming in chicks that are interested in engaging in D/s with you when you walk out of your front door, don't expect that to magically happen just because you filled out a profile. 




Aileen1968 -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 3:58:41 PM)

You live in Brooklyn NY, a stones throw from NYC which is probably the most vibrant, energetic and greatest city on this planet and coincidentally is filled with millions of people , and you can't find anyone?
Must be you.




PeonForHer -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 4:03:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Here's the key to this whole thing. 

The internet form of meeting people is no different than it is in the physical world. 



It bloody is, LP. I mean, Jesus, I'll throw modesty aside: If my real-time world were like my time on CM, I'd have been snogged, bitten, screwed and quite likely buggered to death by now.




BonesFromAsh -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 4:11:42 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: masterdom718
been on this site for months either your ad is answer your reply and then it ends.


[sm=dunno.gif] Sorry, I tried using Bing Translator and even it was stumped.

Seriously, you're in Brooklyn...you've got more than enough bdsm munches/clubs/events in your area. Get offline and explore. I would expect a "master dom" to at least be willing to try.




fragilepieces -> RE: Pile of crap (9/8/2011 4:12:45 PM)

MD718,


    I can understand the frustration---and at times I think everyone feels that this site is a pile of crap.   I have been on and off this site since roughly 2005--I changed my name a few times.   Sometimes I was looking, other times I was not, but when I was looking it WAS frustrating as hell.   It seemed that no one ever read my profile---even though the first line was in bold black letters and underlined saying I only dated African American men---I still got several messages daily from others.   I'd send out messages and never get replies or worse yet I would read a fantastic profile and begin chatting with someone who was unable to type a coherent message--or someone who just wanted to see boobies on a web  cam.   On those days, yes this site seemed like a pile of crap.    However, I did recently meet someone here.   We talked several months, I hopped a bus and well... point is MD718 dating period is frustrating.   Hang in there.  




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