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Endivius -> RE: Fulfilling submissives fantasies (9/8/2011 9:15:32 PM)
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We are pretty open about most things in our relationship, and when it comes to fantasy talk, I allways enjoy what the girls come up with, but it was not allways this way. When we first started out, getting the ladies to open up about thier deepest fantasies was more difficult than I thought it would be. I figured if I asked they would tell me, but I had the sense they were holding back. It took a little ingenuity, and this is how I worked it out :
I had a hat that sat on a barstool, when they had a fantasy they put it on one of thier notecards and droped it in the hat, every couple of days I pull one out and if I felt like doing it. I did. If not, I grab another card or just wait another day or two. Since they have distinctly different hand writting, it was easy to tell who's fantasy was who's.
After a few fantasy nights, I'd ask them what they enjoyed the most. Some were fairly tame and ordinary, some were amazingly hot, others were hard limits and were passed over. This allowed them to really open up about thier fantasy play, and after a couple of weeks, I didn't have to use a hat anymore. They were no longer worried about feeling shamed, and the ones that were passed over were discussed privately. This got the ball rolling since the girls really came to realize they had similiar fantasies, and playing together became a regular occurence. Now the two of them are like schemers, they try to come up with the most amazing things. [:D]
I love fullfilling thier fantasies, but on my terms. I choose what and when, and it's like a surprise for them when we do one. The best part is, many of thier fantasies are very similiar to my own. Wich surprised me, at first. I love kinky women!
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