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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/11/2011 6:48:53 PM

Epytropos

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It sounds as though you are seeking information on Topping, and not so much Dominating,
and believe it or not, there is an app for that.

I'm absurdly disappointed that this is a book and not an Android app that makes helpful suggestions during scenes.

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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/11/2011 9:11:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: Epytropos

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ORIGINAL: poise

It sounds as though you are seeking information on Topping, and not so much Dominating,
and believe it or not, there is an app for that.

I'm absurdly disappointed that this is a book and not an Android app that makes helpful suggestions during scenes.

For the right amount of cash you could probably hire some 'professional doms' to feed you cues via earpiece and send diagrams via cool video implanted glasses! It'd be like dominants of the future as special agents of all things kinky! You could even wear a suit like Bond!

*Suitcase full of tools and toys comes seperately.

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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/12/2011 12:55:24 AM

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I know it probably sounds incredibly snippy, but your use of the word "dominate" rather than "dominant" really is a big big red flag for me.

It's hardly inspiring to encounter someone who appears to have confused the verb for the noun (and for the grammarians, I'm aware that "dominant" is also an adjective and is more commonly used as such).

Put it this way, I'd never hire someone who described him or herself as a "plumbing engineering" rather than a "pumbing engineer". It just doesn't inspire confidence.

But, pedantry aside....

I have some sympathy for Awareness' point of view - there are certainly some (pretty crucial) aspects to Dominance that just can't be taught. As others have said - there are LOADS of ways to pick up skills in specific techniques (lots of events run workshops on flogging/ropework etc etc).

That said, having someone you can natter to (which you can think of as "natural mentoring") is always useful. I'm not a big fan of online mentoring or mentoring via correspondence though -I think you just need to make a friend who is dominant - consider going to munches, or engaging with one of the many really sorted D types here and have a conversation with that person from time to time!

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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/12/2011 3:49:49 AM

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I'm absurdly disappointed that this is a book and not an Android app that makes helpful suggestions during scenes.

Me too. How cool would that be, eh?

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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/12/2011 4:40:10 AM

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I'm absurdly disappointed that this is a book and not an Android app that makes helpful suggestions during scenes.
Me too. How cool would that be, eh?

Great. Now people are going to be checking their phones DURING sex.

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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/12/2011 5:11:07 AM

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Can you hear me now?

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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/12/2011 5:17:46 AM

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SHUT UP!!!!

Ok what were you saying? I pour the wax where?

Uh huh...uh huh... And then - SHUT UP!!! I'M ON THE PHONE!!! You were saying?

Ok, let me just put you on speaker, this latex suite just doesn't have any pockets. God I need a new suite.

Hang on, I think he passed out again...Hello? Can you hear me? Ugh fucking T-Mobile.

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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/12/2011 7:46:54 AM

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Who thought my post would become so funny. But I appreciate everyone's insight

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RE: looking for a male dominate mentor - 9/12/2011 11:46:57 AM

Awareness

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ORIGINAL: Epytropos

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

It sounds as though you are seeking information on Topping, and not so much Dominating,
and believe it or not, there is an app for that.

I'm absurdly disappointed that this is a book and not an Android app that makes helpful suggestions during scenes.

That's AutoDom 2.0 - the latest version is compatible with all Bluetooth-enabled toys and fucking machines.

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