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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

The real question here is would you tone down your sadism if it applies to You , tone down dungeon building if it applies, tone down buying adult toys and otherwise creating your slavery world should it apply as a result of these revelations. Does it scare You that You might be found out as a result of this investigation, does it scare You that a whistleblower in your community might blow your cover so to speak and expose your practices, consensual as they are
kevin

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

The real question here is would you tone down your sadism if it applies to You , tone down dungeon building if it applies, tone down buying adult toys and otherwise creating your slavery world should it apply as a result of these revelations. Does it scare You that You might be found out as a result of this investigation, does it scare You that a whistleblower in your community might blow your cover so to speak and expose your practices, consensual as they are
kevin

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

its topical so i thought i would throw it out there. Nothing to do with misogyny by the way, quite the opposite
kevin

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Well actually for Your information one woman was arrested was question by police and subsequently discharged. She is pregnant but is expected to be further questioned by police later. While its true that it was mostly men, how can anyone say the whole plan might not have been the brain child of a Woman, we cant say for certain that it was but we cant say for certain that it wasnt, Women can be very crafty You know i should know, been there, experienced their deception
kevin

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Ladies
Given the revelations about recent slavery practices in the Uk where 24 men were discovered malnourished and kept in horse boxes dog kennels and grubby mobile homes, are You concerned that Your site will be discovered by the authorities and that You could be arrested on servitude or slavery charges. Simple as are You concerned that someone in the community will blow the whistle on You?
kevin

kevin, first off I want to say that I am glad that those poor souls were rescued...and I hope that the police are vigilant to arrest those who are exploiting non-consensual slaves.

Do I think they are likely to over react and go after BDSMers?  Ah...nope. 

Back to your questions.  No, I don't have a site.  If you are referring to this site I enjoy spending time at...I don't see the stables and kennels and slaves chained to basement walls.   Also, this place is not a secret, and I am sure many of us are tested in subtle ways by other users to see if we are predators; I know I have been part of a study more than once, and several times over the years I have been contacted by people who questioned whether I was into using legal loopholes to enslave someone...I'm not, so it was a short conversation.  All of this is just part of being online, so I deal with it.

Am I concerned that someone in the community will blow the whistle on me?  For owning one male sub?  (Who is totally besotted with me and begs me to hit him harder...?  And yes, sometimes I will grin widely and refuse.) 

There are no financial transactions involved.  When we walk around together in public we get smiles because we are always tethered by some physical contact of sorts, in a sappy sort of way and not in the "Get a room, will ya!" sort of way.  To the world, he is my boyfriend and we are vanilla dating; what we do in private is OUR business.

I would think the media would find it comical if someone "blew the whistle on me"...to dig up info and learn that my sub has his own home, has made us a cross and other bondage furniture, and is building us a soundproof dungeon in his home to play in so that he can safely get noisy if he wants to.  He visits all sorts of friends as well as family...and they all like me.  My boy would defend me and our relationship to his last breath. 

To recap, his family knows he is is owned and into BDSM.  My family and friends also know that I own him and that we are into BDSM. 

Yes, he is asked what the big chain with the heart padlock around his neck means.  He explains, also telling them that he doesn't own the keys; I do. 

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The real question here is would you tone down your sadism if it applies to You , tone down dungeon building if it applies, tone down buying adult toys and otherwise creating your slavery world should it apply as a result of these revelations. Does it scare You that You might be found out as a result of this investigation, does it scare You that a whistleblower in your community might blow your cover so to speak and expose your practices, consensual as they are
kevin

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
I can tell time, analog or digital.

showoff

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Yeah.  I'd better quit that before somebody tries saying that you're just My sock puppet again.