MileHighM -> RE: "Personhood" movement is Christian-Sharia Law... (9/14/2011 10:16:55 AM)
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ORIGINAL: tolovetolaugh I have worked with several women on welfare, who had children, and wanted more. Some of them purposely got pregnant while ON welfare, and then when the baby popped out just got them covered as well. The whole time the growing family is either still living with the parents, or in a crummy apartment with another family, with the children never dressed right, nor given proper nutrition, and the mom is always going out and spending their welfare money on luxury items and complaining she doesn't have money for school supplies. I also don't believe that a 14 yo can make a well informed decision that is not solely based on emotion to have a child. And mistakes while they will come to be loved, are also so easy to prevent, allowing that same teenager to grow up, go to school, and when ready have a child.. This is where my stance comes from. ETA fixed a typo I hear you. That is a serious concern considering some women make having welfare babies a means of earning a living. That is more of a question to the welfare state than it is to the morality of forced birth control and legal abortion. True a 14yo can rarely make an informed decision on having a child. However, there are 30yos who are less capable than some teenagers to make that decision. I have a dear friend who had a child at 16. They are doing quite well and that 12 yo is quite well adjusted and never went on welfare. Now, I know that is neither normal nor an exeption. At the end of the day we need a society that places great value on personal responsibility and good parenting. No amount of regulation will ever substitute for those things.
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