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self governance - 9/18/2011 3:36:43 PM   
Cascadian


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Status: offline 		There are many wonderful subs/slaves but we also have a very big problem with people who are not really in the life who try to exploit the lifestyle.
I am talking about people looking for a free ride,  with no real commitment to obedience, generally disgracing the sub/slave position and those that are committed to the lifestyle.
As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?
Are you willing to self police ? Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?
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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 3:41:01 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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Status: offline 		And away we go. Here comes yet ANOTHER "real and true" thread. There are a gazillion of those out there already. (1)Fake to you might be real and true to someone else and vice versa, and (2)if you're reporting people so they can be investigated, naming names is against the TOS and it's blackballing. NOT a good idea.

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 3:43:24 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Oh... well, I haven't seen one of these in a while...

Im going to go pop some pop corn and pull up a seat for the show.

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 3:47:53 PM   
barelynangel


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Status: offline 		Damn bad subs and slaves, i've told you all and told you all to nip the shenanigans of the subs and slaves in the butt before they take over, but did you listen -- noooooo.   Now, we have abuse of the position being cited. 

My question is who gets to be the judge, attorneys, prosecutors, and jury???  I GUESS we can have some people who can be the carryoutters of the sentence on these degenerits -- is that how it's spelled?

angel

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 3:50:24 PM   
Aileen1968


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cascadian

There are many wonderful subs/slaves but we also have a very big problem with people who are not really in the life who try to exploit the lifestyle.
I am talking about people looking for a free ride,  with no real commitment to obedience, generally disgracing the sub/slave position and those that are committed to the lifestyle.
As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?
Are you willing to self police ? Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?


I could care less how others live their life or participate in bdsm.
Doesn't affect me one bit. We don't do anything publicly. This is how we live our lives, not by putting on a show for anyone.
Do you give a shit how a vanilla couple interacts? Why do you care how others, who happen to have bdsm in common with you, interact?
And who has given you the right to judge what is right or wrong?

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 3:57:15 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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7.3.3. Any posts with personally identifying information about another person without
that person's prior explicit consent;

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 4:07:06 PM   
SoulAlloy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: barelynangel
My question is who gets to be the judge, attorneys, prosecutors, and jury???  I GUESS we can have some people who can be the carryoutters of the sentence on these degenerits -- is that how it's spelled?

angel


"Degenerates" I think...

What's the sentence? I'm sure I could find some that enjoy being locked up and tortured

in response to the OP i would say not a good idea, not only for the reasons already given, but simply as I believe in being open minded, and invite learning from these experiences rather than segregation.

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 4:10:54 PM   
DarkSteven


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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 4:31:21 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

I'm sure I could find some that enjoy being locked up and tortured

Only if it involves beating on a regular basis...oh, and knives...must have knives....

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 4:35:39 PM   
zephyroftheNorth


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Status: offline 		so you're offering? That's nice of you.

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 5:10:16 PM   
coookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cascadian

There are many wonderful subs/slaves but we also have a very big problem with people who are not really in the life who try to exploit the lifestyle.
I am talking about people looking for a free ride,  with no real commitment to obedience, generally disgracing the sub/slave position and those that are committed to the lifestyle.
As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?
Are you willing to self police ? Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?


I dont really see this as a big problem personally

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 5:43:46 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Well, goodness, what about the people going around masquerading as Doms/Masters? You know, the ones that are so silly that they think they can pronounce intent upon the actions of others? That's pretty darned blind as well as disrespectful, I could even say that it would be a disgrace for someone to abuse the position of Master in that way. But perhaps we should have a policing boards of Masters in order to keep their ranks clean of people who would perhaps embarrass them by being infantile and oh so petty, while delusions of grandeur danced in their heads.

Gracious no I wouldn't be willing to pronounce a thing on any other s type here and honestly...if a 'master' thought he could come in and 'check' for slaviness I'd probably get a stomachache from laughing myself delirious. You knock yourself out though with that concept. Actually, would love to know your criteria - care to share? I feel like masterbaiting tonight

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 6:09:31 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


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Status: offline 		Never mind, somebody said both things already. I snooze, I lose.


< Message edited by HeatherMcLeather -- 9/18/2011 6:10:39 PM >

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 6:20:54 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		eerrmm..no one degrades my life as a slave except Master <not that he does >. What anyone else does with their private life is of absolutely zero concern of mine.

Be a big boy or girl and pull up your panties and get on with your life. Wtf does it matter to you what others do?


< Message edited by littlewonder -- 9/18/2011 6:22:35 PM >

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 6:21:50 PM   
NuevaVida


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cascadian


As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?


I am not personally degraded by how others live their lives.  I can not fathom how I could be.

My "lifestyle" is what goes on within our four walls.


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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 6:26:40 PM   
JanahX


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cascadian

There are many wonderful subs/slaves but we also have a very big problem with people who are not really in the life who try to exploit the lifestyle.
I am talking about people looking for a free ride,  with no real commitment to obedience, generally disgracing the sub/slave position and those that are committed to the lifestyle.
As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?
Are you willing to self police ? Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?


ahhh yes, another wonderful person so wrapped up in their own ego, that they think that everyone does and thinks the same way they do, and if they dont then they are in the wrong and need to be reported to .... the cyber police.

Must be lonely thinking that everyone else is wrong all the time and that youre the only one who is right.

fuck you.

< Message edited by JanahX -- 9/18/2011 6:27:26 PM >

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 6:58:33 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		I'm a little confused as to how the OP would police the "false subs/slaves" - and what would the OP do with the bad ones. ..... and who determines who the falsies are.

It just boggles the mind - even thinking about how you would go about it - inquisitions?????

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 7:06:09 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		No, we do not at all endorse blacklisting op. And be grateful we don't, because if we did, people who put up posts like yours would be at the top of the list.

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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 7:59:50 PM   
MasterSlaveLA


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I ran your post through my new fangled Idiot Translator and here are the results...

quote:

ORIGINAL: Cascadian

Blah, Blah, Blah... NOBODY WILL FUCK ME.... Blah, Blah, Blah... SO I'M HERE TO WHINE ABOUT IT... Blah, Blah, Blah...







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RE: self governance - 9/18/2011 8:38:44 PM   
ProlificNeeds


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Status: offline 		I don't live 'the lifestyle' and I'm not part of a special 'community'. I don't even identify as a sub or slave it's just a button on this website, so really none of it bothers me. I am infact glad to not be part of this special, helmet society you speak of with bad people in it. I mean who would want to be part of a society with bad people in it?

Thank god I live in utopia.

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