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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 12:14:22 AM

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 7:20:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: Cascadian

There are many wonderful subs/slaves but we also have a very big problem with people who are not really in the life who try to exploit the lifestyle.
I am talking about people looking for a free ride, with no real commitment to obedience, generally disgracing the sub/slave position and those that are committed to the lifestyle.
As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?
Are you willing to self police ? Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?

There's also a whole bunch of people that label themselves "doms" because they think submissives are stupid and easy.

How other people approach this isn't my concern. I do this to make myself and my partner happy in our relationship. I can't police the world and if I could, this issue certainly isn't the first one I'd tackle.

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 8:23:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: Cascadian
As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?
Are you willing to self police ? Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?

Firstly, I don't understand how anyone else' behavior degrades me. Personally, I don't think their behavior impacts me at all. It certainly doesn't degrade me.

But if you have any success assembling your lynch mob, I'll be glad to serve as executioner.

I guess I should go sharpen my axe.

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 8:39:06 AM

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As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?

As a slave I am utterly unaffected by whatever it is that is bothering you.

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Are you willing to self police ?

Oh golly no, why would I want to waste time and effort on that when you are stepping forward to police us all anyway. You do it, I'm just going to flit about gayly and degrade a lifestyle or two.

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Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?

I think that's a wonderful idea!! You could do it. That way you could spend your entire life investigating every petty little squabble and misadventure. You could be like the Solomon of BDSM. Just imagine the pride on our faces when our owners pin the "Cascadian Legit Slave Seal of Approval" badge to our nipples.

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 8:43:23 AM

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Thank god I live in utopia.

You do? I haven't seen you around here, when did you move in?

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 8:44:47 AM

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Yeah. I think I'm going to go get some lunch now.

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 11:03:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

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Thank god I live in utopia.
You do? I haven't seen you around here, when did you move in?

I'm in the utopia three doors up, with the blue door.

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 11:55:23 AM

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An Arab proverb goes, "Stick not thy nose into the business of others." If you feel they are fake, block them. Beyond that it is neither your concern nor ours.

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 5:24:55 PM

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Damn - those Arabs are good!

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 5:40:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: Cascadian
Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to
investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?

I would have answered this sooner, but I was happily tethered to the bedposts,
and Master was having his way with me.
When he was through with me, I had hours and hours of chores that needed doing,
and by then it was nightfall, and Master does not allow me to think past 8PM.

Now that I am free (no pun intended) Master would like me to pass on this message to you.

You must be one stupid and lazy sonofabeech to have to resort to a list to determine if
someone was legit. Lord help any slave that finds themselves in your proximity.

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 8:59:12 PM

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I'm in the utopia three doors up, with the blue door.

That's a really nice looking utopia. Is it as cozy as it looks from the outside?

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RE: self governance - 9/19/2011 9:08:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: Cascadian
Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to
investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?

I would have answered this sooner, but I was happily tethered to the bedposts,
and Master was having his way with me.
When he was through with me, I had hours and hours of chores that needed doing,
and by then it was nightfall, and Master does not allow me to think past 8PM.

Now that I am free (no pun intended) Master would like me to pass on this message to you.

You must be one stupid and lazy sonofabeech to have to resort to a list to determine if
someone was legit. Lord help any slave that finds themselves in your proximity.

Quoted for truth and humour, a great combo!! (oh and some sexiness thrown in for good measure!)

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RE: self governance - 9/20/2011 12:05:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cascadian

There are many wonderful subs/slaves but we also have a very big problem with people who are not really in the life who try to exploit the lifestyle.
I am talking about people looking for a free ride, with no real commitment to obedience, generally disgracing the sub/slave position and those that are committed to the lifestyle.

I guess you met Kev...

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As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general?

They aren't allowed to have opinions, obviously you are opening a pandoras box!!

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Are you willing to self police ?

Perhaps Kev can be the chief of police.

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Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ?

I prefer the three finger test of authenticity. But the idea of pinning a badge of authenticity on the nipples shows promise. It's time to head over to hobby lobby.

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RE: self governance - 9/20/2011 5:36:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

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I'm in the utopia three doors up, with the blue door.
That's a really nice looking utopia. Is it as cozy as it looks from the outside?

It really is, it comes with an endless supply of chocolate and foot rubs. Of course just inside the door we have a list of all fakers, they ain't welcome in our utopia!

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RE: self governance - 9/20/2011 9:12:36 AM

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endless supply of chocolate

Mmmmmmmm.

<I hope there's an equally unlimited supply of insulin.

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RE: self governance - 9/20/2011 9:17:39 AM

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endless supply of chocolate
Mmmmmmmm.

<I hope there's an equally unlimited supply of insulin. >

Groan, there is, I am sadly also diabetic, so there's an endless supply of GUILT for eating the chocolate.. maybe it's not utopia afterall, utopia is suppose to be guilt free!

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RE: self governance - 9/20/2011 9:45:52 AM

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If all thos bothers you that much then my suggestion is for you to get off the internet. You are taking it all much too seriously and need to chilly out. Then, when you are calm, coo,l and sane again, go to munch. Munch is where people meet outside of cyber space.

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RE: self governance - 9/20/2011 12:50:10 PM

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I don't think it is any of my business how two people in another relationship treat each other. I don't judge other subs on the actions of a few idiots, so other than avoiding them, I really don't care what they do.

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RE: self governance - 9/20/2011 12:52:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

I'm a little confused as to how the OP would police the "false subs/slaves" - and what would the OP do with the bad ones. ..... and who determines who the falsies are.

It just boggles the mind - even thinking about how you would go about it - inquisitions?????

Hey... what is wrong with all of you people?! Everyone knows that if it's in writing on the internet that it must be true! I want a thread here where I can post that I'm legit!

Sheesh... How else is a domly dom or masterly master supposed to know if he's got a real live slavey slave or subby sub on his hands?

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RE: self governance - 9/20/2011 3:23:24 PM

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Same responses, same people....over and over and over...yawn. Do what works for you. Your gut can tell you alot.

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