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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/22/2011 3:41:24 AM

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for some people the whole financial domination thing is their *real*.

For others, visiting a professional is their *real* too.

It takes all sorts to make the world, kinky or otherwise.

It's not my kink, but it's certainly other people's kink...live and let live, I say.

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/24/2011 3:41:18 AM

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ya well however even if one is very tolerant and all... you can have your kink and there are always people for any crazy stuff, yet, see it in relation, scat is being mentiond here quite often, now how many dommes here advertise themselves as looking for that kink? basicly a classic and widespread yet borderline kink who few can wrap their heads around aswell, so quite a similiar kink with the only difference that you cant really make money by flinging round poo, yet you see maybe 5% of the dommes asking for that but like 80% asking for financial slavery which in turn tells me that findomme can not possibly be their actual kink but is a job... on which they should definately pay income tax :)

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/28/2011 3:55:47 AM

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I have a question do many of you have more the one person whom pays
you? Has anyone ever married one of their clients? I have respect for
most everyone, in the BDSM community so I just wish to hear what
you say to these question, I am not god I do not judge others!

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/28/2011 4:14:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtoyjay

ya well however even if one is very tolerant and all... you can have your kink and there are always people for any crazy stuff, yet, see it in relation, scat is being mentiond here quite often, now how many dommes here advertise themselves as looking for that kink? basicly a classic and widespread yet borderline kink who few can wrap their heads around aswell, so quite a similiar kink with the only difference that you cant really make money by flinging round poo, yet you see maybe 5% of the dommes asking for that but like 80% asking for financial slavery which in turn tells me that findomme can not possibly be their actual kink but is a job... on which they should definately pay income tax :)

Oh, you are terribly wrong. The gals who actually will do scat make bank. Might only be second in line to catering AB/DLs. Talk about finding the right niche.

On this site.... Hell to the fuck to the no. If I even put up a post saying that I enjoy things on the fringe, I might as well put a target on My back.

There definitely is money to be made.

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/28/2011 5:18:00 AM

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To echo LadyP, there's a lot of stuff that people DON'T put on their profiles because of the heat it will bring.

Some of the stuff that Master loves, he never mentioned. Fortunately I love them too, but I bet 90% of the femsub population would run screaming if it was mentioned

I have even removed the word 'masochist' from my profile because of the amount of crap messages I used to get from people determined to 'cure' me...or kill me....lol

So I guess the fact that it's not mentioned on the profile does not mean it's not there...you just need to get to know the person behind the profile to see what really makes them tick.

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/30/2011 12:19:43 AM

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I think we need to distinguish between pro dommes, and lots of "fake" profiles
Of "girls" demanding money up front, who obviously just want to make a quick buck fraudulently. There is definitely a getting trend on this and the police are very aware, it has even been on the national news this week as people ll over the country are being conned as they want to believe that it is not "fake". This is bad for everyone and undermines this otherwise excellent website.

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/30/2011 12:34:20 AM

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I don't find that the *ahem* fakes undermine my experience on the site, at all. I just use common sense, and it's alll good. *shrug*

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/30/2011 12:44:44 AM

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I disagree on the making a buck thing but that's my own opinion. ANYWAY, anyone else mind fielding this one? Little insight?

I do enjoy financial domination of my slaves.

What this means, however, maybe different as what some have presented it.

For one point, domination means control, not provision. Sometimes I am the only one earning a salary. But this is not important. The important matter is HOW the money is spent.

I decide how much my slave gets and for what. She has very limited pocket money, just for an emergency. After going to a coffee shop on her own, he is forced to ask me to refill that pocket money because if not, she is on dare need. I may ask her which coffee shop was it, and approve or disapprove, with related punishments associated to bad taste or the wrong moment.

She needs a new dress? She asks my permission, gets the money, buys the dress. Or I deny the permission, and then she does not get that dress.

Same for a book, a bag, or whatever she may need (or think she needs).

This is for me, financial domination. If she works or not, is irrelevant. If she does, the money goes to my bank account and the rest is exactly the same.

It is a way of micro-controlling, not a way to suck money in presents I probably myself won't enjoy much - I buy my own things I like, thanks, and so they match exactly what I want and how I want it.

Does this help for the insight?

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/30/2011 4:43:50 AM

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I know plenty of doms who have encouraged their sub to go pro sub and live happily off the earnings. I know a number of fem subs who are partnered up with guys making porn and using their little girls ass as a contribution to the household. I know subs that are working as pro dommes because they have been encouraged by their dominant to do so.
Some pro dommes and pro submissives are not into any of this when out of the professional dungeon. Some pro subs and pro dominants are hugely into this and have an array of non paying play partners when out of the professional dungeon.

Pro subbing and pro domination is seldom a kink and more often a means to an end. Why do people do it? because they can!

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RE: The Financial Domination Thing - 9/30/2011 5:26:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Chris24m

I think we need to distinguish between pro dommes, and lots of "fake" profiles
Of "girls" demanding money up front, who obviously just want to make a quick buck fraudulently. There is definitely a getting trend on this and the police are very aware, it has even been on the national news this week as people ll over the country are being conned as they want to believe that it is not "fake". This is bad for everyone and undermines this otherwise excellent website.

I'd like a link please. Thank you.

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