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And here I am - 9/20/2011 2:38:21 PM

Qlita

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I wasn't sure about introducing myself here since I am already overwhelmed with messages. Then I realized all my mail is from submissive guys, which is what I want, but it doesn't help me with meeting other domme women, which is what I need. I am relativity new at this, only having dominated one past boyfriend, so I wouldn't mind making a female domme friend or two. Someone I could bounce ideas off of and ask stupid questions of.

If you're a domme and you don't mind sharing your knowledge please feel free to message me anytime. In the meantime I'll browse the forums and see what I can learn on my own.
If you want to know more about me, my profile tells how I got here.

Qlita

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 2:53:58 PM

RexDarcy

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Welcome to CollarMe. Good luck on your search.

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 2:57:31 PM

Qlita

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Thanks RexDarcy

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 3:26:43 PM

ashjor911

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Welcome To CM
Good luck hunting

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my name is : bonsh ... jamesh bonsh.
code name : 009.5
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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 5:38:14 PM

Qlita

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CM says it's the largest bdsm site on the planet. Which planet are they referring to? It seems sort of slow here and the forums seem somewhat dead. I did receive a lot of messages when I signed up but they've slowed to a trickle (not actually a bad thing though).
I was hoping for a busier forum.

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 5:40:03 PM

Madame4a

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try fetlife

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When I dream, I'm doing you all night
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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 5:41:47 PM

ashjor911

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you should go to the (Politics and Religion) section

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my name is : bonsh ... jamesh bonsh.
code name : 009.5
licensed to give formla

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 5:49:27 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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Welcome to CM and the forums. It depends on the number of people who actually post as opposed to those who lurk. Like all things, it ebbs and flows. Good luck.

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 7:37:44 PM

Qlita

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quote:

you should go to the (Politics and Religion) section

Nay, if I wanted to talk politics, I'd go to a politics website. I like to follow politics, just not while I am perusing subs.

quote:

try fetlife

I just checked it out after seeing you mention it. Maybe I'll move my account there, thanks.

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 9:42:59 PM

Qlita

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Qlita

quote:

you should go to the (Politics and Religion) section

Nay, if I wanted to talk politics, I'd go to a politics website. I like to follow politics, just not while I am perusing subs.

quote:

ry fetlife

I just checked it out after seeing you mention it. Maybe I'll move my account there, thanks.

I opened an account there. When I opened an account here my inbox was flooded with messages. After opening an account on fetlife, nothing. Nothing at all. Are there any people on that site? I do see it has privately run groups.

edit to add....maybe it means they just don't like me there? Oh now I've gone and hurt my own feelings :)

< Message edited by Qlita -- 9/20/2011 9:44:22 PM >

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 10:22:25 PM

Hillwilliam

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Welcome to the site. Fet doesn't seem to attract as many horny net geeks as this place.
The search function is easier here too.

Plusses and minuses

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RE: And here I am - 9/20/2011 11:43:00 PM

Djducati

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Welcome to CM!

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RE: And here I am - 9/21/2011 10:29:01 AM

Qlita

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And here I go.

To the people recommending fetlife, both here and by C-message, thank you. I made a profile there and after looking around I see it's a pretty darn good sight. I notice it has no search feature and that's why I didn't get mail upon signing up. Though as soon as I asked a question in one of their many groups, the mail starting coming in.

Thank you everyone for your warm welcome, advice, and info on fetlife. I'm deleting my profile here on CM now, or as soon as I tell the few decent guys I met where to find me on fet.

bye

edit to say, fetlife doesn't have a hissy fit if I use my real middle name either (Lolita) , another plus. I was named after my grandmother who was born long before the book Lolita was written.

< Message edited by Qlita -- 9/21/2011 10:30:33 AM >

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RE: And here I am - 9/21/2011 10:30:21 AM

mnottertail

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dont let the door hit you in the ass on your way out!

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RE: And here I am - 9/21/2011 12:57:07 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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and your refund cheque is in the mail!

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RE: And here I am - 9/21/2011 5:39:45 PM

Madame4a

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on fetlife.. there are more discussions.. and from my experience.. more folks actually involved in the real life, offline scene.. which might not be to your taste... but its less of a pick up hook up space... explore.. there are a ton of discussion groups there

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You're crazy bitch
But you f*ck so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to keep me right on

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RE: And here I am - 9/23/2011 6:35:09 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome Q, don't worry, it's just a welcome, i'm not gonna start hitting on ya!

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RE: And here I am - 9/23/2011 6:40:28 AM

Epytropos

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Welcome. I'm afraid I'm neither a male sub nor a female domme so I'm pretty much useless to you, but welcome just the same.

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