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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 4:34:12 PM   
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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 4:37:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		How many need a nightly spanking, or wish they could have, to relieve the stress of the day.......the way it totally transports you to another world.This situation applies to BOTH parties as well.  

Oh yeah baby, that would be perfect. Spanked and put to bed :)
Some day, some day.............
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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 4:58:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		PS Here is a little spanking fantasy of mine :)


I am home alone and think a nice, long soak in a fragrant bubble bath sounds delicious. I run my bath, and add my favorite smelling bath products. I light a few candles, put on my favorite Beatles album, and turn the lights down real low. Perhaps a glass of brandy to sip on while I luxuriate.
I slip into my little slice of heaven and lose myself in my music and hot water, the perfume from my bubbles scenting the room and making me very relaxed.
Unbeknownst to me, my loved one has come home early from work, and has not phoned me of this little detail. I did not collect the mail from the mail box, and sitting inside, just waiting for him to open, is some sort of letter that is not good (for me). Perhaps a speeding ticket, an intersection camera catching me running a red light, a forgotten bill (you get the idea). Something very naughty. My lover comes into the house and opens the mail, finding this damning piece of evidence. He is not angry, just rather annoyed, as I had been warned about what would happen if such a letter ever arrived.
He opens the bathroom door and finds me floating in my tub, oblivious to what he just found. He holds the letter in my face, telling me what he just read. I am caught off guard and try to wriggle my way out of being in trouble, trying to distract him with a few sexy moves and a long, passionate kiss. He plays into my ruse and kisses me back, settling down to sit on the side of the tub and enjoy my sexy show and affection. I think I have distracted him from what I know is coming and I purr with delight. This is fun! Without warning, he pulls back from our hot, steamy kiss, and in one swift yank I am over his knee, bubbles flying everywhere, his pants and shirt getting soaking wet. He scolds me and tells me I know I am never getting out of the spankings I deserve, and his hard hand connects soundly on my bare, wet, unprotected bottom. I howl in protest and he only laughs, and settles in and spanks me in earnest. He is enjoying this way too much, and enjoys telling me what a brat I am, and how my bottom is soon going to be very hot and sore. His hand hurts so much on my wet ass and he doesn't give me much of a warm up either. The spanking dries my bottom and he gets wicked pleasure in reaching into the bath water and re wetting my burning skin. The stinker! He spanks me long and hard, totally enjoying himself and I know it. He's got me, and there is nothing I can do about it. Soon my bottom is on fire and I find myself promising to be good (fingers crossed behind my back). Luckily for me, he finds the bath tub spanking far too erotic to really get into punishing me. He stands up and slings me over his shoulder and laughing in pleasure, strides back to the bedroom where he unceremoniously plops me onto the bed. Stripping out of his wet clothes, he grins wide and joins me :)

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 5:16:12 PM   
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One night I was at the Lair, and a couple went up to one of the platforms with the post in the center.  She was about 5'2 and 100 pounds wet, wearing a G string and nothing else.  He was about 5'11, in good shape, with a sardonic grin on his face.

She gazed coyly at him around the pole.  He looked back saying nothing.  She backed her rear end around with her legs slightly spread, and he proceeded to paddle her behind.  He would go softly, go hard, rub and play, go softly, go hard.  She would sometimes squeal and dart behind the pole, glaring out at him.

Not a word was exchanged, he would grin, she would glare.

Then her bottom would extend itself out once more.

It was one of the most lovely spanking scenes I have ever witnessed.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 5:31:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		I hear about people enjoying spankings and other types of beatings, but I can't say that I completely understand it.  Lack of experience, probably.  But let me ask... how do you get pleasure out of pain?  Is it the attention you're getting?  Is it more mental than physical?  Doesn't it get to the point where it hurts badly enough that you want to stop it?  What then?
 
Curious...
 
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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 5:57:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: zumala

I hear about people enjoying spankings and other types of beatings, but I can't say that I completely understand it.  Lack of experience, probably.  But let me ask... how do you get pleasure out of pain?

 
This is a subject that has been discussed endlessly by sadists and masochists, doctors and philosophers.  The dictionary definition of a masochist is someone who derives sexual pleasure out of having pain inflicted upon their person.  Many submissives are masochists.  They get a sexual charge out of pain.  Many submissives are not masochists but enjoy receiving pain as it brings their dominant, who is a sadist, pleasure.  For some of these submissives, pleasing their dominant brings on a sexual charge.  For those who enjoy receiving pain, it has been theorized that the endorphins kick in sooner, thus "twisting" the pain into pleasure (think "runner's high").  It has also been theorized that there may be other factors involved that contribute to this pleasure...the joy of serving in this fashion, past experiences, inner psychological issues, etc..
 
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  Is it the attention you're getting?  Is it more mental than physical? 
  See my answer above.
 
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 Doesn't it get to the point where it hurts badly enough that you want to stop it?  What then?
For some, yes it does.  For some, that point comes before the endorphins ever kick in.  For others, it could be due to the fact that, for this person receiving the pain, other factors come together to stop any enjoyment of it, even with the endorphins kicked in.  That is when a safeword comes in real handy...as well as having a top/dominant who is well-attuned to their partner and paying close attention.
 
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Curious...
 
zuma
I hope I helped some.  Pretty dry, eh?

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 6:06:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've stated something earlier on this thread but since it has come up again...

Ahhhhhhhhhh, the OTK spanking.  Something about taking a submissive by her hair and bringing her down first to a level with your face, staring into hers for long, silent moments, then pushing her over your knee, your hand still locked in her hair and now, pressing down into her back.  When she is wearing a skirt and yanking that skirt up, or when she is wearing slacks, pushing those slacks down...using forceful actions for either maneuver...and exposing that bare, rounded ass.  I love to push panties...if she is wearing them...down to just below her asscheeks until they make a beautiful line of color, highlighting those rounded globes above.  Touching that ass...softly at first....teasing it...all the while telling the submissive in a quiet, low voice exactly what you intend to do.  Raising the hand as if to strike...then fooling them by bringing it down softly again to those now-tensed cheeks...and laughing at the attempt to lessen the pain of impact by tightening those cheeks...and letting loose with the first blow when they relax.  Telling them later...after the spanking...of all the variations of it they will experience in the future.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 6:35:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: zumala

I hear about people enjoying spankings and other types of beatings, but I can't say that I completely understand it.  Lack of experience, probably.  But let me ask... how do you get pleasure out of pain?  Is it the attention you're getting?  Is it more mental than physical?  Doesn't it get to the point where it hurts badly enough that you want to stop it?  What then?
 
Curious...
 
zuma


For me, its not about the physical at all.  I actually abhor the pain per se.  For me, its about several other things .  
 
 A.  Taking a good ass whipping puts me exactly where I need to be.  I am submissive (to the right person) without it, but it just brings me *down* to where I need to be, very quickely.  Almost like a refresher or a reminder. Something that can take me from the normal mode of regular life, (work, home child) immediately into my submission.
 
B. Its partially about the surrender.  The feeling of being at another's mercy, enduring it because he wants it, even if it hurts so bad that you cant see straight. I just cant say stop, no matter if it hurts.
 
C.  The next day having the welts, stripes and bruises is a really really huge part of it for me.  Again, not because I like the soreness per se, but because its a reminder that he was there.  That my ass is sore because thats the way he wants it.  A reminder that I was/am his to do with whatever he pleases.  I am not with anyone right now, but when I was, I would savor those welts, and every day when I showered, I would look at them in the mirror and run my hands over them, its like wearing your dominant on your body and being constantly reminded that he owns it.  Its a total emotional headtrip for me.  And when its absent from my life, my body aches for it.
 
 

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 6:39:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I've stated something earlier on this thread but since it has come up again...

Ahhhhhhhhhh, the OTK spanking.  Something about taking a submissive by her hair and bringing her down first to a level with your face, staring into hers for long, silent moments, then pushing her over your knee, your hand still locked in her hair and now, pressing down into her back.  When she is wearing a skirt and yanking that skirt up, or when she is wearing slacks, pushing those slacks down...using forceful actions for either maneuver...and exposing that bare, rounded ass.  I love to push panties...if she is wearing them...down to just below her asscheeks until they make a beautiful line of color, highlighting those rounded globes above.  Touching that ass...softly at first....teasing it...all the while telling the submissive in a quiet, low voice exactly what you intend to do.  Raising the hand as if to strike...then fooling them by bringing it down softly again to those now-tensed cheeks...and laughing at the attempt to lessen the pain of impact by tightening those cheeks...and letting loose with the first blow when they relax.  Telling them later...after the spanking...of all the variations of it they will experience in the future.


Care to come to Kentucky and administer one of those!!! 

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 7:58:39 PM   
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How many are stripped naked, how many are just forced over the knee clothed, with panties pulled down (again BAD GIRL NO PANTIES )


How about those of us who do any which way? However, for total hotness, my preference would go to no panties with a small skirt that can be easily displaced, maybe even while wearing stockings - something about framing the ass for punishment is very erotic.

quote:

I hear about people enjoying spankings and other types of beatings, but I can't say that I completely understand it.  Lack of experience, probably.  But let me ask... how do you get pleasure out of pain?  Is it the attention you're getting?  Is it more mental than physical?  Doesn't it get to the point where it hurts badly enough that you want to stop it?  What then?
Some of it is pleasure from pain - but a large chunk of it is the submission itself. I am required to give up control for it, give someone else control by lying across their knees, make a sensitive area 'presentable,' feel humiliated, feel like a child, anticipate. I'd say for mysel, it is definitely more mental than physical - but I'm a wimp. And rarely does a barehanded, OTK spanking become painful enough to get me to yell halt. But yes, if we move on to crops or belts or something, the pain can definitely become too much to enjoy myself. However, my bf is careful about watching my reactions to understand that.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/9/2006 8:32:25 PM   
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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/10/2006 1:33:14 AM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		Thank you for this thread - thank you, thank you, thank you!  Heaven, all of it!

Yes, this is one of my particular favourites.

I don't know which is best, having to take down my panties while he watches, or to feel his hands on me as he strips me.

And when I'm OTK, it's instant subspace, its such a wonderfully submissive position.  I'm completely helpless, and he can see, touch and do whatever he wants.  Marvellous.

I love it when he traps my legs between his - that's the signal that the spanking will be long and hard.  Then he taps my back, and I have to put my arm back so he can hold my wrist - then I can't do more than wriggle and squirm and plead (or moan in bliss) as he spanks.

The best, most intimate part is when I turn my hand in his grasp, so that I can take hold of his wrist as he holds mine.  As long as I can hold his wrist, I can take anything.

And the sting, the burn, the stroking and touching and examining....

AAAAAAAAh thank you again for this thread!

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 6/11/2006 7:02:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Dang...what's not to like?  <shrugs>  Apparently when I came into the ‘scene’, I musta jumped right in…right past spankings.  I’ve never had one; not really.  I was taken under-wing by a couple very experienced dominants who introduced me to floggings, whippings; knives, canes and needles.

Its obvious people love spankings…I’d just need to get over feeling like a lummox in a lap!  Geezeeeeeee…I’m 5’8”; how on earth does one feel anything but foolish draped across someone’s legs?

Someone else commented much the same…plus the whole idea of spankings; as punishment?  Hmmmmmm… I like to play, but I wonder if I could get over feeling overly foolish?  One sure doesn’t feel ‘foolish’ under a single-tail…but across a lap?  I dunnoooooooo….

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 8/23/2006 8:04:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Interestingly enough, it's the initial pain of the smack or cut or what have you that really just gets my motor revving.  It's the crest of that high that develops when the dom secures you across thier table or to a cross or the hanging manacles. (Never been across someone's knee tho - 6' 2" means I can kneel and be eye to eye with another in a chair, y' know?)  There's that feeling of connection (pun intended) when the pain actually begins that just sends shivvers across my skin just to think about it.

On the other side, I'm also mostly a performance Dom who likes to mainly use my hands and body, so the thwack and sting of my hand coming in flat or cupped has a joy all its own.  That tingle and jolt that runs up the forearm coupled with whatever reaction it's elicited is a real joy all its own.  I find the sense of "connection" as strong on either side of the exchange to be quite clear and strong though.  Good stuff.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 8/23/2006 8:14:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love a barehanded spank more than anything. Sounds wonderful and feels wonderful.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 8/23/2006 8:20:07 AM   
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RE: OTK, barehanded - 8/23/2006 8:29:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		OTK is good!!!!!!! I like being on both ends......

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 8/23/2006 8:38:23 AM   
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Ah yes, the OTK! Definitely one of the best ways for DOM and sub/slave to connect: it's the skin to skin thing... Other discipline tools are fun, but with OTK you get to feel the heat grwoing on the her flesh, you get to feel the buns tightening, you get to caress that hot skin, you get to FEEL it!

And then, when you add digital or other forms of penetration, well...WOOF WOOF!

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 8/23/2006 8:40:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am supposed to be job hunting right now....now I am so distracted and wishing a lover of OTK was ringing the doorbell right now!!

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 8/23/2006 9:08:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		like bearlee, i somehow skipped the OTK thing.  i've gotten the occasional swat, but  that's like hubbys "good game" football swat.  and like bearlee, i don't think i'm the right body style for the good visual of OTK, although i'd love to try it.  Aside from being full figured,  i have dimpled butt.  Anything that bares my butt is humiliation play.  i know all the hand spank Doms out there always comment on a "nice round full ass"  and i don't HAVe that!  whine.

Sat before last, i did get some real hand spanks along with the whip.. and i was surprised how HARD that can be!  The sharpenss of it really took me back, kind of that i'd gasp but i can't take in air thing... lol.  Then He'd do like a full hand pinch and squeeze the area and i swear it just released the burn to flood outward from the impact point like a sunburst.  yum.  i appearantly went off to space enough to even forget about it til later. (posted thread on blocked scene) 

Masters plane touches down again in 4 hours, and club tonight!  i'm hoping to get a second chance at spanking!

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