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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/14/2007 4:08:41 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		Good evening,
  i was able to experience it first hand last week, though i didn't realize the sting of my Dom's hand, i still enjoyed it.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/14/2007 5:49:17 PM   
ron2421


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Status: offline 		On those days I can quit early from work, I love occasionally in the middle of the afternoon, and for no particular reason, surprising my shapely sub wife by walking into her home office while she is working, and saying "take off all your clothes; you're getting a good spanking!"
As I remain fully clothed, she then shyly undresses, sometimes I help her if she hesitates, until she has nothing left to cover her but her long straight black hair.
She positions herself naked across my knee. After my hand becomes too sore after ten minutes or so, I'll use the ruler or wooden paddle. We've made a game out of how red I can make her bottom. I'll let her down off my knee a few times during the spanking so she can run over to inspect herself in the bedroom mirror in the other room. She then dutifully returns, brushes back her hair and again positions her naked body across my lap for more.
For me a real delight is watching her bottom transform from pink to light pink to red to a blend of dark cherry red and a purple color as the spanking progresses.
She does completely enjoy it also however as for one evidenced by my ever wettening lap. She loves it when she is subjected to a harsh spanking unexpectedly.
Now that's "afternoon delight."


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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/14/2007 6:29:38 PM   
Griswold


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

OTK, I find it very bonding. The closeness of the naked girl across knees, the feel of my bare hand on her ass..........wonderful!! 


Ya know...I'm not gonna even read all this shit.  I'm coming in late to the game, and there's already 7 trillion answers/reposts....but I'll tell you this much;  There was a girl...we spent a wonderful evening at a 9 star hotel (I don't know stars...it was at least 5 stars...is 5 stars good?...this was a killer place), I got this place because we could watch the fireworks from 37 stories, and I got some killer champagne...

It was beautiful because I was with her.  We'd dated for a time...I was on the West coast, she on the East.  I flew her out.

I'd been to her place several times, she'd been to mine as often (we both got lots of free trips to somewhere).  There was never a tease or...a time when we tested each other.  She was always in control. 

That was never unclear.

She'd never dominated me (in the sense of punishment or pain).  Until then.

I won't go into details, but suffice it to say, there were some extraneous events that occurred...and were occurring...in both of our lives (she'd argue...in mine)....nevertheless, she ultimately had reason to vent effort towards me to make clear, my line of thinking was less than optimum.

She acted like Royalty, in all cases.

Class.  Personified.

A situation occurred (on my phone) wherein which I tried to obviate chaos (that was seemingly occurring all around me...but not entirely due to my own efforts)...nevertheless....it was close to 11:30 p.m., the scene outside our window some 500 feet below and roughly a half mile in front of us was brewing, and we opted to open some champagne.

We sat on the floor, with a full floor to ceiling window in front of us (I think it's entirely possible I've now strayed absolutely from the original intent of the OP's posting...but fuck it...I'm on a roll now)....as I was saying....and we sat there and just looked at each other....

We smiled a lot (we hadn't seen each other in a while)...held hands, in moments, enjoyed the fireworks truly cascading in the entire spectrum of our window....and we had a bit more champagne.

Now, for those who can't handle pain, or imaginary bolts coming out of the (ceiling, in my case)....this would be the spot where you would say "I'm sorry, I have to leave now....I can see things are going to get a little dicey moments from now, and frankly, I'd like to just say goodnight".

And it was (in my estimation) time to reminisce about the evening, lay on the bed, look at the night sky as we drifted off to sleep, play with and smell my wonderful Dommes' hair, talk driftingly about the fireworks, luxurate in the fact that she flew all this way to spend time with me as I had on several occasions with her, and wake up tomorrow with room service wafting coffee in the air as we wondered "who the FUCK is in here at THIS FUCKING TIME OF THE MOTHERFUCKING MORNING?????"....and be thankful they brought Seattle's Best Coffee with them while they clearly invaded our space.


BOY  WAS I WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!

About 2 minutes into my (intended) dreamy state....she started WAILING on my fucking ASS with her bare hands (keep in mind...I was a novice, at best)....and I grabbed that fucking pillow, and then another....and then another still....

And I swear to GAWWWWWDDDDDD....I thought the fucking riot police were going to be in our suite in about 7 seconds!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was SCAREEEEEEEEEEMING!!!!!!!!!   I'd read the bible as a child...and I was CONFIDENT....this was the End of Times!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When it was over, I was just short of crying.  It didn't last all that long (as she tells it...in my mind it lasted well into 2 fiscal federal budget years).....and I felt cleansed.

Truly cleansed.

Honestly...I haven't felt that good in years.

(I miss it to this day).

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/15/2007 1:18:58 PM   
meticulousgirl


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Status: offline 		Your making me miss those days......

stop doing that because I know I cant have it....

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/15/2007 4:56:33 PM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

otk, for punishment or pleasure?


both.  for pleasure, more is made of the sensuality and the rubbing of the skin and the sweet words Sir likes to use on me....

for punishment, he's not yet had to but has told me that punishment is hard fast and brutal, with soothing perhaps done afterwards.

kitten, who tries hard NOT to invoke Sir's anger...

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/15/2007 6:23:13 PM   
naivetee


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Status: offline 		*sigh* I just received a nice little spank the other day. At first, I was very surprised and caught a little offguard. However, it was only a little while after I felt the rush of endorphins inside me .
yum? *sheepish grin*
~naivetee


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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/15/2007 11:15:36 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		MORE OKT, great views (and the dom has a great view of his girls ass!!) 

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/18/2007 4:13:46 AM   
TIGERproperty


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Status: offline 		   i remember my best OTK spanking.  It was about a two years ago. It was deserved but still it shocked me when the "Dom" pulled me by the arm into the bathroom, at His friends house. He delivered a long hard bare bottom spanking. No words were spoken. Non were needed. when He had finished, He simpley got up, left the bathroom and went back out to join His friends.  He left me alone to fix my clothes and wash my face.  walking back out to where His friends we gathered was the worst part of His punishment.  They had all heard the spanking, and had known what it was for.  The humiliation made that spanking one i will Never forget.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/19/2007 12:31:51 AM   
Sinergy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

I love a barehanded spank more than anything. Sounds wonderful and feels wonderful.


One thing I found useful was a piece of elk fur I bought in Canada.

Spank spank spank

Make the skin nice and red.  Feel the moans and quivering grow subdued as the skin deadens from the pain.

Lightly caress the reddened skin with the elk fur.  Feel the moans start up again as the skin starts to react to the light touching of the fur.  The gradual waking up of bruised skin to sensory input, sort of like a rabbit, run over by a truck but not hit by the truck or the tires, looking around in wonder at a world 20 seconds ago it thought had been taken from it.

A few light kisses.  Some soft words.

Spank spank spank

Listen to the happy screams.

Lather, rinse, repeat.

Sinergy

p.s.  Always amusing to throw in a few fondles and probings, but that could just be me and I could be wrong.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/26/2007 1:30:11 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		Yet another thing I will top!!!!!!!!! In the proper setting........

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/26/2007 2:35:04 PM   
subsnow


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Status: offline 		i had a wonderful unexpected spanking this morning. *sigh*  The unexpected ones are always the best. We were in bed when my Dom grabbed me and swung me over so that i was laying across His lap. Then He started wailing on me. He usually doesn't hold me but this time He did. i couldn't move an inch and He wasn't very forgiving so i would have been squirming if He weren't holding me. When it's happening, i never know whether i want Him to stop or keep going forever. It hurts like hell but i feel so good, all at the same time. i love it and i can't wait to reciece another one.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/26/2007 7:07:47 PM   
ennaozzie


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Status: offline 		With ya there Dogobedience

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/26/2007 10:13:21 PM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		OTK is wonderful when you want that warm, close, secure feeling to go along with the pain... but sometimes i just want to feel seperate, be seperate from my dom and in my own space and experience it in its raw form and get lost in the sensation of the pain - any soft, fuzzy, physical contact will ruin that for me.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/27/2007 12:05:22 AM   
BeautySleeping


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Status: offline 		*squirming*   My first post, and I'm speechless.....and dammit, my Master's asleep......hmmmm, I wonder if I wake him what would happen <eg>

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/27/2007 10:14:30 AM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		I enjoy making and or helping people get a rush.

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I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

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RE: OTK, barehanded - 5/27/2007 3:18:18 PM   
gypsyfirefly


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Status: offline 		One of my very first bdsm experiences was with OTK. I had never been spanked as a child. So out of curiosity, and yes, because of that wild butterfly feeling in the tummy that was egging me on, I found a spanking group in my area and joined. After exchanging emails and attending a few demonstration and education socials that the group offered, I finally took the plunge and attended a weekend play party. 

Man! I was totally not ready for those first stingy slaps of his bare hand! However, the Dominant that I attended with was a master spanker (pun intended, but still true lol).  He led me through the entire spanking with sensitivity, humor and just the right amount of heavy handed wickedness. *grin* 

That weekend was a number of firsts for me, my first experience being spanked, and my first experience being spanked by a woman (his beta submissive) - which for me - had a totally different intensity level and vibe (surprised the hell out of me too that I actually said yes <blink>), my first experience with a violet wand, and my first woodshed spanking - in a real woodshed no less. lol

So for me, my first OTK was a wonderful experience.  I went home with a spectacular purpled hued bum and a very happy, contented smile on my face. And of course, evil man that he was, he had made damn sure I squirmed all the way too - it was a four hour drive. 

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