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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/23/2011 12:24:47 PM   
LanceHughes


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Status: offline 		I like the seal idea. Maybe it wasn't explained very well. 

Once lock is on - even the one that came with - you pour hot wax over it, making sure that it will show breakage.  As suggested above, such a procedure might very well turn into a "hot wax" scene. 

Then, if the subject even thinks about testing it, he's "caught" - even for playing with it to discover possiblities.

As to the "force" part, yeah, I can see that - bondage while he strains - you placing chastity device.

Getting hot in here...... bye for now.

// Lance leaves, looking around, wondering which man up in rafters he should take with him. //

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/23/2011 12:25:07 PM   
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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/23/2011 12:27:00 PM   
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While locking someone up is just incredibly, bone meltingly HOT, the fun is sending them off on errands or whatever and calling them up with exciting commentary. Heh.

I can't imagine locking anyone up for a long time, it would make ME bonkers.


My way of getting rid of an embarrassing stiffy is to start doing arithmetic in my head. Instant drooper. I don't know if it'd work against that level of attack, though. As for, ahem, servicing her in bed with lips and tongue . . . God alone knows. I think I'd have to do arithmetic *and* immediately start lifting heavy weights. Or chop off my goolies.


Oh and of course the chastity device makes embarrassing stiffies madly painful. Or so I am told, heaven knows I don't feel their pain.

See, now I am having Entertaining Thoughts. You are a bad person.

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/23/2011 12:27:59 PM   
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. . . so that I could crack off a Niagara

Query: I thought Niagara was rhyming slangs for balls: in this context, does it mean a torrent?
Enquiring dirty minds want to know!

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/23/2011 12:28:24 PM   
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I do math for a living. You knew that, right?


I did, but I didn't think that was what stopped you growing goolies, Lady Hib. I was carefully educated as a child.


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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/23/2011 12:30:09 PM   
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Query: I thought Niagara was rhyming slangs for balls: in this context, does it mean a torrent?
Enquiring dirty minds want to know!


I'd never heard of it being rhyming slang for balls, T - but I was indeed using it to convey a general image of a powerful torrent of tadpoles.

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/23/2011 12:36:23 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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I do math for a living. You knew that, right?


I did, but I didn't think that was what stopped you growing goolies, Lady Hib. I was carefully educated as a child.



You are being a very silly person. I meant I was good with the math questions! Or at least the tax related ones. And really,who knows what's down there, I only blow the dust off occasionally.

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/23/2011 12:36:31 PM   
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This guy needs psychiatric evaluation, take him to the hospital or get shut of him. Do one or the other , if he doesnt want to get professional help, if he refuses to go to hospital , show him the door, this guy is a CREEP with a Capital C

Sounds like you're talking about yourself here, Kevin.


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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 12:29:08 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		it may be exciting but its also downright dangerous, think of how the man will cope if he needs to get out in a dire emergency , he cant, like i say said man, needs to be committed or given the boot
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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 12:30:28 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		no chastity is not my bag, good try though, try again, better luck next time. You still have two lifelines you know and we want you to have a FANTASTIC NIGHT TONIGHT
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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 7:02:41 AM   
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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 7:58:57 AM   
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you are a guy, and not as perty as I am. Just a thought, but I get followed no matter what stores I go into (both by customer service _and_ by customers), unless I am dressed like a freakin hobo, and in that case, mexicans follow me around and compliment me on


bwaa ha ha ha ha ha ha .... thanks for the laugh ...!!

Lady, dont kid yourself! You are NOT THAT GOOD LOOKING. I fucking PROMISE YOU !!

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 10:40:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		if by handling his unit You mean go for a piss when he has a stomach pain or indigestion, yes it is, You dont know what the circumstances Lady Hibiscus, the bottom line is anyone who asks for a chance as he has to disobey his owner should either be given the boot or be committed to a psychiatric ward at least have psychiatric evaluation because locking yourself up in chastity with no way out is psychotic im sorry, to lock oneself up and be able to get out in an emergency fine, but to do with no access out of the situation in an emergency is as i say CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY, the person or persons needs to be put on psychotrophic medication or at the very least taken to hosital and quick, if he refuses or She refuses to take him to hospital , im sorry but She should be committed too.
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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 12:02:32 PM   
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Regarding your question in the OP and the subsequent feelings you've expressed vis-a-vis embarrassment in a shop.  I remember what it was like going into shops (even vanilla shops like Dom Depot... ah... I mean Home Depot) with the intent of buying items for kinky use.  It can be unnerving because your mind plays tricks.  Somehow it seems every clerk and customer in the store knows what you're buying and why you're buying it.  The truth is nobody knows.  And, at a place like Home Depot, there are so many ways to ask for items that you really don't need to be worried.

So... addressing your situation, if you (personally) want to buy the lock, here's what to do.  Get the chastity device (or have your sub get it) and measure the size of the hole.  Use a drill bit kit (which, if you don't have one, can be bought very inexpensively and comes in handy for other projects).  Test successively larger bits in the hole until you find the one that fits perfectly.  Look at the diameter on the side of the bit (or printed on the hole where you removed the bit from the kit), and that's the size of the hole.  Now, go to Home Depot and pick a lock with this diameter or less.

I can't remember if small locks have their diameters printed, but just give the diameter to a clerk and they'll be clever enough, hopefully, to help you.  There's no need to tell the clerk what the lock is for, but if you feel compelled to have a reason, you can say it's for a petty cash box, makeup kit, or a myriad other things that need small locks.  I suggest buying two or more as I've found small locks have a habit of getting lost - not lost intentionally, just lost because they fall to the bottom of toy bags, hide under beds or in sheets, etc.

At the outset, using a lock can be exciting and hot.  However, while I'm not discouraging you, over time, assuming you and your partner stay together, I think you'll both find locks become inconvenient with the rest of life.  Ultimately, most BDSM agreements boil down to honesty and willingness.  By all means enjoy the feeling of "locking someone up".  This is usually a lot of fun for all involved.  Recognize though that you may change your mind later as to how chastity works in your dynamic.  Negotiating with your partner how you control his orgasms and when/how (ex:  with your permission only) he has orgasms can be, and should be, a very effective "mechanism".



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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 12:23:01 PM   
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  Use a drill bit kit (which, if you don't have one, can be bought very inexpensively and comes in handy for other projects).  Test successively larger bits in the hole until you find the one that fits perfectly.  Look at the diameter on the side of the bit (or printed on the hole where you removed the bit from the kit), and that's the size of the hole.  Now, go to Home Depot and pick a lock with this diameter or less.


Doh! Why didn't I think of that? And you can get drill bit sets in the Pound Shop (or whatever is the equivalent over there in the colonies where lesser people live). Come to think of it, I've seen plastic versions of the cone things jewellers use to measure ring sizes around, too.

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 12:50:51 PM   
ElanSubdued


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Doh!  Why didn't I think of that?


The Mistress God rarely dishes out equal perks.  You got the six-pack abs and quick wit.  I got the engineering aptitude and geekish charm. :-)

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 1:06:19 PM   
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Look at the diameter on the side of the bit (or printed on the hole where you removed the bit from the kit), and that's the size of the hole.  Now, go to Home Depot and pick a lock with this diameter or less.


A small correction.  Actually, you want to by a lock with a diameter smaller than the device's lock hole.  There's nothing quite as frustrating as a tight hole you can't get into.



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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 1:11:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		All the natural functions are possible around a chastity device, Kevin. Don't get your bowels in an uproar.

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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 2:51:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		thats as maybe but do you not think there is something inherently disrespectful about a sub who threatens to break out of a chastity device in the first place after committing with his Mistress to chastity , i mean breaking out of the chastity device in non emergency situations as the OP seemed to allude too, i certainly do, and wanting a tighter lock for his cock does not show submission to me, it shows that he is thinking about he wants and not his Mistress's wishes at all. just my two cents
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RE: ideas on locks for male chastity belts - 9/24/2011 2:52:43 PM   
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Dreamscaper27,

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Look at the diameter on the side of the bit (or printed on the hole where you removed the bit from the kit), and that's the size of the hole.  Now, go to Home Depot and pick a lock with this diameter or less.


A small correction.  Actually, you want to by a lock with a diameter smaller than the device's lock hole.  There's nothing quite as frustrating as a tight hole you can't get into.



squeals, it is interesting watching someone try tho:)
And I dont neccessarily mean the lock diam

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