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Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 10:20:10 PM

OTKkindaGirl

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If given the choice by your Dom/me would you;

1) Remain chaste, save for your Dom/me

2) Be used as a slut by those chosen for you by your Dom/me also being used by him/her
or
3) Be allowed to choose your sexual partners (option 2 would go with this choice to enhance your sluttiness)?

What impact do you think they would have on the relationship with your Dom/me and what do you think the risks would be of falling for somebody else emotionally or intellectually?

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 10:26:26 PM

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 10:52:21 PM

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In my 30's and 40's i practiced serial monogamy; but i reached a point where the relationships held nothing of value for me, and became celibate. Now i want the "real deal" and will wait for it.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 10:55:43 PM

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Very good topic OTK. I am very curious to see how this turns out. I am sure their are many people on this site that can gave a broad spectrum of how each option works for them and the pitfalls and dynamics involved in such a decision. I hope to see them participate soon.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 11:04:08 PM

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#1 is my personal choice. I have to admit, I've had a bad dream about #2 that, of course, I shared with my Dom.

#3 I hope He never wants that - it wouldn't be right for me.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 11:04:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OTKkindaGirl

If given the choice by your Dom/me would you;

1) Remain chaste, save for your Dom/me

2) Be used as a slut by those chosen for you by your Dom/me also being used by him/her
or
3) Be allowed to choose your sexual partners (option 2 would go with this choice to enhance your sluttiness)?

What impact do you think they would have on the relationship with your Dom/me and what do you think the risks would be of falling for somebody else emotionally or intellectually?

Himself would never give me that choice. Just won't happen.

That said, I've always envisioned myself doing well in a commune with some close intimate friends (maybe 8 or 10 of them) of all orientations/genders ... sort of like an all you can eat buffet without gaining any weight for indulging.

Yeah.. I have that tiny little hedonist thing going on.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 11:09:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Very good topic OTK. I am very curious to see how this turns out. I am sure their are many people on this site that can gave a broad spectrum of how each option works for them and the pitfalls and dynamics involved in such a decision. I hope to see them participate soon.

this is something that i have often wrestled with, within myself and have often wondered how far does submission and being a slave have to go. truly... what are the pitfalls and dynamics of such a choice?

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 11:17:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Himself would never give me that choice. Just won't happen.

That said, I've always envisioned myself doing well in a commune with some close intimate friends (maybe 8 or 10 of them) of all orientations/genders ... sort of like an all you can eat buffet without gaining any weight for indulging.

Yeah.. I have that tiny little hedonist thing going on.

Celeste

My fear of such an admission actually bringing forth such, causes me to remain silent when it comes to hedonistic things like that.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 11:20:32 PM

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My fear of such an admission actually bringing forth such, causes me to remain silent when it comes to hedonistic things like that.

I've mentioned it a few times to Himself.. and his attitude about it keeps me hopeful that it 'may' happen in the future.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 11:23:41 PM

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Celeste..... i almost want to ask if i can be your close intimate friend!

edited to add the word "close intimate" *gigglez* of course it goes without saying i would settle just for being a friend though.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/22/2006 11:59:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: babysburnin

#1 is my personal choice. I have to admit, I've had a bad dream about #2 that, of course, I shared with my Dom.

#3 I hope He never wants that - it wouldn't be right for me.

thank you for sharing baby. is it safe to say that you might consider two even though you had a bad dream about it or is it completely out of the question too?

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 12:09:12 AM

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i would have to say 1. Although i am quite the slut.. and am very proud of it.. i choose to be my Masters slut..not everyone elses. i don't think this makes me any less of a slut at all. i love sex.. i will have it at any time.. i am not ashamed to be horny a good portion of the time.. i enjoy slow and easy.. but have to admit.. a good hard one appeals more often... for these reasons alone..i don't see the need of "proving" my sluttyness my having a hundred different encounters.

That is just my slutty little opinion. ; )

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 12:14:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OTKkindaGirl

Celeste..... i almost want to ask if i can be your close intimate friend!

edited to add the word "close intimate" *gigglez* of course it goes without saying i would settle just for being a friend though.

No need to settle! If I ever get to live in a commune, you'll be the first one I call.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 12:17:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Yeah.. I have that tiny little hedonist thing going on.

Celeste

<<<<< Has a thing for tiny little hedonists.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 12:25:42 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OTKkindaGirl

If given the choice by your Dom/me would you;

1) Remain chaste, save for your Dom/me

2) Be used as a slut by those chosen for you by your Dom/me also being used by him/her
or
3) Be allowed to choose your sexual partners (option 2 would go with this choice to enhance your sluttiness)?

What impact do you think they would have on the relationship with your Dom/me and what do you think the risks would be of falling for somebody else emotionally or intellectually?

If I were owned and my Domina gave me this choice, my answer would be, "Whichever pleases you, my Lady." If she insisted that I choose one of the options, I would go with number 2, because when you think about it, that still puts the choice right back on her.

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 12:33:15 AM

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When i woz with my Master, it woz 2 and 3 - "2) Be used as a slut by those chosen for you by your Dom/me also being used by him/her or 3) Be allowed to choose your sexual partners (option 2 would go with this choice to enhance your sluttiness)?"

Coz of my circumstances, i couldn't be a 24/7 slave for Him

, so i only got to serve Him once, or if i woz really lucky, twice a week. And when i woz with Him, i done exactly wot He wanted me too. but when i wasn't with Him, i woz just allowed to be me i spose (if that makes sence?)

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 2:41:19 AM

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1 would be my personal preference. I'm a little old-fashioned; I view my sexuality as a gift, and I chose to bestow it on my master. However, if he wanted to explore exhibitionism and humiliation through offering me as a slut to another, I would consider it to please him. The third option just sounds like a nightmare though!

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 3:39:57 AM

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 3:44:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: sleazybutterfly

.. i choose to be my Masters slut..not everyone elses. i don't think this makes me any less of a slut at all.
That is just my slutty little opinion. ; )

What if he wants you to be slutty with others?

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RE: Chaste or Slutty - 5/23/2006 4:50:29 AM

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My answer would be One.
Thorns is a greedy Rat Bastid and does not share what He owns. (His words by the way). He truly believes that He is the only Man i have ever been with in my life, my children were immaculate conceptions and He is perfectly ok with His reality. *grinz*

I remember one night after He asked me to marry Him, we were on the floor just being goofy and messing around....suddenly He just grabed me by the throat and said: I am the only Man you will ever have, girl.
I have never forgotten those words, i have never forgotten that feeling of power in His voice, and the look in His eyes. Mmmmm..

Happy Tuesday y'all!

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