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MasoMenoz -> So i thought about it.. (9/24/2011 11:25:10 PM)
i love how almost every "dominant woman" on this site who are looking for sub men say they are ONLY interested in "financial domination" which is code for: I don't give a fuk who you are, I just want you to send me some money for no reason and i'll call it "financial domination". What are guys sitting at their computers jerkin their meat while sending their cash through paypal? and please don't anyone give me that BS about "financial domination is really a fetish that people love doing" or something. I mean literally like 8 out of every 10 dominant women are doing this and alot of them don't even seem like they know anything about bdsm and so my question is how did this site become like this? are women talking to eachother like "hey im doing this thing on this website and all these guys are just sending me cash!!! you should do it too you can make some money!!"? sorry to go off on a rant lol just tired of this and I know alot of you Dommes are gonna hate on me for this so take your shot

hlen5 -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/24/2011 11:27:42 PM)
I guess you are a speed reader??

LadyPact -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/24/2011 11:29:26 PM)
Here's a few....... Yes, it really is a kink. If you're not into it, treat it like any other kink that doesn't interest you. Just move on to the next profile. How did the site get like this? As with all things in nature, if there were no prey (meaning no males willing to pay) there would be no predators. Lastly, thank you for pointing out, once again, as every time this subject comes up, that I and the other lifestyle Dommes here, really are exceptional.

MasoMenoz -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/24/2011 11:35:25 PM)
a speed reader? no i read the entire profile and believe it or not, 7-8 times outta 10 its exactly what im talking about i mean sure they might throw in like i also do "cam time" if u pay me but thats not bdsm thats golddigging

hlen5 -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/24/2011 11:40:17 PM)
My unstated comment was you joined TODAY and already you've read through enough profiles to rant about the financial dommes?

MasoMenoz -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/24/2011 11:43:00 PM)
oh i see, no i've had other profiles

LadyPact -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/24/2011 11:51:57 PM)
I don't suppose you'd care to share those prior screen names with us so we can get a better understanding?

Arpig -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 12:08:49 AM)
Oh dear no!! That would smack of honesty!

myotherself -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 12:41:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I don't suppose you'd care to share those prior screen names with us so we can get a better understanding? I have a feeling that it would be a most enlightening list...[8\|]

xxblushesxx -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 6:24:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig Oh dear no!! That would smack of honesty! lol

DarkSteven -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 6:30:34 AM)
So lots of wimmins here aren't compatible with you. Dem's da breaks. Maturity is accepting that the world does not revolve around you, and that there will be people who won't match up with you. Why the previous profiles?

Zonie63 -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 6:48:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasoMenoz so my question is how did this site become like this? Because the owners of the site allow this to occur. It's their site; they can run it however they choose. In fairness, they do warn participants not to send money to anyone over the internet, but that's as far as they'll go. Let the buyer beware. Apart from that, it's whatever the market will bear. It would be nice if there was a way to filter out the financial and pro-dommes when searching through profiles, but again, that's up to the site owners to create that capability for its end users. It doesn't seem likely that that will ever happen, and since none of us are paying for the privilege of being here, I can see that it wouldn't be a high priority.

Lockit -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 9:31:46 AM)
So MasoMenoz, of the many previous profiles... you thought about it and that's all you got out of that thought? Fail... Think again...

Hisprettybaby -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 11:16:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasoMenoz i love how almost every "dominant woman" on this site who are looking for sub men say they are ONLY interested in "financial domination" which is code for: I don't give a fuk who you are, I just want you to send me some money for no reason and i'll call it "financial domination". quote: ORIGINAL: MasoMenoz believe it or not, 7-8 times outta 10 its exactly what im talking about I fail to see how 70% to 80% amount to "almost every" Dominant woman. You joined just yesterday, so have you managed to read each and every female Dominant's profile on this site? If you have, you are truly amazing but, for some reason, I'm thinking you haven't and you aren't. This is the deal. You just joined yesterday and your profile says "I will fill this out later" and nothing else. No interests and nothing about yourself. If any Dommes have looked at your own profile, they will get NO information other than the generic 23 yr old submissive male thing. Your own profile doesn't show you to be that desirable. Financial Domination is a legitimate kink for some, so if you don't like it, just keep moving on and keep looking. The truth is some look for months, sometimes even years, before finding the right match. ~Hisprettybaby~

BonesFromAsh -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 11:35:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Maturity is accepting that the world does not revolve around you, and that there will be people who won't match up with you. Quoted for the sheer simplicity of its truthfulness. Common sense is indeed not so common.

subtoyjay -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 11:51:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Zonie63 Because the owners of the site allow this to occur. well if you read the TOS (terms of service) agreement again which you and all those findommes signed upon joining this site it explicitely mentions that you may NOT use the site for commercial interest unless otherwise stated, and the only otherwise stated places are afaik those two or three forum branches for artisians and stuff... which kinda kills all pro domme profiles in one huge swipe furthermore would fin domming as a kink mean that the domming part of the realtionship would control the finances of the subbing part, yet it wouldnt mean that the dommin part would simply own the finances of the subbing part to buy herself new shoes, that could be part of a TPE relationship but just a tiny fraction of it... however most of the socalled fin dommes here simply require amazon wishlists, tribute and all that nonsense that is weirdospeech for "i want to get payed to domme you even tho i know crap about what im doing and am probably not even that girl" which is by fact a commercial interest and not a kink... a commercial interest with false pretense btw... so to make this whole thing work and stop all that bothersome chatter about whats wrong with dommes and subs just add a simple search option that checks for financial interests and mark all profiles that are that way, if you dont checkmark that you have a financial interest and i cant disable it during searches you should get banned on the spot, if you dont deliver the services promised you should be sueable for breach of contract like every other service in the world meaning every profile with a financial interest would have to give its full name, address, social sec number or whatever so there is some customer protection according to international laws...

MsLadySue -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 11:59:53 AM)
What part of 'this is free site' don't you understand? We have no say in how it's run and use it to the best of our ability. If you don't like how the site is run then do yourself a favour and find another site to use in search of your "Pimptress". Bitching about the fin Dommes won't change a thing and only makes you come across as a whiny person.

CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 12:13:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasoMenoz i love how almost every "dominant woman" on this site who are looking for sub men say they are ONLY interested in "financial domination" which is code for: I don't give a fuk who you are, I just want you to send me some money for no reason and i'll call it "financial domination". What are guys sitting at their computers jerkin their meat while sending their cash through paypal? and please don't anyone give me that BS about "financial domination is really a fetish that people love doing" or something. I mean literally like 8 out of every 10 dominant women are doing this and alot of them don't even seem like they know anything about bdsm and so my question is how did this site become like this? are women talking to eachother like "hey im doing this thing on this website and all these guys are just sending me cash!!! you should do it too you can make some money!!"? sorry to go off on a rant lol just tired of this and I know alot of you Dommes are gonna hate on me for this so take your shot Because not everyone registered here as a Dominant...is...a Dominant. And not everyone who registers here as a submissive...is indeed a submissive. There are only the choices of sub, Dom/me, slave, and Switch to choose from, and not options for "here to wank off" or "here to charge wankers money for frottering my leg through chat or phone". (I won't bring up the ones who are here at CM whose kink really is financial domination, as per your request.) Some things simply follow each other like night follows day. If you don't believe me, as yourself this...how long would some street in a city have a long line up of hookers waiting around if no customers showed up, EVER. If there is a need, there will be someone stepping forward to fill that need, especially if money will buy some entertainment. When I come here, I ignore and/or block or politely tell the wankers where they can go. You will simply have to do the same with the ones wanting money. Believe me, by the tiime I eliminated the unsuitables, there was a very small percentage left to choose from...it became a nice, manageable trickle and it was easier to sift through and find who I wanted. Eliminating all of those women (there is a block feature on the other side) will help you have more time to read the profiles and journal entries, and possibly enough of their posts within the message boards, to send a nice, friendly letter to those who are more compatible. Read the FAQ in Ask a Mistress and it will help you with finding women here...and make a better impression than the run of the mill guy who lunges after us kink/dick first without checking for vanilla type compatibility. It would be nice if everyone who came here was only interested in the things I am interested in; searching would have been very easy. [:D] Within the mail room and the chatrooms, many people are into cybering and BDSM roleplay, and some are here on both sides just to talk with friends. They are not looking for a partner anymore. It can be nice to just be yourself and not have to sanitize everything for vanilla ears. Take what you need from this site and ignore the rest.

PeonForHer -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 3:08:59 PM)
MM, I think you took the wrong route. Anyone coming to CollarMe and focusing on the adverts alone will see lots of those sorts of 'female dominants'. I think you need to come here and talk to people, on these forums. It's a slower way to meet someone, but it's a surer way. Good luck. And by the way, I actually have heard of someone called C.O.Jones, and he really did have that name on his suitcases, and he really did have trouble every time he went through the customs officials of the airports of any Spanish-speaking country.

JanahX -> RE: So i thought about it.. (9/25/2011 3:28:51 PM)
quote: What are guys sitting at their computers jerkin their meat while sending their cash through paypal? and please don't anyone give me that BS about "financial domination is really a fetish that people love doing" YES... as a matter of fact, they are !! Why is this surprising or even a question? Fucking duh ....

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