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Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:08:22 AM   
lunaticlorraine


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Status: offline 		Okay, this is something that is beginning to annoy me now.
My profile states clearly that I am a lesbian.
Yet I still have guys messaging me telling me to serve them ect. That it's a waste that I am a lesbian.
It really annoys me.
I have some friends on here who are guys which is why I dont turn the filter on, and also I dont mind talking to guys.
Its just this that bothers me.
Why do they do it?
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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:11:54 AM   
DeviantlyD


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Status: offline 		'Cause their dicks can't read. :D

Unfortunately this appears to be a problem for pretty much all lesbian women, particularly attractive ones. The only thing I can suggest is to remove your photos. Otherwise, delete, block and carry on. :)

Edited to add:

You may want to consider doing a bit of photoshopping on your profile photo. Even though it's in the background, there is a photograph with children in it. My guess is that even something so seemingly innocuous as that could be problematic for a kink site.

< Message edited by DeviantlyD -- 9/25/2011 7:14:01 AM >

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:12:14 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		1. You're purty.  Many men just look at the pic and ignore the profile.
2. Some figure you're a sub, so you will serve.  They haven't gotten the part that says that the sub chooses who he or she will serve.
3. Some people are just plain stoopid. 

Not sure what else to tell you, except welcome to the forums.


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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:23:53 AM   
HisPet21


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'Cause their dicks can't read. :D


LMFAO

To the OP, there are just a LOT of desperate, horny men on this site. A lot of them will just message as many hot chicks as they can find, without bothering to read through a profile, in the hopes of getting a taker. They are, in essence, going fishing. Others are just head over heels in love with themselves and are certain your sexual orientation will change once you have seen their domly awesomeness.


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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:25:10 AM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		Why? Because they are idiots. Get used to it, they won't be stopping any time soon.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:34:04 AM   
SomoneReal


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lunaticlorraine

Okay, this is something that is beginning to annoy me now.
My profile states clearly that I am a lesbian.
Yet I still have guys messaging me telling me to serve them ect. That it's a waste that I am a lesbian.
It really annoys me.
I have some friends on here who are guys which is why I dont turn the filter on, and also I dont mind talking to guys.
Its just this that bothers me.
Why do they do it?



They do understand, they just don't care.  And most of them probably just look at your picture, blow their load, and than send their message.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:36:38 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Wrong! They look at her picture, send the message and then blow their load. There's no more energy for message sending after the blowing of the load.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:42:30 AM   
needsaroom


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Status: offline 		They are using speech software and hear it as thespian. They want a woman who can act convincingly like she love sects. This is a case of miscommunication. (Blame technology whenever possible.)

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:54:29 AM   
lunaticlorraine


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Status: offline 		I see what you are all saying lol.
I was ranting because it's really annoying.
As I am new to the forums may I ask a question?

I am seeking a Domme and was wondering if there was a place to post about it, or if there wasnt a place on these forums?

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:58:20 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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Status: offline 		If you haven't done so, I suggest posting in the Introduce Yourself section. Note: it's really a place to tell us about yourself but it couldn't hurt to add a sentence. Hopefully it'll keep the men from drooling though I'm not sure it'll prevent it entirely lol.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 7:58:24 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Introductions is what you're looking for. A couple flights up from the general discussion area.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 8:09:15 AM   
CeriseNin


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Status: offline 		When I had pics on my profile I got cmails like that. So I removed my pics, still got the dumb cmails. My profile is hidden now, but I used to just delete and block. Don't let it get to you - - it's just guys casting their net hoping to catch someone. Anyone.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 8:43:52 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lunaticlorraine

I see what you are all saying lol.
I was ranting because it's really annoying.
As I am new to the forums may I ask a question?

I am seeking a Domme and was wondering if there was a place to post about it, or if there wasnt a place on these forums?



So you're new.  We're not big on protocol.  Unless and until you show yourself to be an idiot (and outside of Politics and Religion, there are only three or four idiots in the forums), your posts are just as good as anyone else's.

To answer your question, I would just post an Intro as others have said, and then just hang in the Ask A Mistress forum.  Listen, talk, get to know people.  If you click with a les or bi Domme in the vanilla interchange there, send her a private message.  Unfortunately, almost all the posters here, including Dommes, are in the US and Canada, so your chances aren't great.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 12:27:50 PM   
Epytropos


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Status: offline 		People are ignorant/shit. Alert the media.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 1:09:41 PM   
MasterSlaveLA


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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD

'Cause their dicks can't read. :D



 lol



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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 1:18:11 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		If you were a straight woman in a relationship, you would be told to abandon your partner and your children to serve them and their wives. If you're a sub, you would still get messages from guys wanting you to domme them.

Guys don't read. Don't allow them to get to you. Just delete and block.


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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 2:00:31 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


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quote:

If you were a straight woman in a relationship, you would be told to abandon your partner and your children to serve them and their wives. If you're a sub, you would still get messages from guys wanting you to domme them.

Guys don't read. Don't allow them to get to you. Just delete and block.
Nor do women actually. I quite regularly get told to leave Hanners to serve some woman writing out of the blue.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 3:29:42 PM   
smartsub10


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Status: offline 		I find it funny that they tell you it's a "waste" that you're a lesbian. 
Horny guy logic at it's best.


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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 6:03:21 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lunaticlorraine

Okay, this is something that is beginning to annoy me now.
My profile states clearly that I am a lesbian.
Yet I still have guys messaging me telling me to serve them ect. That it's a waste that I am a lesbian.
It really annoys me.
I have some friends on here who are guys which is why I dont turn the filter on, and also I dont mind talking to guys.
Its just this that bothers me.
Why do they do it?

Because it irritates you so much that you feel the need to come here and inform a whole forum of strangers how much it irritates you.

It's amusing.
I would do it too.

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RE: Why dont they understand? - 9/25/2011 6:19:46 PM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lunaticlorraine

Okay, this is something that is beginning to annoy me now.
My profile states clearly that I am a lesbian.
Yet I still have guys messaging me telling me to serve them ect. That it's a waste that I am a lesbian.
It really annoys me.
I have some friends on here who are guys which is why I dont turn the filter on, and also I dont mind talking to guys.
Its just this that bothers me.
Why do they do it?



Because they can.

Plus, sheesh, we all have run across those those guys who are like, "Oh, she's a lesbian. That's just cuz she ain't met me."


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