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BlackTigerDragon -> :( :( :( (10/4/2011 3:59:44 AM)
Ok, small stupid question: Why do some people look so unhappy in their profile photos? After looking though profiles...I don't think I want to try this lifestyle any more...it looks boring and depressing. :( ... in fact, all my experiences with it has been boring and depressing...

DeviantlyD -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 4:04:54 AM)
Sorry to hear that. Most (but not all) of my experiences have been very happy ones and far from boring. How long have you been involved with it? If being involved in this doesn't speak to you, then I would agree you should not engage in it. But I have to wonder what drew you here to begin with.

Aileen1968 -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 4:06:22 AM)
Dark toenail polish is soooo depressing to look at.

myotherself -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 4:08:17 AM)
Aileen - stop smiling! Makes you look all fakey [8\|]

LaTigresse -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 4:10:32 AM)
Not my electric dark violet toe nail polish!!! It makes me smile when I take my shoes and socks off! OP, if something about YOUR life is seriously depressing you, or if you are bored, then do what needs to be done to change it. Whatever shit random 'other' people have going on.........that is their problem. Bored and depressed (unless clinical and requiring treatment and even then...) is a CHOICE! I make the choice to be neither.

xxblushesxx -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 4:11:10 AM)
I'd say that some of the dom types think that not smiling makes them look more dom-like. (it doesn't, but...you know...) But if your experiences have all been boring and unhappy, I agree, it's probably not a good fit for you.

Raenam602 -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 4:16:00 AM)
I do see your point with sad and depressing profile pictures. I feel mine is a sufficiently lit, happy picture.

Aileen1968 -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 4:18:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself Aileen - stop smiling! Makes you look all fakey [8\|] ha! Just changed my profile pic. The hamster's happy though.

DeviantlyD -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 4:18:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx I'd say that some of the dom types think that not smiling makes them look more dom-like. (it doesn't, but...you know...) Ha, ha!!! You're right! I just realized...lots of them have these uber-serious looks...and notice how the angle of the camera is often looking up at the dom in question? Funny! :D That reminds me of something else. While it isn't always the case, I've found a fairly good rule of thumb is the member's name. If it contains "Sir" or "Master" or "Dom" or "Daddy" or any of the equivalents, I usually find them to be uh...perhaps more involved in the fantasy aspect than the reality aspect of things...if you get my drift. ;)

Kana -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 5:30:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlackTigerDragon Ok, small stupid question: Why do some people look so unhappy in their profile photos? After looking though profiles...I don't think I want to try this lifestyle any more...it looks boring and depressing. :( ... in fact, all my experiences with it has been boring and depressing... Easy peasy, pudding and pie. They're frowning because they are not being owned by me. Sheeeeeesh, that should be obvious. And as for your boredom, why, it's equally apparent that's because you haven't been taken down by moi :-)

ProlificNeeds -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 5:36:14 AM)
Some people lead miserable lives, sometimes on purpose, if they didn't they wouldn't have anything to complain about!

SailingBum -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 5:46:48 AM)
Ehhh i suspect Kana is correct in his assessment of the situation. Or it could be the OP is nuttin but a whiny lil bitch. You decide! BadOne

Killerangel -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 5:58:36 AM)
I do usually get a chuckle at the Domly photos, all serious, arms crossed, scowling, etc. It's like they've been asked to play a part. My experiences have not been so awful, sorry that you haven't had much fun- maybe it's time to hang it up for you then? Not sure I'd stick with something that wasn't fun.

Hillwilliam -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 6:01:45 AM)
Sooooooooooooo, y'all are saying that My big assed plastic cock makes Me look more 'weal and twue' than some scowling dude all in leather in a big assed hand carved gothic chair.? Cool.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 6:14:20 AM)
Sounds about right, Hilly!

Hillwilliam -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 6:18:11 AM)
I still gotta get one of those chairs some day.

SailingBum -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 6:19:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam Sooooooooooooo, y'all are saying that My big assed plastic cock makes Me look more 'weal and twue' than some scowling dude all in leather in a big assed hand carved gothic chair.? Cool. You gotta be shitting me ... All the time I thought that was a pict of a "chicken"??? BadOne

Hillwilliam -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 6:21:38 AM)
Nah, it started as a snark about "Cock Pics" as a primary photo (or any photo) and I got so many people laughing at it that I decided to leave it.

Killerangel -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 6:23:36 AM)
Ask any woman what she likes in a guy- a sense of humor always comes up. Yes, your big assed plastic cock is more real and true in this instance than a guy who surrounds himself with accoutrements as though to play a part, and looks like he needs a laxative. Honestly sometimes I want to write these gentlemen and ask what they ate for breakfast...barbed wire? Nails? Mom's homemade muffins (thud)?

Hillwilliam -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 6:24:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Killerangel Ask any woman what she likes in a guy- a sense of humor always comes up. Yes, your big assed plastic cock is more real and true in this instance than a guy who surrounds himself with accoutrements as though to play a part, and looks like he needs a laxative. Honestly sometimes I want to write these gentlemen and ask what they ate for breakfast...barbed wire? Nails? Mom's homemade muffins (thud)? Holly's meat loaf? [8D]

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