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RE: The Nature of the Relationship - 5/24/2006 5:58:07 AM

NINASHARP

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Since message board "polls" are meaningless when it comes to accuracy, I will simply ask and hope enough people who represent the varieties that exist out there will give a meaningful answer.

What is the basis of your relationship with your primary partner if you have one and if not, what would you want it to be based on (assuming you want a primary partner)?

My primary partner and I reversed our roles. We have been together for... wow, almost 8 years now, and for the first few years, I was his collared slavegirl, and dominant to few others that still remain in my life. Trust and initmacy over all things has been what our relationship was and has been based on, yet now that the tables have turned quite a bit for he is now my collared slave, I find that since we've overcome some hurdles of trust, and forgiveness, the relationship has evolved into more communication and friendship.

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ORIGINAL: anthrosub
Do you care to have a primary partner at all? How important is love?

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anthrosub

I love others openly. There are different levels of love, but I try to recognize and embrace the differences. My partner thinks that I use the words I Love You too casually or nonchalantly, like saying goodbye. But I feel love and am not afraid to express it. His views on love are pretty reserved, because of his upbringing and it was not a word that he heard often growing up.

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RE: The Nature of the Relationship - 5/24/2006 6:57:36 AM

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I have two partners, i am a slave in a 24/7 TPE M/M/s relationship. It is based on love, i could never submit to someone i did not love. There is also total trust, friendship, common interests and respect.

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RE: The Nature of the Relationship - 5/24/2006 7:50:28 AM

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While I am not currently in any type of relationship I feel that Friendship and Respect comes first and good Friendship and with Respect builds Trust.With all three of these Love comes naturally. I am hoping to find All of these with a Mistress someday.

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RE: The Nature of the Relationship - 5/24/2006 8:28:22 AM

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Friendship is #1, common life goals and desires, and sexual attraction and compatibility.

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