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Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 5:41:09 PM   
SweetEscravo


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Is it ever okay to have sex with someone again after you break up?  Especially if that person is seeing someone else...
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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 5:46:09 PM   
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It's okay if it's okay with you, and the other people involved (Your ex and his current)

If it's not okay with his current, it's cheating.  Still may be okay, just be prepared to be shouted down.

If it's not okay with you, you have a problem.

If it's not okay with him, it's rape.

If it is okay with you, why the hell are you asking this question?

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:00:53 PM   
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At your age I would say absolutely not. He let you go so go find another Dom
He was taking advantage of you anyway for the last 2 years.
you were underage.  He could be charged with asault or statutory rape.

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:12:33 PM   
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As Benji said,that answer is best answered between the 3 of you..I am thinking if you are asking, then you are having doubts about it being "okay"...ask yourself "why"?.....Tempting

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:29:25 PM   
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You currently have two unrelated threads running in the top 5 slots of the same message board regarding whether or not you should have sex with two different men. I would say that shouts pretty loudly that you are not thinking very clearly. On the other thread LA gave you some pretty great advice about pulling back from all intimate or sexual contact for a few months while you get your head straight. Seems pretty sound to me.


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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:35:44 PM   
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I'd say no, but then I'm more of an old fashioned conservative type and am a tad reserved when it comes to whom you are partners with.

But in reference to Pete, you have no proof they had sex before she turned 18 for one.  And secondly, in her home state the age of consent is 16 years of age, not 18 so even if they were having sex from day one if she consented it was legal.

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:37:46 PM   
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The big question is... is it okay with you benji?

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:44:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

The big question is... is it okay with you benji?



As long as I get the videos, it's all good!

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:47:16 PM   
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Hmmmm..... if I get copies I'm okay too! Anyone else okay with video's?

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:50:20 PM   
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You guys act like such........well.......guys!!! I am soooooooo glad I don't have testosterone issues!!!

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:50:49 PM   
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I say fuck him.
And I just know I'll get flamed for that.

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Is it ever okay to get videos of kinky sex? - 5/23/2006 6:50:51 PM   
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You may get a backlog of orders...  Unless Lokiwood turns out to have a huge suply of blank DVDs and VHS tapes to send out.

We really should charge 6.95 S&H.

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:51:40 PM   
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videos? does it involve naked girls??

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:52:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I say fuck him.
And I just know I'll get flamed for that.



For what?? Providing Loki and I with hours of amateur porn?  I won't flame you.

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:54:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

videos? does it involve naked girls??


Yep Aileen, ,mist, and the OP are going to make us some steamy ones!

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:55:46 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

videos? does it involve naked girls??


Yep Aileen, ,mist, and the OP are going to make us some steamy ones!


I don't do that!!!
Oh wait....yes I do.  :)

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:56:34 PM   
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YAY!!!!

Can I direct them?

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 6:58:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I don't do that!!!
Oh wait....yes I do.  :)


DING!!!! *luv bubbles*

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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 7:01:18 PM   
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Today’s episode of Kinkyme street was brought to you by the word...
 
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RE: Is it ever okay? - 5/23/2006 7:04:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Today’s episode of Kinkyme street was brought to you by the word...
 
Derailed


Almost like a gang bang in here....fanning herself.

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