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risktaker9 -> RE: Question for female subs on Diapers Humiliation (10/12/2011 2:32:07 PM)
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ORIGINAL: dlbilly
Ouch! You guys are a tough crowd. As a Dom, it doesn't feel good to get spanked. You subs are a rough crowd.
I'm surprised at how adamant, even visceral some of the responses are to this. I never actually said anything about using the diapers for pee or shit. I kind of see that as being covered in scat play or urine play. But, I did mention accidents and checking for wetness, however, I was thinking more of vaginal lubrication, but, I can see how it could be taken the other way.
In response to several of the comments made: No, I'm not a pedophile. Yes, I have raised children and changed plenty of diapers and did not enjoy it. No, I don't want my play partners to stink like shit or stale piss. Nope, this wasn't a wank post, and if it had been, I would have to be a masochist to get off on the responses I received. Nope, I have not had to deal with adult incontinence, I hope I never have to, and my heart goes out to those who have had to. No, my wife is not interested. I have not checked FetLife AB/DL groups, but, I would bet that those groups are populated almost exclusively by male Adult Babies who are looking for a Mommy, which is entirely different than my interests. Yes, you would have to be into humiliation to consider this and I would expect a D/s relationships have a way to prevent unacceptable or damaging situations from occurring. No, I'm not likely to get 'lucky' from this post.
I got my answer. I may have also tagged myself as a perv, which in this crowd is really saying something!
I'm really glad you came back to the thread, I was wondering if you would and it's cool that you did. It seems to me from reading your second entry here that there are discrepancies between what you wanted to hear about and what you got. Perhaps I can point out why this happened from a readers point of view. You said in the OP quite clearly that you wanted to hear people's thoughts and then in a followup post you asked another poster why do you feel that way? Well, we all told you answers to your questions. You seemed to think that you got visceral responses and yes, you did- but you asked several times for that information. Maybe because it was overwhelmingly no, it felt like people were slamming you but they were giving you what you so carefully asked for. It's a polarizing topic as well, there aren't many gray areas. Spanking can be a million different things, diapers not so much.
You are correct, you never mentioned waste specifically in connection with the diapers, but come on, that's what their only purpose is for. It's disingenuous to think that a bunch of people can divine your meaning if it's NOT the obvious one. Maybe next time be more specific about what your intent is? Hey, also, no one accused you of being a pedophile and the two times it was brought up it was to say that the poster wasn't interested in diapers because they felt there was a connection there with pedophilia and diapers. It was a reason they didn't like diapers and that diapers made them uncomfortable. I felt it was pretty clear that they were remarking on their own views and not pointing fingers at you. And you asked for information from us remember? About how we felt on this subject.
Ok, so you changed diapers in your life, great. Then you know why the people here don't like them. No one would have known that since we don't know you and it was a viable question. Again, no one was pointing fingers and calling you a bad father. It was more like hey, if you like this then maybe you haven't had to do it very much - which makes sense. I was the one who asked about your wife, only to point out that you were here for information from women and there was one and what did she think? Again, I wasn't pointing fingers, just saying well there's someone you could ask since you seemed mystified by the hard limits against diapers mentioned in the profiles.
In fact what I took away from this thread is that every person here that responded and did so at your request, was very careful to draw the line between how they felt about the subject and you. No one really slammed you or your desires, they just don't like diapers and gave you information on how they themselves felt on it. You came here, you asked a question, people answered you. If it wasn't what you wanted then give us better information to go on next time.
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