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Lockit -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 12:33:50 PM)
FR... I so love Ron White for giving me a quickie to use just in situations like this. You can't fix stupid.

JanahX -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 2:17:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousCanuck quote: ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousCanuck I have a sort of weird fetish of wanting to show off/share my slave. Duties would include but are not limited to: flashing strangers when told to playing with strangers when told to public sex and so on The sluttier something is the better... oh god, ordering pizza and making her give the pizza man a blow job or something would be amazing. :D This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated, just the idea of my slave being a whore and getting other people off is very attractive to me... especially if it's with strangers. I feel crazy for being into this. Am I? Are you going to ask these strangers ahead of time if they are willing to have your kink pushed on them? What if they don't want to and, instead laugh at her/insult her/call the police? In all of the above cases, are these strangers (1)consenting AND (2)are they of legal age...ALL of them? Are you willing to pay the fines for her having public sex? Do you think it's "amazing" that she might spend time in prison for a sex offense? What if some of the "public" includes underage kids? Do you think it's "amazing" or funny that she will be branded as a sex offender for the rest of her life, if some of the "public" is underage and/or non-consenting to seeing this and makes an issue of it? Do you require there to be condoms used during any of this sex she is expected to engage in, or are you willing to pay for her STD treatments? Also, are you willing to have sex with her if she picks up a disease from one of those strangers you are so willing for her to have sex with? Pizza man or stranger, all of these questions should be resolved first. Also......"This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated?" For WHO?? Maybe YOU wouldn't be humiliated, but what about HER? What if she's laughed at? Do you think she won't be humiliated if she's insulted when she flashes/has sex with someone? Yes, IMO you are crazy. I think YOU WATCH TOO MUCH PORN. Get off the porn sites and start thinking with your big head, I mean the one above your shoulders. ~Hisprettybaby~ P.S. I perved your profile. Just out of curiosity, (1)how is a guy going to satisfy his bi-curiosity with another woman, and (2)what is "dogging?" (1) a threesome - partner is there to help experiment (2) public sex I'd like to add all of the porn I watch is amateur and NOT professional with actors... so some of these things are done. Hey go for it. Im with you dude. Some people love jail and already have permanent STD's.- they aint never going away EVER. They have nothing to lose. In fact, they may have fond meomories of getting their std's in jail. Never give up. Go for your dreams.

CuriousCanuck -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 4:11:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I dunno. What does your girl look like? Hot cute lil bird or chunky, older, not so in shape? Could make the difference if she's laughed at making the whole scene not very hot for both of you or not. As for the glory hole situation in the movies...dude, it's a movie. It's not real life. Those people are screened for diseases and it's scripted. If you think that's how it is in real life I suggest you turn off the tv and the internet and maybe try spending some one on one time with your gal. I know the difference between professional and amatuer porn. I also know the difference between fake amatuer porn and real amatuer porn. I'm sure videos that COUPLES upload to tube sites and the like must all be staged though. Give me a break. Some people enjoy the idea of going to gloryholes, sex clubs, public theatres and the like. I've had sex in public many times and I never thought that I was following my dreams to get caught, go to jail, get raped and catch an std (wtf?). I've heard many stories of people seducing the cable guy, but I never thought of calling them stupid and telling them to enjoy jail and thier stds. Obviously if a pizzaman was underaged we'd just choose not to do anything sexual with him. Also, from all my times having sex at night in the park and on the beach I've never seen any children or elderly women walking around to get offended. If we got caught by the police that would be our own damn fault. I think people are also getting some sort of misconception that I'd be telling her to blow random guys on the street in the middle of a busy street in broad daylight. I'm pretty sure if we went to a porno theatre together, any guys there would be open to the idea and not ready to press charges because the idea of sex offends them that much. quote: You can't fix stupid I don't get why everyone you're so hostile. Wow. This is my first and last time using this site, that's for sure. Thanks Hannah for sticking up for me.

CuriousCanuck -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 4:15:55 PM)
and yes, in this THEORETICAL situation, condoms would be used. Since everyone has made it clear how insane and immoral these things are, I'll abandon the fantasy.

TheFireWithinMe -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 4:18:36 PM)
quote: and maybe you don't know shit. Looking at your avatar it appears you want to fuck that shit. Hey this is fun!

JanahX -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 4:20:38 PM)
Hey whatever flicks your bic dood. Seriously. Do it. And find the partner of your dreams that is into this type of shit as well. We all have our kinks. and if you get caught, you get caught. If you dont, then go on another day with your kinks and fetishes. I just know that if someone came up to me and flashed me, I would call the cops. When Im out in public doing my thing, I dont need or want to see someone naked or any part of their body. Not even close. If I saw someone having sex in public .. say the park, grocery store, restaurant, school, library, - PUBLIC, I would also call the cops. Kids dont need to come across that kind of thing, and to be honest .. Im not really into seeing strangers on an ordinary day having sex in public either. If Im at a sex club or whatever .. sure then Im looking for it. But not when Im out and about.

CuriousCanuck -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 4:35:17 PM)
That's fine. I might call the police if I saw someone having sex at a school in the middle of the day as well. I never said I was going to go find places where children congregate and fuck in front of them.

JanahX -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 6:31:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousCanuck That's fine. I might call the police if I saw someone having sex at a school in the middle of the day as well. I never said I was going to go find places where children congregate and fuck in front of them. Your comprehension skills are atrocious.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 6:39:19 PM)
kids do go to places besides school you know... like the grocery store with their parents, or they ride in cars down streets. your OP says "public," which could mean anything. now you're tweaking it to make it less silly. but still, putting your s-type on the line like that without really thinking it through is bad form -- like someone else said, you aren't the one in the position to be humiliated. she is. you aren't the one in the position to get diseased. she is. and you never did answer that question -- would you be willing to stick with her if something DID happen to her because of an order you gave? most guys i've seen who have these kinds of fantasies end up resenting the girl they do them with. now, i don't believe all glory hole videos are staged. i also don't believe all sex theatre videos are staged. we have such a theatre nearby, and while i haven't been there myself, i've had invites to go from guys who are local to me, and they describe all sorts of shenanigans going on there. i think those are places where you can go crazy in a controlled "public" and wackiness does really happen there. you could join a swingers club. heck, some people get hotel rooms facing highways and do all sorts of stuff in the windows. i figure the risk IS part of the fun, but for a lot of this, you aren't the one assuming the risk, and i think that's what's annoying people.

IrishMist -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/13/2011 7:39:43 PM)
quote: flashing strangers when told to We did that as teenagers... quote: playing with strangers when told to This, it would depend greatly on what exactly you meant by 'playing with'. Some 'strangers' don't like being touched by other strangers [8D] quote: public sex Not much of a kink there. Most people, at one time or another, have had public sex [:D] Personally, if it's something that you both are ok with...go for it...just remember that the consequences of such actions are your responsibility.

kalikshama -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 6:18:51 AM)
Do a search for "Ontario swing club" - you can get your public sex fantasies met much more sanely. (Use condoms!)

OsideGirl -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 8:30:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep i figure the risk IS part of the fun, but for a lot of this, you aren't the one assuming the risk, and i think that's what's annoying people. Hell, he's not even aware of what the risks ARE, never mind being able to assume them.

CuriousCanuck -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 10:41:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX Your comprehension skills are atrocious. Likewise. quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist Not much of a kink there. Most people, at one time or another, have had public sex But A LOT of people are very upset about that in this thread. quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama Do a search for "Ontario swing club" - you can get your public sex fantasies met much more sanely. (Use condoms!) No, if this thread is any indication the community doesn't even want me, and likewise, these are not the sort of people I'd like to associate with. quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Hell, he's not even aware of what the risks ARE, never mind being able to assume them. I'm very aware of what the risks are. I am okay with the risks and it doesn't matter if I'm not the one personally assuming the risks, we'd both be taking them as a couple. Anything that happened to her would happen to me too. But you're right, I'm too goddamn stupid to even comprehend them. I even already said that I wouldn't try any of these fantasies because of the negative backlash I've received, but I'm still getting shit for even bringing it up. I didn't know this community would be so hostile, but it's definitely turned me off to the entire BDSM community (are you all so fucking mean?). It's not just this thread, it happened in the chat too because I said I wasn't sure if I was looking for a life partner, which to some people is completely unacceptable (cue people calling me a moron and making other personal attacks). This is my last post, so good bye. I'll save you the trouble of calling me a moron and telling me good riddance/don't let the door hit me on the way out. Thanks to people who stood up to me and the people who had constructive criticism to offer

Lockit -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 11:11:25 AM)
The measure of a man/adult is that when they are wrong, they accept that they are wrong and not lash out like a child, pouting that their wrong was pointed out and they were not coddled into a life lesson. You deciding not to do this and your statements sound like lashing out defensively and as if you are pointing out that those horrible people were bad because they told you how stupid it was to take the risks you wanted to take. If you are a dominant... you are asking a submissive to risk her well being or life and just because you are willing to take the bad with her... doesn't suggest you are using the brains this life gave you. First of all... if she is the one exposing herself in public, it is she that will have the legal ramifications of a sex offender... not you. Now stop stomping around like a child, wake up, grow up and be a man.

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 11:35:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit The measure of a man/adult is that when they are wrong, they accept that they are wrong and not lash out like a child, pouting that their wrong was pointed out and they were not coddled into a life lesson. You deciding not to do this and your statements sound like lashing out defensively and as if you are pointing out that those horrible people were bad because they told you how stupid it was to take the risks you wanted to take. If you are a dominant... you are asking a submissive to risk her well being or life and just because you are willing to take the bad with her... doesn't suggest you are using the brains this life gave you. First of all... if she is the one exposing herself in public, it is she that will have the legal ramifications of a sex offender... not you. Now stop stomping around like a child, wake up, grow up and be a man. This. ^^^^^^ ALL of it.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 11:48:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousCanuck I'm very aware of what the risks are. I am okay with the risks and it doesn't matter if I'm not the one personally assuming the risks, we'd both be taking them as a couple. Anything that happened to her would happen to me too. only true in certain circumstances, like if you're specifically doing something together. but many of your fantasies involve HER doing things at your behest. greeting a random pizza guy naked -- that's HER doing it. flashing her pussy at people -- that's HER. giving random blowjobs to strangers (you're the one who has repeatedly used the word "stranger") -- that's HER. where is your risk-sharing here? quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit First of all... if she is the one exposing herself in public, it is she that will have the legal ramifications of a sex offender... not you. COMPLETELY true. when has someone used "someone else made me do it" as a legal defense and been successful in getting away with it? if SHE is the one caught in the act of flashing people, SHE is the one who will be legally responsible. no matter how close you're standing to her at the time. (dude, if you're this upset about an internet forum, how do you get by in real life?) if you want to be Dominant and responsible for making decisions for another person (you're using the word "slave" -- what does that mean to you?), you have to take that person's wellbeing into account, and, no matter what you may think, you have shown that you aren't fully cognizant of what that means. you have fantasies, you want to live them, and screw everything else. that's a very unrealistic view of the world. edit: p.s. it's important to note that people aren't necessarily discouraging the fantasies -- how many suggestions have you gotten for safer ways to live some of them out? you're refusing to accept that you just might have the wrong idea. there are people here who've been at this for a long time and sometimes they have good advice to share with those who are just starting out. not all fantasies should leave the brain, but some of them CAN be lived out in a safer way.

GreedyTop -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 11:55:55 AM)
what Lilly said.

kalikshama -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 12:12:32 PM)
quote: I didn't know this community would be so hostile, but it's definitely turned me off to the entire BDSM community (are you all so fucking mean?) If we were mean, we'd say "Go for it!" instead of offering you safer alternatives. We've all made mistakes - the hostiles are trying to help you not make your own. Take a deep breath and a step back and reread the thread for ideas that are still hot, yet safer. To answer your OP: quote: This fantasy wouldn't really include being humiliated, just the idea of my slave being a whore and getting other people off is very attractive to me... especially if it's with strangers. I feel crazy for being into this. Am I? You're not crazy. IME, lots of guys have this fantasy. Now, be careful out there!

GreedyTop -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 12:20:34 PM)
way to generalize. using that same kind of generalization, one could say that Canadian women are all indiscriminate sluts. just saying.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Does someone out there like this exist? (10/14/2011 12:22:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop way to generalize. using that same kind of generalization, one could say that Canadian women are all indiscriminate sluts. just saying. exactly. generalizations get you exactly nowhere. and i'm not really surprised by the big mass of blue.

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