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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/25/2006 9:38:23 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Does anyone actually think that this is real?

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/25/2006 9:55:28 PM   
OhBeMyMind


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Status: offline 		In some fantasy, dramatic, cyber-like way, sure.   Or at least in the mind of the OP......ugh.....maybe some meds are in order?

Me thinks I should make more of an effort to be nice, but BS like this kinda rubs me all wrong.

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Does anyone actually think that this is real?


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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/25/2006 9:58:17 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		If I thought it was real I would have been nice in my reply to her. I do not know why, but it really annoyed me to see her tell everyone they could not "understand English" when she was far from proficient in it herself...lol

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/25/2006 10:14:16 PM   
LaMalinche


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Does anyone actually think that this is real?


Of course I think that this is real.  I am used to people not being able to tell the difference between online submission and real-life BDSM activities. 

This is the reason all of those HNG's think that "On Your Knees Bitch" is actually gonna work.  The only thing better is when I have had these same whankers threaten to "punish" me if I did not.  I know that AT&T's motto was "Reach out and touch someone. . ."  But seriously. . . my laptop is an ultra-thin, ultra-ight one, there is no way that they are going to get their hand through it.  *rolls eyes*

It is IM'ing or chatting or whatever. . . you (The OP) do/es not have to respond.  Just like I do not have to answer my phone if it rings (well I do at work) or the door if someone knocks on it. 

Best,

LaMalinche


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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/26/2006 5:57:13 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Dear TNS,

Please re-read the OP.  ALMOST a drama queen.

Ron

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/26/2006 6:03:41 AM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Does anyone actually think that this is real?


I tend to take people at face value online.  I find this is the best approach.  Of course, since I'm not seeking any closer contact, there is little they can do to affect me. 

Of course, as in this case, I feel free to ask questions.

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/26/2006 8:13:42 AM   
FirmhandKY


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Does anyone actually think that this is real?


No, it was a setup by someone who frequents the forums already, either as a poster, or just a lurker.  Although it wasn't totally obvious at first.

Notice the change of syntax and spelling on the "This was a test ...?"  Not to mention the change in attitude?

Most likely, it was a male "dom" just looking for a little humor, or kicks at some of the forum regulars expense.

Or a sub with a bit of a 'tude.

*shrugs*

I didn't care enough to worry about it over much.  I think John Warren's "Darwin Award" application hit the mark pretty closely, regardless.

FHky




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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/26/2006 8:54:56 AM   
OhBeMyMind


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Status: offline 		Duely noted, lesson learned.  I never really considered having to use private investigator tactics, I do have extra time on my hands this time of year (School's out for summer), but gosh, I do not have that much time to have to investigate every post and who made it. 
Obviously, the OP is way over the top, and the whole ordeal certainly sounds completely insane (at least to me), but there have been many that I have come across that blur, and cannot really tell the difference between online and real time....kind of sad actually, I guess, but something that irks me nonetheless.

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ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Does anyone actually think that this is real?


No, it was a setup by someone who frequents the forums already, either as a poster, or just a lurker.  Although it wasn't totally obvious at first.

Notice the change of syntax and spelling on the "This was a test ...?"  Not to mention the change in attitude?

Most likely, it was a male "dom" just looking for a little humor, or kicks at some of the forum regulars expense.

Or a sub with a bit of a 'tude.

*shrugs*

I didn't care enough to worry about it over much.  I think John Warren's "Darwin Award" application hit the mark pretty closely, regardless.

FHky





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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/26/2006 9:40:02 AM   
zumala


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Status: offline 		Personally, it just seemed... not right somehow.  So I didn't bother saying anything.  I was actually wondering why it kept going as long as it did.
 
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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/26/2006 11:16:37 AM   
TreasureWithin


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Status: offline 		Oooooooh, please.....type harshly to me..... i'm a cyber-maoschist. And please, Sir, make sure You type all sorts of nasty names and diabolical things You plan to do to my sweet and naive cyber self..."harsher, please Sir! and hit the keys on the keyboard harder too, please!"
 
typed with tongue firmly in cheek(my own cheek, damn it)
treasure

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/29/2006 8:34:51 PM   
Skuggi


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Status: offline 		WOW - wtf - report this sick bastard to collarme if he's here.

This is no Master of anything - this is a disgrace to the bdsm community and yes you should report him to the authorities for stalking.

On personal notes, I hope he gets to know your pitbulls :-) up close and personal since he doesn't deserve anything better then a bite to the ole nuts.

Hope you are feeling better Released and warm thoughts.

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/29/2006 9:02:25 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Does anyone actually think that this is real?


um nope...

People like that are the reason I don't go to chat any more...there always has to be someone come in there supposedly crying and upset....one came in to say her mother just died...I mean like she just got the call...er...um....so the first thing you do is log into a chat room?  Not to mention the countless ones with Dom/Domme troubles....people that they've never met mind you....lol

Then you can always liken this to when you go out with your girlfriends and at least ONE has to get drunk and start crying.  Attention hoes and drama queens, gotta love 'em....geez

BUT...if I'm wrong, and this is serious...then it's a definite cry for help....and she definitely needs some kind of professional help before she submits to anyone.  If her brain is that weak, then the BDSM world could be a real dangerous place for her. 

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/29/2006 10:02:57 PM   
Lashra


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

quote:

ORIGINAL: darq

*sighs* This kind of stuff is just ... I mean really. Its like if you get killed in RP, are you really dead? No ... Its words on a screen. People online have as much power as you give them.


Frankly, I'd be a lot more nervous being locked up with two pitbulls that seem to be unable to determine friend/foe boundaries.

Still, the bad guy may be a Orc with 151 hitpoints and a spell of location.

ROFLMAO well if she's lucky, maybe she's a rogue who can go into stealth mode and backstab him for a good 850 point crit

~Lashra

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/30/2006 1:10:22 AM   
keme


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Status: offline 		Why are there people who think they can murder, or beat others? Because some people are just sick... the guy who was trying to bully you was probably sitting at his computer jacking off as he said those things... too scared to tell his wife he has fantasies of spanking her.. or being spanked by her.
Do not take it to heart if you do you will live in fear for the rest of your life. There is only one person you have complete control over both in actions and responses and that is you. So try to make a positive influence and realize that misery loves company and anyone who tries to make you feel miserable is a pathetic excuse for a human being. *smiles*
Oh and some may be jealous because you have made a connection being so new and they have been pounding the pavement searching for a Master/Mistress Dominant/Domme or any number of titles they have and combinantions there of...
OH and just because someone looks like they are attacking you maybe if you read there words not from a defensive stand point but a proactive one you would see they have dealt with girls who whines and then get themselves into dangerous situations one right after another... time and time again... and maybe they are weary of good advice being ignored in the quest for a desperate person's need to get off quickly with whomever.
This is not a judgement and if anyone feels I have judged maybe you should look inside and see what it is bothering because it isn't me.
*again curls in the fetal position to protect my soft underbelly from the people who read this post from a defensive standpoint*

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/30/2006 2:54:23 AM   
CmotDribbler


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Status: offline 		Wow, i can't belive i actually managed to read through all these negative and derogatory comments.
Someone asked for help, simple as that.
I don't care if it is real or not,
Why be so harsh, so negative, why not support, appreciate, converse with, and try to in general be good people.
insults, cut downs, and the like will not make the problem go away.
If this was a genuine problem, then for the most part, all the general population of this forum has done is drive them away, not helping, not solving and actually creating animosity and further distrust, good job!
if it is fake, well, you haven't done much to find the person, find out why they are doing this, and try to help. Without support and communication, this problem may still presist, but i guess that means next time it happens it will be more fodder for you to mock and joke about.

I'd like to think this community is here to Help, to assist, and support.
Is it really that hard?


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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/30/2006 10:40:44 AM   
TolerableCruelty


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Status: offline 		yes, actually... when they're blatantly stupid, its very hard not to point and laugh at them.

T.R.

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/30/2006 11:59:24 AM   
CmotDribbler


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TolerableCruelty

yes, actually... when they're blatantly stupid, its very hard not to point and laugh at them.

T.R.


How? maybe i'm missing something here, and need it to be explained to me...
how are they being so blatently stupid?
it strikes me that someone needed help, asking for help, should never be stupid.


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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/30/2006 12:59:49 PM   
candleTC


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Status: offline 		CmotDribbler..... i was sitting next to Master when He posted His comment to You.  Even being a slave, i have had to shake my head, laugh out loud and feel somewhat ashamed of said girl.  Is there not a certain level of common sense that goes along with this lifestyle?? Really?!?!?!?! Whether it be a playtime thing or a lifetime thing, i have always knows that common sense is the only key to your safety and well being.  With all this being said, i have to agree, that im not so sure that this person is being 100% truthful.  If she is, i suggest calling a dr, RIGHT NOW, to help cure her online paranoia.  *shrugs*

~candle~

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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/30/2006 2:07:22 PM   
CmotDribbler


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quote:

ORIGINAL: candleTC

CmotDribbler..... i was sitting next to Master when He posted His comment to You.  Even being a slave, i have had to shake my head, laugh out loud and feel somewhat ashamed of said girl.  Is there not a certain level of common sense that goes along with this lifestyle?? Really?!?!?!?! Whether it be a playtime thing or a lifetime thing, i have always knows that common sense is the only key to your safety and well being.  With all this being said, i have to agree, that im not so sure that this person is being 100% truthful.  If she is, i suggest calling a dr, RIGHT NOW, to help cure her online paranoia.  *shrugs*

~candle~


*nods* But common sense isn't always that common.
My Kitten, was in an abusive relation for 3 years, she never actually met this person, it was entirly online, he made her beat herself, hurt herself, and destroyed her self esteem,
all through online, MSN, and chat rooms.
It was horrible, and it wasn't like it was her fault. She just wanted to make friends, jsut to be liked and accepted.
same could be the problem here, if she is new to the lifestyle, and someone is purporting to be an old hand, she could simply be trying to earn the respect of someone she may consider a possible mentor.
She made a mistake, a mistake that from all i can see is based on her desire to try to be liked, and respected. she shoulnd't be put down by that.
It happens. There are some terrible people out there, who do terrible things to nice people.
It takes support and friendship to help people get through these relationships.
thankfully this girl has her husband, and Kitten finally got me.

it doesn't make her "blatantly stupid" it makes her human, who wanted a friend.

... in my opinion at least, *shrug* in all honesty i don't know anything more about the situation than anyone else here, so whom am i to pass judgement on her. It's the peope whove been so negative about the situation that irk me.


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RE: Was Scared into almost Submission - 5/30/2006 9:29:08 PM   
Skuggi


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Status: offline 		I don't get people who don't take all threats seriously - people who have been abused often talk like that in a state of shock.

I don't know if it's true or false, but - when someone says help - a good community should lend an ear at least and not lash out towards the individual.

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