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ourmsbetty -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 3:50:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

A chastity belt is of little importance to many Mistresses. What IS important is that when she tells you not to touch, you do not touch. Obedience is the key here, not a device that takes obedience out of the equation.


Yes, this exactly! If I tell him "hands off" that's all it takes, or should take. If it takes more than that chastity is the least of our concerns.




HannahLynn -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 4:04:28 PM)

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Er . . . I have an awful feeling that I've missed something in this thread that should have been glitteringly obvious to me. Pray tell if so.
yea there is, and since you asked so fucking nicely i'll tell. your question has been answered many times in this thread already.

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PeonForHer -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 4:38:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
Um. I guess "warm" wasn't a good enough euphemism....[sm=pineapple.gif]


No, it wasn't. Gawd, Lady Hib - couldn't you manage 'searing hot', 'molten', or similar? [:(]




PeonForHer -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 4:44:16 PM)

Then maybe it goes to the more basic question, 'What do you like about controlling someone' - and I've never really had an answer to that. Maybe because it's not something that can be conveyed to someone who gets no kick out of it . . . .




Hisprettybaby -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 5:07:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Then maybe it goes to the more basic question, 'What do you like about controlling someone'

Really, it's hard to explain, but I like controlling someone just because I can and it gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside knowing that he wants me to. It makes me all tingly. [:D] The mindfucks and the reactions I get are a lot of fun too. Feeling that power can really be a rush.

~Hisprettybaby~




PeonForHer -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 5:16:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby


Really, it's hard to explain, but I like controlling someone just because I can and it gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside knowing that he wants me to. It makes me all tingly. [:D] The mindfucks and the reactions I get are a lot of fun too. Feeling that power can really be a rush.



Thanks, HPB. I appreciate the effort - I don't suppose I shall ever really get it, though.




HannahLynn -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 5:19:05 PM)

it makes me wet. it gives me a very sexual thrill. it also allows me to have shit my way without having to fucking discuss and explain it. in short my life is just fucking better.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 5:40:09 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
Um. I guess "warm" wasn't a good enough euphemism....[sm=pineapple.gif]


No, it wasn't. Gawd, Lady Hib - couldn't you manage 'searing hot', 'molten', or similar? [:(]



Not on a public website, Darling!




SuzeQ -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 8:15:22 PM)

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What do you like about controlling someone
It's very exciting and erotic.




mons -> RE: chasity (10/17/2011 9:13:39 PM)

lockit
i would wake up andi felt dread , my twin and i (people call it a gift ) i say at times it a nightmare i can feel someone
hands, and tell what is going on, i felt one guy's hands and i almost fianted he did something horrible!  I told a friend do not mention this to anyone, she told everyone now people come and ask me if they will be okay!  So this is why i felt something wrong about him, i must put my senses to work when i speak or write to others and it never has been wrong!  I have meant wonderful people here, and i have also sense the ones whom are dangerous, no on the cm boards but mainly people whom write to me!   The post you wrote really helped me even more on how luacky i was to get rid of him!!!!!

thanks again
mons/jane




PeonForHer -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 3:24:31 AM)


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ORIGINAL: HannahLynn

it makes me wet. it gives me a very sexual thrill. it also allows me to have shit my way without having to fucking discuss and explain it. in short my life is just fucking better.


It makes sense that someone should get a thrill out of all that, but I still don't get it. I've often said - and I still believe - that it's much more logical for someone to be a dominant than a submissive. But I don't get it.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 5:28:26 AM)

Weren't there some recent threads about what we get out of being dominant?

I was reading another journal entry by the fabulous Mollena on the other site. I will say again SUBMISSION DO NOT UNDERSTAND.




PeonForHer -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 5:36:43 AM)

I guess all you really need to know is that subs are cool, whereas dommes are not.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 6:13:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I guess all you really need to know is that subs are cool, whereas dommes are not.



Well no, Darling, we are smoking!! We are volcanoes of passion barely holding back endless wells of FIRE!!

Cool, indeed! [8D]




PeonForHer -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 6:16:22 AM)

Dommes are short, bad-tempered and have big noses.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 6:17:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Dommes are short, bad-tempered and have big noses.



Okay, ya got me there! [:D]




HeatherMcLeather -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 6:21:48 AM)

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Dommes are short, bad-tempered and have big noses.
[:D][:D][:D]You've been looking at Hanners' pictures again haven't you? 




GreedyTop -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 7:46:59 AM)

or watching Life of Brian ;)




Lucylastic -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 4:08:30 PM)

wait till Biggus Dickus hears of this




AneNoz -> RE: chasity (10/18/2011 7:36:16 PM)

A male slave in my home would not have such a device. If I chose for My Beloveds to not have release, they do not. This is as it should be, that they obey. A male would as well be held to the same standard. It would be for him to but obey and to do as I bid. This is as I would do this, as it is thus that it would be most difficult, and it is not my way to ease the trials of a slave, that way is not the way of the sadist.

Be at peace
Aneka




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