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Domskills -> Serious problem/dilemma about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:41:17 PM)
Hello, I am a Dom that lives in NYC. I have recently been faced with an unusual dilemma which involves me possibly getting a sub/slave. I will not post my dilemma/problem here because I fear it will offend people. Please contact me if you think you can help me or at least give me an idea, I will be happy to explain to you my situation there. Please be serious. Thank you

JanahX -> RE: Serious problem/dilemma about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:46:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Domskills Hello, I am a Dom that lives in NYC. I have recently been faced with an unusual dilemma which involves me possibly getting a sub/slave. I will not post my dilemma/problem here because I fear it will offend people. Please contact me if you think you can help me or at least give me an idea, I will be happy to explain to you my situation there. Please be serious. Thank you This may just MAY be one of the stupidest posts Ive ever seen anyone put here. Contact you if I think I can help ... but not knowing what it is because you may offend me. Dude .. grow a brain please & you get fucking serious ... [8\|]

Domskills -> RE: Serious problem/dilemma about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:48:03 PM)
Sorry, I just didn't want to put details on here since I thought it would some offend people.

StrongSpirit -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:48:34 PM)
I will be happy to give it a try, but your post is a bit strange. How is you possibly getting a sub/slave a problem? Frankly, your post reads a lot like a Nigerian scam before they get to the part where they offer you something if you just send them a little bit of cash/paperwork up front.

Domskills -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:50:51 PM)
That's why its unusual! I'm not trying to scam anyone, just seeking help. If you want to help I would appreciated but please don't judge.

SurrenderForMe -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:54:59 PM)
If you have a question, post the damn question. Be clear, be complete. Don't provide names and addresses and you should get a mix of serious answers, people who mock you and pure garbage. Then you can take what you want from it. I'd say, don't get a slave if you can't even take responsibility and own a question.

JanahX -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:55:59 PM)
this ^^^^

Domskills -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:57:52 PM)
I'm being misunderstood. The main problem I have is, i don't know if doing this is "ethical" or not. I cannot simply just post it here because it.

JanahX -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 7:59:25 PM)
It you dont know if its ethical or are even questioning if it is... then its probably not.

Domskills -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:00:09 PM)
How do you know if you don't even know my problem?

Lockit -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:03:44 PM)
A dominant that doesn't know themselves well enough to know if something is ethical to them or not... shouldn't be taking on a slave. Spill it dude... you have a new profile... no one knows who you are. Just say it and if it turns bad... go back to your other profile or whatever. The more drama you bring to it... the more I am inclined to say... don't do it... and find yourself before you seek another.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:04:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Domskills How do you know if you don't even know my problem? That's the whole fucking point! No one knows what your problem is beyond having communication issues. "Dear Abby" didn't send people letters asking "do you have a problem you want to tell me about?" People wrote and if it was interesting, the letter was published and answered. You want to know whether it is ethical or not, either spit it out or give up and go back to your mommy's basement.

ProlificNeeds -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:07:12 PM)
Get the new XXX-series slave with a subconversion clause incase the slave is a bit too intense for you, then you can trade it in for a T-14 submissive model, which is a bit more limited, but requires far less maintenance. Hope my vague answer to this vague post was inoffensive! As for ethics, if you think it's unethical, then the only reason you'd consider it is because you can't get your dick wet or hard enough without crossing that line. That probably makes you a bit of a scumbag. If that's not the case then by all means, lets talk about it!

risktaker9 -> RE: Serious problem/dilemma about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:10:39 PM)
If you can't even mention your issue because you're not sure if it's ethical then wtf, you know it's not a good thing to do. Talking about it in pm is still an issue because the site has guidelines, not many but they are there. You did know that there is a TOS on this site and you read it when you signed up right? I don't know though, sounds like you're being scammed and you think it's real. Like someone is going to sell you a slave or something. Every once in a while someone desperate falls for that one or something similar.

Domskills -> RE: Serious problem/dilemma about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:12:14 PM)
The only reason I do not want to post it here in public is because I have a lot to lose due to my job. If you want to hear it we can talk privately and maybe help me, if not then just move on.

littlewonder -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:12:40 PM)
I'm going to take a stab at what I think your "ethical" dilemma is. Someone contacted you on here telling you they have a slave for sale. They tell you she is 23, 5'5", petite, hot, obedient, blah blah blah...you are really interested but you just don't know if it's the right thing to do. Dude...it's a scam.

LadyPact -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:13:33 PM)
I don't know your problem, but I bet I have a solution...... Read TOS and the forum guidelines. If your question doesn't violate one of those, ask it. I'm not saying that you'll like all of the answers that you get, but at least you'll get some. If your question is something that you probably know the answer to already, don't look for confirmation of what you already know. For crying out loud. You live in NYC. Are you really going to propose that in a city of over eight million people, you can't find a s-type that doesn't bring up some kind of moral or ethical dilemma for you? Go to some munches, hit the clubs, and meet all kinds of kinky people. If I can do it in the middle of nowhere, you should be able to accomplish the same thing in one of the largest cities on the planet.

Domskills -> RE: Serious problem/dilemma about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:14:16 PM)
EXACTLY! It's probably on the borderline of legal, that's why I don't want to post here. No, I normally don't read that crap. And it has nothing to do with this site, since I just made an account on here.

peppermint -> RE: Serious problem/dilemma about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:15:47 PM)
1. If the slave costs you money, it's illegal. 2. If you "own" the slave forever with no way for the slave to ever leave you, it is illegal 3. If you are doing something you think is morally wrong, then you decide whether you can look yourself in the mirror or not 4. If you have never met/seen this slave in person then you are just plain stupid for considering ownership. Has any of this helped? Is it on the right track or is it way off? I can go on guessing all night long. A hint of "hot" or "cold" might help

RexDarcy -> RE: Serious matter about possibly getting a slave (10/21/2011 8:15:51 PM)
Up, up; down, down; left, right, left, right; A, B; Select, start. If that doesn't resolve the issue, I advise supplying detail on what you need help with.

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