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Hillwilliam -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/22/2011 8:33:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: HannahLynn

yea i can see how somebody might get all bent the fuck out of shape by people asserting their dominance that way, especially if that person was just trying to make a quick fucking buck selling underwear.


Bit of an aside but has anyone ever heard of a man selling his underwear to women?

Far out.

With that thought: it's my bedtime.

Reckon they'd pay extra for skidmarks?



ColeYote -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/22/2011 8:41:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Sherrr

Either they're being theatrical, or they're delusional. Either way, just ignore them if they bother you.

Or they could just be green.



Hisprettybaby -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/22/2011 9:00:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: HannahLynn

yea i can see how somebody might get all bent the fuck out of shape by people asserting their dominance that way, especially if that person was just trying to make a quick fucking buck selling underwear.


Bit of an aside but has anyone ever heard of a man selling his underwear to women?

Far out.

With that thought: it's my bedtime.

Reckon they'd pay extra for skidmarks?

*laughing* I was going to say that, but didn't. hahaha



MissImmortalPain -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/22/2011 9:09:22 PM)

I am a little tired of typing the words "opinions vary" at this point so I am going to go with...didn't we already have the there is no fucking community conversation. People see things different ways so don't go dragging everyone else into what you do or do not believe is right or wrong for the whole world. If each of us did that there would be no room for anyone to breath. If you don't like what someone has to say don't have a conversation with them.



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/22/2011 11:17:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Matildax21x

Am I crazy?



I don't know... do you talk to Baby Dill Pickles?!!  If so, maybe?!! [8D]




PeonForHer -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 3:11:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam
Reckon they'd pay extra for skidmarks?


Sometimes a skidder can be a mark of true affection:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qe2aMGW0xjc



BurntKitty -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 5:15:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ColeYote

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ORIGINAL: Sherrr

Either they're being theatrical, or they're delusional. Either way, just ignore them if they bother you.

Or they could just be green.


I did a double take to make sure you weren't referring to the skidmarks.



LillyBoPeep -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 5:44:18 AM)

Here on the forum we do have some gender supremacists of either persuasion. If you don't like what they spout off about, just ignore it.
Personally I don't believe dominance is intrinsic to either gender, and I don't believe submission is either. I'm not interested in or compatible with people with those kinds of gender-specific beliefs.



Matildax21x -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 8:14:30 AM)

You're right, I am not looking for a relationship. I am a Pro-Domme and a business woman. I am part of a community where a lot of individuals are in relationships (and I have been in D/s relationships in the past). It's been made clear that no one is interested in presenting to BDSM community from a human rights or even WGST angle at all here and that is the choice of the community, not mine You are asking me to be open-minded. Okay. Then the next posts are tearing me apart for being in an incredibly common business in the BDSM community. Panty/sock fetishists are very common on other sites (not this one obviously) and many of them purchase used items from both men and women. Prices are usually in the $50.00. I don't ask for tributes. I'm not looking for pay-pigs or asking someone to pay my rent. The hypocrisy is insane.



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 9:46:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Matildax21x

I am a Pro-Domme and a business woman.



Ummm... hate to break the news to ya, but sellin' yer stank on cotton goods does NOT make you a "business woman" -- more of an opportunist. [:(]




Matildax21x -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 9:58:54 AM)

To each their own.



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 10:43:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Matildax21x

To each their own.



If you actually thought that, then you wouldn't be sellin' YOUR "own", which is likely the REAL reason you've even posted here -- i.e., just trying to drum up some sales. [8|]




Matildax21x -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 10:53:26 AM)

Actually, sales have been up. Although if you read the entire post you will realize I wasn't the one to bring up that panties. I don't need help from CM message boards to sell panties. This whole thing wasn't eve ABOUT panties. The hivemind decided to descend and make it personal instead of keeping on topic. I can't help that it advertises my business.



BonesFromAsh -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 10:57:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

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ORIGINAL: Matildax21x

To each their own.



If you actually thought that, then you wouldn't be sellin' YOUR "own", which is likely the REAL reason you've even posted here -- i.e., just trying to drum up some sales. [8|]




Interesting...especially since it wasn't the OP that brought her business into the discussion.



GreedyTop -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 11:02:08 AM)

Devils advocate here:

no.. matilda DIDNT brign up the panties here..

but she DOES says: "I don't need help from CM message boards to sell panties."

then, there is this: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3894026/tm.htm



BonesFromAsh -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 11:04:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Devils advocate here:

no.. matilda DIDNT brign up the panties here..

but she DOES says: "I don't need help from CM message boards to sell panties."


Which is most likely true. Point being, she didn't mention panty sales until it was tossed out by another.

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then, there is this: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3894026/tm.htm


Which was posted in the appropriate place.

ETA....are you going to fault her for taking advantage of free advertising? Do you think CM is her only outlet for selling her wares?



GreedyTop -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 11:08:57 AM)

my point being, that she has never made it a secret about her taking tributes, and for soemone to throw into the mix teh panties thing... and then make it sound like she's commiting a huge crime!!!!.. is a strawman..

look, I dont GET the pro thing. The panties thing is even more baffling to me..

but hey...

if it is working for her.. wth?

*shrugs*

ETA: Bones.. I think we may be agreeing.. but I am fucking tired.. had some unexpected overtime last night..

and I am off to nap.. LOL



crazyml -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 11:09:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Matildax21x

Actually, sales have been up. Although if you read the entire post you will realize I wasn't the one to bring up that panties. I don't need help from CM message boards to sell panties. This whole thing wasn't eve ABOUT panties. The hivemind decided to descend and make it personal instead of keeping on topic. I can't help that it advertises my business.


And fair play to you. If you can make a decent profit selling your used undies (with or without stains, aromas, body fluids etc etc), then more power to your elbow (or index finger)!

Incidentally, if you're a genuine chick (and I've no reason to assume that you're not) then I reckon that you belong to a pretty special group of used panty sellers - Since I'm sure that the vast majority of the gorgeous babes offering their used smalls are college geeks looking to raise money to fund their WOW habit.

I'm not sure about the "hivemind", but it is worth remembering that we all find it fabulously easy to be tolerant of the kinks and approaches to BDSM that we like, not so easy when it's something we dislike.

Personally, I do think that the sale of used panties is a little exploitative - But you'd probably be horrified at some of the things I make ladies do... so go for it.

Yep, I think you're getting bent out of shape for no reason. I doubt you're crazy though.





GreedyTop -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 11:12:25 AM)

so, darling.. what kinds of things woudl I have to do for you?? *grins in a sleepy manner*



crazyml -> RE: Maybe I'm getting bent out of shape for no reason... (10/23/2011 11:20:12 AM)

bloody naughty things ;-)



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