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insertclevername -> RE: Fetishes & male vs female (10/27/2011 9:19:08 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
I didn't want to hijack the blackmail thread but I do want to ask this. How many of you have noticed a distinct difference in the sexes being attracted to certain fetishes?
Like blackmail for instance. I have seen more males mention it than women.
And AB, more men there without question.
I am into rubber which tends to be more of a male thing in my experience, but I have met other women who enjoy it.
In addition I don't NEED rubber to be aroused. I like it, but it is not necessary.
What kinds of fetishes have you noticed tend to lean more toward one sex than the other?
slight change up here:
This is for both true fetishes, where one must have the other to be aroused. Compulsions, where one wants something in order to get a greater rush from the action. Or leanings, triggers that can intensify results. Mine is more of a leaning.
I think the only difference is that men tend to focus more on kinks and specific kinks more than women do. (For example, this is the type of thread you'd expect a man to start rather than a woman.)
It's very rare I come across a female domme who says, "I absolutely have to have XYZ." More likely they don't talk about kinks for a long time.
I haven't seen any particular pattern of women, in general, being into any kink in particular. Varies from woman to woman. And I find women, again generally, tend to be flexible. They can embrace and let go of most kinks as long as more fundamental needs are being met.
It's really the men who rush ahead focusing out and talking about kinks.
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