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lizi -> RE: Assertive - Taking One - Control (10/29/2011 4:56:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: hawkdown
Lizi...I ain't trying to justify anything with that old rule. It's just something that some guys do while they are "still active physically and sexually" and have a few good years left to have great sex. There's lots of information on the net about "men dating younger women", and why that attracts them, and it comes from good sources. It's not just me....it's out there. Just today, I spent over an hour perusing just one dating site using a search. I tried 50-58 first, found one who looked fairly decent and had similar interests, but the faith thing wasn't compatible. Second, I dropped from 45-49...several had children, and again, of all these, I found one that I sent a message to. The last search was 35-44, and in that group I found one who I messaged. What I did notice in many of the searches is that some of the women had preferences down about 10 years up to about their age, maybe a bit more. Same concept as me, and yes, some of them were in the mid 50's. One woman was 54 and listed that she preferred men 30-52, so it is apparently the same concept or old rule that some still like, depending on the individual preferences.
Yes, people have preferences. I never said you were wrong for wanting the younger woman. If that is your desire then go find one. It was the fact that you were having trouble with finding what you wanted that people were trying to help you with.
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Someone else in this thread commented on me "focusing on younger, attractive, and kinky." Nothing the matter with that in my book (my choice)...at least I am up front and although I agree it is harder to find, I already know that. I don't want a relationship with a woman who isn't sexy or kinky or knows when to keep quiet and be submissive, which is why I am so bold as to state what I am after. It's like USING A FILTER....good...those of you that didn't like it....it worked didn't it? No waste of time. And where in the hell does anyone get the idea that on "this site" or any other sex site...that because one states what their interests are and it talks directly about kink and sex - that it is or will be a turn off for many of these hot women? If that's the case...good...no waste of time once again. I am not going to make a profile on this sex site and talk about having tailgate parties, pic-nics in the park or walking along the beach at sunset. If the women (and men) are turned off in here based on that kind of reasoning...then there in the wrong fu**ing place and need to go to Disney World cuz they are wasting space and time in here.
Well hey, you are the one who said you couldn't find a woman to your liking. Women here told you what women like, but you go ahead and filter all you want by doing things that turn women off and you'll keep filtering out every woman around- which is what is happening. Yup, women on here don't always want to talk about sex and kink because it's damned easy to find. As a single woman, I can get laid just by getting up in the morning. If you didn't already know this, woman are harder to find on an adult site, there are tons more guys. Thought it might be helpful for women to maybe tell you what women find attractive, but you obviously know all that and are extremely successful to boot. Tell you what, when you write a woman from now in throw in a cock shot. Oh and guess what, this isn't a sex site, it's a social site. People use it for different things. Interesting that you think your definition applies to everyone.
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As far as me saying I am a switch goes, and that in someone else's opinion, that is a turn off for women, HERE'S A FACT LADIES.... if you've had your man on his back and you teased him at length, then he switched with you to some extent didn't he?
Being a switch is a major turnoff for many submissive women, which I thought was your targeted group. Don't take my word for it, start a thread asking or do a search on old ones. But hey, I forgot, you know all about us wimmens. Nothing we say seems to ever get through to you. This quality of yours is extremely unattractive. Btw, this is not what being a switch or switching is by any definition I've ever seen.
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He let you take control and you probably enjoyed every minute of it - unless you're one of those women who want to hurry up and get it over with so you can lay on your back and let him do all the work to please you with your legs in the air! Any woman who doesn't know how to please her man for an extended period without being told to do it by her dom, or worse...doesn't like or want to do it at all cuz she has problems or excuses, would not be someone I would want, and probably most men wouldn't want either.
So your correlation here is that if women don't want teasing and switching then they must be lousy lays is facetious. Nice to know that you are speaking for most men here about what you all want in the bedroom- I'm sure they'll appreciate it.
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I have been lol at the comment that I can't keep it up due to my age.
No one ever said this. I went through the entire thread and this comment does not exist, show it to me. I made a couple of general comments about age and a man's sexual performance as he gets older and how it would be a bad decision to match me up with a man who was much older, nothing directed at you. It is very telling that you are taking comments personally, can't keep your facts straight even with a written record here, and are also falsifying from what others write.
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All I can say is that I'll be up for awhile, like a few more years, and for the non-thinkers (can't see the trees in the forrest) that replied sarcastically - when the time does finally arrive where I can no longer be in any meaningful role to provide for her and keep her happy/satisfied with sex and everything else, she is free to make a change if she wants to. Nowhere did I make the claim that I would reach the age of 80 and expect to keep a 47 year old around, and nowhere did I say that the rule would apply to me using the rule for me to have a woman at age 100 so I could see what it would be like to date her using that "old rule" I first posted about men; although it was a good point to bring that analogy up because I left out the obvious. All I said was half my age plus seven, which right now (present time applies - duh) is 35-36. No worries, I can handle it just fine for now and already have...but not every relationship is perfect...so we just move on.
Whoever the non thinkers were that replied sarcastically I didnt see that either. I see a lot of people who have tried to give you their time and a discussion. You are the one who is extrapolating personal slander and inferences from what was written, funny thing is - we can all go back and read it for ourselves. Also, anyone looking at your profile can see what you've written here in the forums. Your attitude renders you far more unattractive than your age ever did. You are still trying to justify looking for a younger woman by this crap rule, no one really cares about that except for yourself. Knock yourself out looking for whatever you want. There were suggestions that you might find a woman if you'd widen your perimeters, but actually I don't think it's possible.
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I ain't shallow either...c'mon over to my place and we'll see who is shallow and who isn't...
Whatever this means is something I'd never choose to find out. I can do so much better...not because of your age, looks, whatever the hell else you'll throw in there, but because you're a small-minded person with narrow attitudes and views.
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