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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:00:07 PM   
Ninebelowzero


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Status: offline 		Careful what you call them some are armed & dangerous.

Just sayin like.
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ORIGINAL: ScotSubC

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

YAY!! Now go work on all those married guys on the other side, looking for a fresh bint. They should be CLEARLY MARKED.


Right, I've been commanded by Lady Hobiscus!

All you guys who are just trying to find a kinky bit on the side, I'm coming for you! I'll be knocking on your door, calling your wife... :)



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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:01:07 PM   
Ninebelowzero


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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:03:05 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Hey Calum, welcome to the boards.
It's a common topic. In part because there are far more men than women on sites like this. There's not much this site or any other can do about the lack of women, especially Dominant lifestyle women. It's not like there is a magic spell to conjure up more. You can try to stop the profiles that you yourself are not interested in as per your suggestion, and that still leaves you with not much in the way of pickings doesn't it? Does taking out the types of profiles that you aren't interested in, make more of those that you are interested in? No.

Plus what about the guys here that are interested in the types of women that you don't want? Why should what you want take precedence over them?

This is a free site, to police profiles would mean more manpower and then it wouldn't be free anymore. I wouldn't like that myself. Your choice is pretty much to weed out what you don't want and see if there is anything left that you do and take it from there...






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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:12:29 PM   
rulemylife


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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine



It´s nice to know you think so highly of ProDommes (of which I am one, openly, out and proud), but why should we not be here? Any site will have skillions (love that word) of profiles that don´t fit what you´re looking for or are chancers (and there are as many of the latter under ´subs´ as there are under dominants). You´re an adult, instead of expecting all the profiles whose presence that you think inappropriate to be deleted, you take the initiative and as LadyHib says, hide the ones that you aren´t interested in.


Unfortunately, on this site almost every red profile wants money in some way.

Whether it is their Amazon wishlist, Paypal, or some other form of pay for play.

The ones that really crack me up though are the online only financial dommes.

Yes, I want to send my money to some anonymous stranger on the internet who is probably a man that lifted the photos from some porn site to present himself as a woman.

< Message edited by rulemylife -- 10/31/2011 1:13:51 PM >

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:17:13 PM   
MissKittyDeVine


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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine



It´s nice to know you think so highly of ProDommes (of which I am one, openly, out and proud), but why should we not be here? Any site will have skillions (love that word) of profiles that don´t fit what you´re looking for or are chancers (and there are as many of the latter under ´subs´ as there are under dominants). You´re an adult, instead of expecting all the profiles whose presence that you think inappropriate to be deleted, you take the initiative and as LadyHib says, hide the ones that you aren´t interested in.


Unfortunately, on this site almost every red profile wants money in some way.

Whether it is their Amazon wishlist, Paypal, or some other form of pay for play.

The ones that really crack me up though are the online only financial dommes.

Yes, I want to send my money to some anonymous stranger on the internet who is probably a man that lifted the photos from some porn site to present himself as a woman.


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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:21:47 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		The sigh was because I have heard what you said a lot. It get tiresome after awhile to hear it again. And you are correct I am not the sort of person that pretends to be something I'm not and I don't take advantage of anyone. But, and I'm guessing this is a big but, if you read all of my profile you would have seen that I do pro work. It's not what I'm here looking for but if someone comes to me looking for it I will at least speak to them and see what it is they are trying to find. I think often that people look at this web site and do not understand that there are people all over the world pretending at things they don't really know about. I don't judge those people though. I just move on and keep looking for what it is I seek.

*oh* and as an added note. I will believe this is a serious "dating" site when I don't have to watch jiggling tits or some girl playing with her twat on the sidebar when I read my mail. We all don't like some things. We all have to deal with them.

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ORIGINAL: ScotSubC

Why the sigh? I have no problem with women who have a genuine understanding of bdsm and openly offer a fair service for a fair renumeration for their time, I do not like women who think they can rack up amazon credits and paypal credits by prendending to be something they are obviously not, having read your profile I think you are not the type of person who would take advantage of people in such a way?



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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:26:01 PM   
johnb81


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Status: offline 		There's no such thing as a truly dominant woman, and the vast majority of these profiles are fakes. Guys on this site are so fucking gullible I swear. If they aren't fakes then it's some ugly anime-fan insecure girl who needs online validation from equally pathetic men because they get no attention in real life. The pro's aren't dominant either, they are whores who've figured out that there are ways to get men off without taking off their clothes. Well, a lot of them still need to take off their clothes to pay the bills, they just use a different name.

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:32:39 PM   
Ninebelowzero


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It looks a bit ginger beer to me.

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:33:49 PM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		Then according to your profile, you´re knowingly actively seeking something that doesn´t exist.

As for the rest of your post, same old laughable tosh that is constantly regurgitated in a futile attempt to insult.

quote:

ORIGINAL: johnb81

There's no such thing as a truly dominant woman, and the vast majority of these profiles are fakes. Guys on this site are so fucking gullible I swear. If they aren't fakes then it's some ugly anime-fan insecure girl who needs online validation from equally pathetic men because they get no attention in real life. The pro's aren't dominant either, they are whores who've figured out that there are ways to get men off without taking off their clothes. Well, a lot of them still need to take off their clothes to pay the bills, they just use a different name.



< Message edited by MissKittyDeVine -- 10/31/2011 1:35:04 PM >

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:35:39 PM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ScotSubC

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

YAY!! Now go work on all those married guys on the other side, looking for a fresh bint. They should be CLEARLY MARKED.


Right, I've been commanded by Lady Hobiscus!

All you guys who are just trying to find a kinky bit on the side, I'm coming for you! I'll be knocking on your door, calling your wife... :)


I always told the married ones that said their wife was OK with them getting their kinks elsewhere to bring their wives to our first meeting so I could meet her and see that she was OK with it. "After all, I wouldn't want to be subpoenaed to a messy divorce case later". Guess what? We never met. LOL

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:42:46 PM   
Celere


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Status: offline 		Is there any Mistress on cm for free? i've contacted many Mistress, and everyone ask for tributes.

Just 2 didn't, but when i asked to see her cam, they said it was broken... for sure they were men....

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:51:51 PM   
Ninebelowzero


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Status: offline 		He denies them yet gets a right royal kicking in the forums from them. He's too dumb to get the hint.
I suspect even his mirrors are cherry flavoured.
quote:

ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

Then according to your profile, you´re knowingly actively seeking something that doesn´t exist.

As for the rest of your post, same old laughable tosh that is constantly regurgitated in a futile attempt to insult.

quote:

ORIGINAL: johnb81

There's no such thing as a truly dominant woman, and the vast majority of these profiles are fakes. Guys on this site are so fucking gullible I swear. If they aren't fakes then it's some ugly anime-fan insecure girl who needs online validation from equally pathetic men because they get no attention in real life. The pro's aren't dominant either, they are whores who've figured out that there are ways to get men off without taking off their clothes. Well, a lot of them still need to take off their clothes to pay the bills, they just use a different name.





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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 1:55:39 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		LOL @Searching, that's exactly the response that I get!! Hey, I'm cool if SHE is cool...and one day, I might find out!

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 2:16:11 PM   
ScotSubC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

I make it clear that I am a ProDomme as I do not deceive anyone. If any subs read my profile and wish to pay for sessions, that is their free choice. However, I am also here to read, learn, discuss and chat. Why should I be denied access? Being a ProDomme and being genuine are not mutually exclusive (although many disagree), and it is perfectly possible for a sub and a PD to build a relationship. Sure, there are PD sites, but trying to keep out the timewasters and those looking for free wankfodder is like holding back the tide. No site is a happy, harmonious utopia where everyone is in perfect agreement, whether PD or lifestyle - we all have to wade through a lot that doesn´t interest us to find something that does.


I take your point that it works both ways, and there is no reason why you shouldn't discuss and exchange ideas and friendship on cm because you are pro, but your profile is promoting your business as a pro Domme, not simply a Domme looking to meet like minded people to exchange ideas and thoughts with, that's the difference.

Your profile is genuine and unambiguous, which is appreciated, it is more those such as http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/977670/details.htm

that I really have a problem with.

However, to come back to my original point, no harm in describing yourself as a pro if thats what you are, it's how you use the site, which I interperet as being intended for the meeting of like minded people on a purely social level, not business.

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 2:27:29 PM   
ScotSubC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

Hey Calum, welcome to the boards.
It's a common topic. In part because there are far more men than women on sites like this. There's not much this site or any other can do about the lack of women, especially Dominant lifestyle women. It's not like there is a magic spell to conjure up more. You can try to stop the profiles that you yourself are not interested in as per your suggestion, and that still leaves you with not much in the way of pickings doesn't it? Does taking out the types of profiles that you aren't interested in, make more of those that you are interested in? No.

Plus what about the guys here that are interested in the types of women that you don't want? Why should what you want take precedence over them?

This is a free site, to police profiles would mean more manpower and then it wouldn't be free anymore. I wouldn't like that myself. Your choice is pretty much to weed out what you don't want and see if there is anything left that you do and take it from there...








Hi, thanks for your welcome.

I would expect to have to sort through profiles to find one or some that may be a match for me, my main point is the difference between social and business relationships, it is easy to find a pro Domme online, it's not easy to find a dominant lady looking for a submissive partner. It would be nice if it could be assumed that anyone on cm was a genuine person looking to find someone to have a relationship with.

You have a very valid point about the resources needed to police this and the fact that cm is free, I think I need to bear that in mind!

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 2:30:45 PM   
ScotSubC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: johnb81

There's no such thing as a truly dominant woman, and the vast majority of these profiles are fakes. Guys on this site are so fucking gullible I swear. If they aren't fakes then it's some ugly anime-fan insecure girl who needs online validation from equally pathetic men because they get no attention in real life. The pro's aren't dominant either, they are whores who've figured out that there are ways to get men off without taking off their clothes. Well, a lot of them still need to take off their clothes to pay the bills, they just use a different name.


Doesn't matter if its kinky sex, motorbikes, boats, diy, stamp collecting, there's at least one on every forum! :)

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 2:34:53 PM   
tazzygirl


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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 2:38:15 PM   
ScotSubC


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Status: offline 		Lady Hibiscus,
Just had a look at your profile, you do understand me, but refreshingly with no sympathy or mercy! If only everyone had your insight.

< Message edited by ScotSubC -- 10/31/2011 2:39:42 PM >

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 2:43:52 PM   
ScotSubC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

Tell me are you oiled & shaved in the photo?
It looks a bit ginger beer to me.


Are you asking me that question?

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RE: Pro/tribute Dommes - 10/31/2011 2:49:17 PM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		If you have a look at the bottom right hand corner of NineBelowZero's post you'll see it was in response to JohnBoy,

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