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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 8:33:05 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		Interesting, I need to learn more on the functionality of this platform and all its capabilities....where do I gather more info on what I can do on posts?

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I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 8:39:13 PM   
FloridaISIS


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

Interesting, I need to learn more on the functionality of this platform and all its capabilities....where do I gather more info on what I can do on posts?


Will leave this one to the experts to answer. You're guess is as good as mine,Tiger. I've only been posting to the boards for a few days.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 8:57:37 PM   
dogobedience


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I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

Tiger, proud owner of kali aka Tigerproperty

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 9:12:24 PM   
shyfem


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Status: offline 		Good Evening all,

I am here to learn more about the interesting dynamic that is D/s.
I would love to have that kind of relationship again, but so far, the only one's I have met have been HNG's (thanks Candystripper for defining that for me, seen it before but never knew what it was).

Kinky sex is definately a great bonus for me, but I want the whole package as well.

~shy
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*May all who tread here find what they seek*

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 9:14:08 PM   
shyfem


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Status: offline 		**sidebar**  I finally made "Curious" 
So happy, that actually defines me quite well

~shy

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 9:20:42 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		YOU and everybody should read ALL of sasshay's profile and all journals!!!

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I start and/or reply to posts to further my abilities and share my experiences in this fantastic lifestyle.

I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

Tiger, proud owner of kali aka Tigerproperty

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 10:13:43 PM   
amayos


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience
NOW MY QUESTION, how many of you all (it is ok to say that here in Texas!) both men and women are just here for KINKY SEX and pretend to want all that the lifestyle offers? Will I get lies from doms, and you are right from parttime slaves? 

I often tell girls, give your guy 2-4 BJ's in a row (or as many as he can do in a short period) AND SEE HOW DOM HE IS THEN. If I never had sex again, I would still give up all I had to be with real property.......I bet few are here for that.prove me wrong!!!!!!! I hope I am wrong!!!!!!!!!


Many seem to be using the popular interest in BDSM as a vehicle for repackaged traditional romantic interests. "Slave" is a word many submissives believe they comprehend, but so seldom do they have a part. I am beyond parsing the difference between the two definitions; those familiar with my writings know my personal sentiments on the matter, though I would like to believe the distinction between the two terms are obvious.

The idea of owning human property—in its true, refined state—is a beautiful, yet elusive one. The collective human mind and soul is a slippery eel to grasp, but a pleasure when it is truly caught.

To sum up, I am indeed here for human property, but I am likewise here to make friends and learn about others.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2006 10:21:31 PM   
Sensualips


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Many seem to be using the popular interest in BDSM as a vehicle for repackaged traditional romantic interests.


Or a justification for sexual kinks.

Or a relationship lifeline.

Or any number of things.  If it works for two (or more) people, that is fine. I admire those, like Amayos, that can define what they want and remain consistent.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/27/2006 7:34:59 AM   
amayos


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ORIGINAL: Sensualips
I admire those, like Amayos, that can define what they want and remain consistent.


Thank you, sensual.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/27/2006 12:32:49 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		VERY THOUGHTFUL REPLIES ! I ENJOY HEARING FROM THOSE WHO USE THEIR BRAIN........

THIS LIFESTYLE IS MORE IN THE MIND THAN ANYTHING ELSE........

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/27/2006 12:58:26 PM   
LadyAlexa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience <snipped>

NOW MY QUESTION, how many of you all (it is ok to say that here in Texas!) both men and women are just here for KINKY SEX and pretend to want all that the lifestyle offers? Will I get lies from doms, and you are right from parttime slaves? 

I often tell girls, give your guy 2-4 BJ's in a row (or as many as he can do in a short period) AND SEE HOW DOM HE IS THEN. If I never had sex again, I would still give up all I had to be with real property.......I bet few are here for that.prove me wrong!!!!!!! I hope I am wrong!!!!!!!!!


Most interesting topic.  One thing that I'm not here for is Kinky Sex so I guess I'd fall in the category of wanting the entire lifestyle package.  Laughs.   I actually do have the whole package and I'm very happy living my life.    I don't do BJ's either.     So many males who contact me think I want them for oral service.  They don't read the entire profile or they would have a clue already.

The only thing that would be more perfect is to have another sub/slave with us even if they don't want to be 24/7.   I have had a household before...which was loose with doms/subs involved....a group of friends/lifestylers who had common shared interests.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/27/2006 1:04:34 PM   
inadaze20


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Status: offline 		As a slave, BOTH is the best.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/27/2006 1:26:04 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		I  ask questions about situations to obtain reasons why they happen, then create and or find solutions........

Thanks to the group, and continue with the great replies. 

I see many girls caught up in the newness of it all............and sadly posers using that to their advantage!!!!!

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I start and/or reply to posts to further my abilities and share my experiences in this fantastic lifestyle.

I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2007 2:02:11 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		Yes, BDSM is a kink. However are you here only for EASY SEX ?!

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I start and/or reply to posts to further my abilities and share my experiences in this fantastic lifestyle.

I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

Tiger, proud owner of kali aka Tigerproperty

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2007 2:33:37 PM   
Celeste43


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Joined: 2/4/2006
From: NYS
Status: offline 		If the dom's main rule is that you have to focus on being a kinky sex partner, then by doing so you are fulfilling his wishes.

There are days when he's more dominant than others, times when he's too stressed, tired, sick or overworked to want to have a tight rein on me. There are times when I'm more submissive than others. I'm not at all during dental work - I'm just totally miserable and no fun to be with no matter what.

But expecting that people are always the same, day in and day out, is bizarre. We're people, our needs and desires change over time.

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2007 5:25:32 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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Joined: 6/8/2004
Status: offline 		I'm pretty open game for a number of different things within reason.  I'm not the submissive type so I'd make a terrible slave to a mistress. LOL..

Seriously, I will exchange power levels with a submissive in as much as she can humanly submit or will submit.  It's just not limited to Kinky Sex, I will assume and take charge of things outside the bedroom.  If they are extremely submissive, yes I will go TPE all the way down the line.  It's been this way even in my so called "vanilla" relationships as well.   Hell I've been very Dom in the Bedroom with my Vanilla relationship as too.  So D/s is a natural gravity Well for me when I with a submissive.

In terms of being with a Domme or a women that has a Dom personality, I can deal with it provided she does not expect submissive from me.  I'm not submissive around Dommes... However, yes.. I enjoy standing in the kitchen or bathroom and being caught off guard by a Domme whos being sexually agressive with me.  Hell, I Love Sex and it does not bother me to be grabbed.. and be sexually attacked.. LOL..   I wonder how many Dom men don't enjoy being grabbed in the crotch and feeling the sensation of a woman mouth upon their neck..  WOW.. Hot 100%...

However, the very minute I'm treated like a dog with commands such as "down on your knees now".. and blah blah blah... HAULT! My mood for sex goes totally out the window along with my desire to even have cup of coffee with her or anything else!  Nope sorry, this Dom is not doing this!  You want me to do what! Ha ha Ha Ha.. I'm sorry you have me confused with your Cabana Pool Boy slave toy....! What you still insist upon trying to Domme me?  Ummm.. You know where the front door is.. I suggest you use it.  Oh wait, this is your place!  I'm going to use your front door and leave now.. BYE BYE!  Time for me to pack up my toys and go home, I don't wanna play no more.

So, I'm open anything ranging from a TPE Master/slave relationship to being with a Domme that wants to play fair.   I've has one TPE M/s and one D/D relationship, and everything else has been PPE D/s.. even some of my so called "vanilla" relationships have been D/s based with PPE.   The BDSM lifestyle based relationships simply have had more clarity in regards to roles and expectations.  Kinky Sex has been part of all my relationships!  I'm not into Vanilla sex.. My BDSM relationship have had more S&M play though... Whew...  

Like they say, you can take the boy out of the city but you'll never take the City out of the boy! 

< Message edited by WhiplashSmile -- 5/26/2007 6:06:01 PM >

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2007 6:00:03 PM   
ennaozzie


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Status: offline 		Well if I want kinky sex I can go down the road to the pub, club or any other place and pick up someone, if that is all I wanted, and say what I want and I am sure 9 times out of ten I would get what I asked for, hoping I did not get someone that was a murderer.
 
Or I could find someone that just wants casual when it comes to kinky sex through here or some other venue and if someone is close by then meet up when the need arises.
 
When I do meet that someone that I think I would live with permanently, and it progresses to that, then when I am at home I am the subbie, not just in the bedroom.
 
When I am at work I have to be the Dominant sometimes, or have Dominant trates, or I would have lost my job by now if I acted in a way that was me (as in subbie.)
 
To just come home and be able to be me (subbie) is a wonderful thing.
 
beanie

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2007 6:04:16 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		dogobedience, are you on some kind of mission to revive all your threads from last year?

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2007 7:24:13 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

Yes, BDSM is a kink. However are you here only for EASY SEX ?!


Is your goal for today to see how many of your old threads you can revive?

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RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does ... - 5/26/2007 9:52:20 PM   
MsParados


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Status: offline 		would you believe that my sex life is more vanilla than kink. It is everywhere else that our M/s manifests, and when we engage in BDSM, sex usually isn't connected to it...
Good luck on your journey.

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