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TemptingNviceSub -> RE: animosity, revenge and just general pissed off (5/27/2006 4:41:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

You know, sometime we come down on people because we care about them and want them to stop self-destructive habits.

I've been here through some of the bad moments, Kevin, and one thing I noticed was that a lot of us recognized your heart, and your lack of malice. We've often told you so, so stop beating yourself up.

Move on, learn and grow.

You're part of this dysfunctional family...so enjoy!
I agree with Cin here...I am not sure I understand why you brought it up,but all is well..let it go Kevin...be well..Tempting




DesertRat -> RE: animosity, revenge and just general pissed off (5/27/2006 5:14:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'd post the link to the thread that had all the "original" drama on it, but my search function isn't working right now.

Fastlane- you had a big cyber blow up that was quite public and quite nasty.  Before that you had major cyber open flirting which simply fueled the fire and let everyone know who they players were when the drama broke out.

And since then, no one has seen much change in you- posts about going poly, wanting new people, not sure of where to go, as well as your clear pattern of 95% of the time posting only one liner humorous type posts that don't add anything but fluff.  You aren't really projecting an attitude of someone who knows what's going on, where he wants to go and how he's going to get there.

Even with all of that- no one would really care.  If I left this site tomorrow and came back in a month, maybe 3 people would notice and care.  A few would be happy.  But, no one is really THAT important online.  As you can see here, hardly anyone even remembers the original drama fest that you had going. 

You're the one who keeps bringing it up, you're the one who remains trapped by your habits.


Well said. That sums it up nicely.




happypervert -> RE: animosity, revenge and just general pissed off (5/28/2006 9:00:35 PM)

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If nothing has been learned from the past except for regrets, then maybe the past bears humble, reflective, private revisiting... not another public rant.

These are wise words, but they are wasted on the intended audience.

The whole point of this thread was to get attention as you might expect from someone with personality disorder like the one linked above. It worked at first because judging from the responses it looks like some chicks dig fake remorse.

But most of us can't comprehend why he would revisit this because a normal person would have anticipated that someone besides sympathetic girls would have seen it, or that someone like you might do some clever detective work to find the dirt in that other thread. In it you also saw him eventually resort to fake remorse, but only after trying to justify his sleasy behavior and smear the character of the girls. However, that didn't show the off-the-boards harassment and stalking that Bob mentioned -- that is yet another tool in his bag of manipulative tricks. The sum of the poor thinking, manipulative tactics and abnormal behaviors paints a picture of a real sick individual beneath a facade of lame jokes. He just ain't right in the head.

So in this case quiet, private reflection isn't an option. If you pay attention you'll notice him stalking certain posters on the boards. That's his "style" when he doesn't get his way or attention from people who ignore him, and you can be sure that another ill-considered rant ought to pop up again someday when he wants some more sympathy.

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Maybe some here are wondering if you are human, flawed, sincere and reformed, or just 3 out of 4.

You're being far too generous -- some of us wonder if anything beyond "flawed" applies.




fastlane -> RE: animosity, revenge and just general pissed off (5/28/2006 9:09:07 PM)

I look up at this ass and say "need I say more?"
Pervert..Yes...Happy...No!
needs help?...I'm not to judge..but you be..LOL
Happy kevin....damn that even sound sick and it is...[:D] but I didn't say perv!




DesertRat -> RE: animosity, revenge and just general pissed off (5/28/2006 9:22:11 PM)

From what I know of my personal contact with HappyPerv, he lives up to his name. Perverted? Yep. Happy? Sure, and why shouldn't he be? He's got a great girl under his wing.

Bob




ModeratorEleven -> RE: animosity, revenge and just general pissed off (5/28/2006 9:28:19 PM)

That fat lady sure has a wonderful singing voice.

XI




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