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"Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 7:45:41 PM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		Does anything in Y/your day to day environment "crank Y/your case"?
 
Here are some of mine:
 
1.  Storms -- the more violent, the better.  Especially after dark.  (Once, in Indiana i actually saw a tornado; is was a breath-taking sight i will remember always.  i was only 12 and still got an attack of the gooies.  And of course i realise tornados are not something to wish for.)
 
2. Train whistles -- again, especially at night -- the later the better.
 
3. Clean sheets, at least 800 thread count.  <Plotting to acquire the 1,500 count ones.>
 
4.  Public displays of affection by strangers.
 
5.  Church bells <don't ask; i have no clue.>
 
6.  Salon visits; clothes shopping; shoe shopping and other typical girly stuff.
 
7.  Men walking dogs -- especially big dogs -- on a leash.
 
8.  Car accidents with Men in which Their first remark to me is "are you okay?"
 
9.  Traffic stops.  <Major cop thingie.>
 
10.  Ambulances and firetrucks.  Of course, these are most stimulating when running a siren, but even just parked and empty, they send me off on a major gooey attack.  (And yes, i am a grown woman, i pull over as soon as i see them, realising they are lifesavers.  They just happen to get me hot.)
 
11.  Watching a Man mow the lawn -- even a glimpse does it.  <Riding mowers don't do it for me though.>
 
A/anyone else subject to "attacks" of the gooeies?
 
candystripper
 
 

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 7:49:57 PM   
zumala


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Status: offline 		I'll agree about big dogs.  It's kind of strange, but... *shrug*  Personally, I think the large sleek ones look best.  Like Dobermans and Salukis.  They're just pretty.
 
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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 8:08:52 PM   
spankmepink11


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Status: offline 		I find men walking  big  dogs  get to me also...and....
storms with high winds......
the sea shore
blue collar men wearing shorts and workboot/shoes..
men in ANY  kind of boots...except cowboy  (Firemens big rubber boots....hunters leatherboots to the knees, military boots)
great smells
being in large crowds and being pressed up against  the bodies of total strangers...

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 8:30:54 PM   
FloridaISIS


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Status: offline 		candystripper, I'm not sure if this where you're intending this to go, but I'll give it a shot?
  •   A man with a sexy smile
  •  A man who with one look can make me melt me   instantly
  •  A Man with a sexy voice
  • A man's hands, just something about them
  •  A  man with broad shoulders, nice chest and buns
  • A man with a large endowment
  • Daddy Doms ( so gentle, tender, and protective--mmm)
  • Being called "babygirl"
  • Making love & than being ravaged  by the Daddy Dom I'm serving 
  •  Silk, satin, leather and latex 
  •  Clothes and toy shopping
  • Massages (feet too) 
  •   My sub in panties
  •  My sub kneeling before me
  • strap on play and giving prostate massages
  • puppies and kittens
  • cute little babies and kids, for the most part

This has to end somewhere

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 8:33:53 PM   
LaMalinche


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Status: offline 		Nazi Uniforms.  Those guys were some snazzy dressers.  I think that it is the shinny boots that does it.

Best,

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 8:37:50 PM   
FloridaISIS


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quote:

ORIGINAL: spankmepink11

the sea shore
blue collar men wearing shorts and workboot/shoes..
great smells


I am so at peace walking the beach, and  it's so much better hand in hand with your love.
blue collar men outside working...their bodies gleaming with sweat.
Smells, this really turns my crank when a man smells so good you want to lick them from head to toe, and just be in their arms all day and night long...(thinks Obsession for Men, Passion for Men, Herrera for Men. . The list goes on and on  

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 8:40:54 PM   
FloridaISIS


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Status: offline 		Oh Hades, it's  NONsexual replies candystripper wanted, I'm sorry. I need to obviously wake up.
whispers, Daddy this girl's been bad and wiggles on his lap.

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 8:41:02 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		UPS trucks.
UPS delivery men.  :)
Certain specific songs
Tattoos on men.
Men in toolbelts.

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 9:17:05 PM   
candystripper


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Oh Hades, it's  NONsexual replies candystripper wanted, I'm sorry. I need to obviously wake up.
whispers, Daddy this girl's been bad and wiggles on his lap.

FloridaSIS


FloridaSIS i loved your post;  Daddy Dom/lg relationships intrigue me.  i guess i didn't title the Op well; what i am  asking is -- when alone or with S/someone -- are there any "cues" that give you an attack of the gooies?
 
Btw, i presume Men get attacks of the gooies; T/they just call T/them hard ons, lmao.  A/any Men willing to reveal Their personal trip wires?
 
candystripper

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 9:23:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Big gruff looking men holding a small child. Well actually any man holding a small child.  makes my heart melt everytime.

One thing i remember from when i was about 16. We were at an outdoor pool and there was a guy about 6'5 - 6'6. totally ripped holding his 4 month old daughter. Talk about puddle lol



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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 9:39:46 PM   
FloridaISIS


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quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

quote:

Oh Hades, it's  NONsexual replies candystripper wanted, I'm sorry. I need to obviously wake up.
whispers, Daddy this girl's been bad and wiggles on his lap.

FloridaSIS


FloridaSIS i loved your post;  Daddy Dom/lg relationships intrigue me.  i guess i didn't title the Op well; what i am  asking is -- when alone or with S/someone -- are there any "cues" that give you an attack of the gooies?
 
Btw, i presume Men get attacks of the gooies; T/they just call T/them hard ons, lmao.  A/any Men willing to reveal Their personal trip wires?
 
candystripper


candystripper  so glad you liked it. I try to inject as much humor as I can into my posts where approriate. It's just me, a total smart arse.
Personally, what draws Me to a Daddy, is MOST are so gentle, tender, loving, and  they protect their babygirls so fiercely.  I think I could take a step further and say this isn't the type that will slap you in the face for craps and grins.
For the most part this is the One who will do a scene with you, and then make the gentlest, most tender love to you. I can't think of any better way to end an steaming, hot, erotic delicious scene. Call me a Hedonist. I love my pleasure..keep it all warm and fuzzy--lmao.

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ORIGINAL: akisha

Big gruff looking men holding a small child. Well actually any man holding a small child.  makes my heart melt everytime.

One thing i remember from when i was about 16. We were at an outdoor pool and there was a guy about 6'5 - 6'6. totally ripped holding his 4 month old daughter. Talk about puddle lol



mmm another gooie. Big tall, solid men. I'm think about 6'4-6'6" and about 215-260. Huge hunk of a man--mmm. Now that's the kind of Daddy I'd wanna serve. Yes, this one is  aswitch and it's driving me insane. A major bonus if he's sexy, bald/shaved, and maybe has the goatee thing going on--mmmmm.  (checks down south--uh oh)

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 10:42:12 PM   
genvieve


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Status: offline 		Non-sexual triggers?
 
-Storms are big for me as well, which is interesting because my Dominant feels the same way.  They make me feel brazen and make my Dominant feel powerful.  This works out verrah nicely.
 
-The smell of Eucalyptus
 
-A tube of crimson lipstick (dun ask)
 
-Aquafina water bottles
 
-Chocolate
 
-Strawberries
 
Hmmm...i'm sure there are others...but those are the immediate ones i can think of

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/25/2006 11:13:34 PM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		Muscles moving in men's shoulders - real muscles, from working hard, not gym muscles.

The way men move - jumping a fence, or catching something one-handed with no effort. Just being so totally at ease with themselves physically.

Latin dancing.  (But that's really just sex on a dance floor, and this is meant to be non-sexy things, right?)

Hearing a car door slam.  (NO idea why, but it's so... final, and assertive.)

Slow footsteps coming closer (unless I'm watching Supernatural).

Bubble baths.  Put me in a spa and I'm in heaven (chocolates, white wine, soft music.... make the most of every minute).

Good manners - opening a door, etc - makes me feel all girly and precious.

Seeing him at a distance, when he doesn't know I'm watching.

Wild storms, and howling winds.

Shops.  Just waiting for me to attack them.

Getting my hair and nails done.

Finding the perfect shoes.

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/26/2006 12:42:49 AM   
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Aquafina water bottles

genvieve


Full or empty, ya perv?  Lmao.
 
candystripper

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/26/2006 12:45:50 AM   
Calandra


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Status: offline 		Okay, I admit it, Dommes get the gooies too:
 
* The scene in "Man in the Iron Mask" where the three older musketeers help each other to their knees before their new king...
 
* Watching a man or woman singing in their car with total abandon... Don't hafta know what they're singing, I just feel priviledged somehow to witness a private moment.
 
* Storms with lotsa lightning. I used to go out to Hunting Island SC and climb the lighthouse just to watch storms roll by... sooo powerful.
 
* A man who can cry without feeling self conscious.
 
* Motorcycle cops... WOW! CHiPs was on the tv when I was an impressionable teen, go figure.
 
* Women who are totally unaware that they are beautiful... well, men too, but thats mostly a feminine attraction for me.
 
* Pregnant women who are just into that wondrous time between five and seven months... When they aren't "ready for it to just be over already" LOL
 
* The sound of some people's laughs... Don't exactly understand it, but I will hear a laugh at a crowded party and then turn to find that person just to watch them for the next hour...

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gooeys? - 5/26/2006 12:53:16 AM   
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Some nonsexual things which turn me on... hmmm.  There aren't a lot.  I think girls are more likely to be turned on by nonsexual things, to tell you the truth.  But if I had to pick some, how about storms, leather car interiors, crashing and pounding ocean waves, animals snarling/barking/fighting, a tasty snack like fruit or berries, a steamy shower, lolipops, little pink or red ribbons, small white cotton panties...

... I'll stop before I reveal just how much of a sick pervert I really am! 

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/26/2006 1:35:56 AM   
genvieve


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quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

quote:

Aquafina water bottles

genvieve


Full or empty, ya perv?  Lmao.
 
candystripper



lol
 
Ummm...yes?
 
-snorts-

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/26/2006 2:48:19 AM   
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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/26/2006 2:59:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		1. I'm with you on the storms. No tornadoes for me, but thunderstorms get my mind wandering.

2. Train cars with only a few people at night. Getting harder to find along the NE corridor, but again gets my mind going

3. Large showers or bathtubs

4. Back muscles on a man

5. Muscular calves

6. Hairy forearms (really not sure why on that one)

7. A nicely lined neckline when a guy gets a haircut

8. Warm nights, especially out of season in fall or early spring

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/26/2006 3:13:17 AM   
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UPS delivery men.


Aileen gets me!
yum UPS delievery guy yum


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