hlen5
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ORIGINAL: bostondom55 I think there are too many off topic replies and counter replies here. People will post dumb stuff, but this is a good topic. What emotions does being Dom invoke for me? Well, the knowledge that I have responsibility for another person. This becomes shifted a bit in a more Master/slave type situation, where the responsibility is for a well cared for object, but the responsibility factor is still there. Like most aware people, we are caretakers of things (the planet, our lives, other lives), not owners. The acknowledgement that I guide and structure sex and other kinky activities, the willingness to take and use another sexually as a justified reward for my status as Dom/Master... The satisfaction of knowing my skills are well founded and I can guide and focus my sub/slave in positive ways. Occasionally there is the outright kinky lust and sexual exploitation of my sub/slave for my own selfish, greedy motives, and gratitude that I have such a well trained and willing outlet for my kinky and sexual desires... When I was younger I was rather carried away with my Dom or Master role and was a bit egotistical, even arrogant, though I hate to acknowledge it. I was very ego driven, but I have to say it is very nice to have a dedicated sub/slave who makes you feel like you are in charge of their life, your life and truly a Master. It is ultimately gratifying. Good Post!!
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