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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/10/2006 2:58:13 AM   
MstrTiger


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I don’t think taking tributes for slaves is a most affective way of proving that they are not fakers though I do see it as a useful tool, I have received money or quite expensive gifts from some slaves and once they have sent them I never see them again. I never approach slaves I expect them to come to me, I also expect them to prove that they are who they say they are and at the same time I am perfectly willing to show them that I am the person in my pics I expect slaves to prove that they are genuinely interested in serving or submitting to me in a tangible way though I discuss it with them how they think the best way to go about doing it is. I am also interested in financial exploitation and I make that clear by having information about it on my website.

I think if I was a slave and some random dom came up and demanded money straight away without offering any proof of who they are then I would block them, I know many a slave boi who has had problems with such people in the past.

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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/10/2006 3:04:52 AM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Carameldomme

That is a perfect solution.
I think I'll adopt it for myself...
Now to find a charity that will provide  immediate proof of a donation.. ideas?



Here is a complete list of legitemate charities that will provide immediate proof of donations:

Every one of them.

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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/10/2006 6:44:58 PM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

quote:

ORIGINAL: Carameldomme

That is a perfect solution.
I think I'll adopt it for myself...
Now to find a charity that will provide  immediate proof of a donation.. ideas?



Here is a complete list of legitemate charities that will provide immediate proof of donations:

Every one of them.


(Or "legitimate")

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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/10/2006 9:32:26 PM   
submindfw


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Status: offline 		i've gone done this road a few times over the years.  The first time, i was suckered and out $100.  That was probably 8 years ago.  For a pro-domme, i can certainly understand wanting a deposit.  Since you would be paying for the service anyway, putting a deposit down doesn't seem that outlandish.

Since i am not into financial domination (willing to pay for toys and give gifts but not just cash), i would NEVER send money to someone just to prove i am 'real.' i am a very generous person, but i'm not going to just give money to someone i have never met.

i usually offer an alternative.  A Domme i met several years ago did this:  Rather than request a cash 'tribute,' she had me send her flowers.  She didn't tell me how much to spend, but basically said that what i sent would give Her an impression of me.  i sent her something nice, but not over the top and it worked out fine.  Now granted, this required Her to send me Her home address, but there are probably other ways around that (i think one of the flower sites actually allows you to purchase them, then send a note to an email address for the recipient and then the recipient provides the address).  Anyway, it worked out great doing it like that (though the relationship did not unfortunately).  i did something i like to do anyway (give flowers) and it showed Her that i was serious.

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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/12/2006 12:09:44 AM   
chains314


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Status: offline 		Well if it was me I would move on but if you wont to give her money. I would tell her you will do it only bye pay pal then if she is for real she can get pay pall and if she never contacts you again you can get your money back from pay pal .Thy will deduct  if from her account

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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/13/2006 2:25:24 AM   
DarkSatanicWitch


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Status: offline 		The other thing i think I would look for if i were a sub or slave is your classification. From what i have found a slave is a total and different classification from a sub all together. If the dom has in their profile that you will be required to hand everything over including financial reasons Then you have the option to not reply to that dom if you are not into that sort of thing. Personally I do and i make it clear so there is no confussion on that matter. I do allow my slaves a monthly income from what they bring in for presents for me or to buy something theyd like to try with me useing it on them. But again i clearly state and check again before they submit to something they do not like. That is just my take on it because if you are going to up front and honest with anyone that replies to you make sure you include everything they then have the option to accept or deny it. But is she is asking you after your original agreement then to me thats not right in the least.

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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/13/2006 2:52:22 AM   
blackpearl81


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

I *could* say that all submissives who don't order me a pizza and have it delivered to my house are stingy, ungrateful, ogres. It doesn't make it true.


*Gets on the phone with Dominos*

Yes.. I'd like to place an order for delivery?
I'd like a large pie, 1/2 plain, 1/2 pepperoni& mushroom please.....

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Ms. Pacman was the greatest prostitute that ever lived. For 25 cents, that bitch swallowed balls 'till she died.

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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/13/2006 2:53:10 AM   
MsCece2u


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Status: offline 		While I can understand the request, as most others have told you run in the opposite direction.  I'm glad that you were able to get your money returned to you.

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Tis better to let people think that you are a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

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RE: what do you do when a dom wants $ - 6/13/2006 4:57:56 PM   
MistrissBliss


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From: Grandrapids
Status: offline 		Good post, I am asking for a paddle but one to be used only by the slave who brings it (Im a clean freak) eventually I will be pro-dom because Im in the adult industry and model a lot, but for now Im just looking to play, that does sound cool about the gardening services. Id opt for stuff like that too but I need experience and Im single so this seemed perfect...

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Dress me, Adore me, spoil me, explore me if I deem you can, take care of me and await to be trained, spanked if needed, wax? ice?talk to me, you will desire me like a drug you cant resist the perfect mix of sweet and sour...

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