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ETOX123 -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 1:32:34 AM)
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Einstein wrote e =mc squared in his early 20's
BadOne
What's that got to do with anything?
We're talking about coming out as transgendered to a Christian fundamentalist family under pressure from a domme in the Bible Belt. The wrong reaction from one or two people can wipe out your support.
At the age of 26 try doing it without causing irreparable damage to your life.
You think its so easy, why not try it for yourself? Let's see you get out there and get acceptance from someone else prepared to support you for choosing to identify yourself as female.
I write from experience. It just isn't that easy. Trust me on this one.
Uh it has a lot to do with "everything" Do you really think writing the theory of relativity was "easy" Do you really think the ppl I killed in the name of freedom was "easy" at the age of 18. Or the parents who watch their child die because the can't afford to see a doctor what do you think that is "easy".
Support my ass. Come back for the war walk thru any US airport with your uniform on. Ppl walk up to you spit on you call you baby killer. On the network news every night 10's of thousand of protesters saying what evil ppl soldiers are. This went on every night for YEARS! So tell me stella how hard you have it. You had a choice to make I on the other hand did not! Unless of course you consider some asshole shooting at you and me not killing him a choice.
You think you have it hard? I'll give you a gun and you go kill ppl wound others and then you tell me which is harder to live with... Dressing up like a bitch or killing ppl.
Are you fucking kidding me who ever told you life was easy??? If your biggest problem in life is telling your parents that you like to wear high heels YOU are the one that has it easy. Trust me on this.
BadOne
I think the difference here is that you chose to put on the uniform and fight. Don't get me wrong, I'm grateful for it, but that was your choice, and complaining about it is a moot point at best. I however did not choose to be who I am, I didn't ask for it and I don't want it.
I'm going to be frank. You sit here and belittle me, and anyone who sides with me, and from here it looks as if you're doing it to feel better about yourself. In addition to that you seem to be feeling sorry for yourself because you did the job that you signed up for. You signed your name, you put on the uniform, and you picked up the rifle. If you somehow realized what you were going to go through, you could have easily backed out in basic training. You could have simply started wetting the bed, or found a way to gain a 'failure to adapt' release. Your DD-214 would have been blank for the most part and no one would have known you served or attempted to serve. You made the choice to complete your basic training, and you made the choice to get on the plane. You did all this, yet you feel sorry for yourself.
I'm not going to pretend to know what it's like in the theater of war. I know that the rules are different in that environment, and I know you may have done things that the rest of us might consider immoral simply because it was a matter of survival. But again, you picked it, and you went through with it.
I have not stated that I feel sorry for myself. I accept who I am, and I don't want to tell my parents. I'm not going to parade around throwing a pity party for myself. That was not the point of this thread, but you and a few others made it about that. This is how a very simple question and quest for advice turns into a flame war. You are a shining example of everything that is wrong with the internet, and you honestly need to step back and take a look at what you're doing. You meet everything I say with aggression, you throw it in our faces that you are a war veteran. Well, yes, you are a veteran, and I thank you for fighting on our behalf. Aside from that you have intentionally been degrading, and while your ranting and raving doesn't hurt me, it doesn't further the point of this thread.
Look I realize freedom is not free lot's of my friends paid the price. I was one of the lucky ones. But you are so missing the point. I was not throwing it in your face. I was showing stella and you that in the scheme of life your decisions are not difficult. Some how in your mind your making a mountain out of a mole hill.
BTW the reason I responded to stella had nothing to do with you. She pissed me right the fuck off with how difficult her life has been. I have zero respect for ppl that whine. I thought if she thought her life was so tuff come walk a mile in my shoes.
My war stories were not a attempt to one up you or be billy bad ass... it was to show you how easy you actually have it. For some reason you seem to think that others will treat you different cuz you dress like a girl. And what some on here have suggested and I agree with is that, Those that won't accept who you are ... Are not worth having in your life. Yes it's really that simple. hanners pointed that out to you and ppl jumped her for it.
The problem is your not "hearing" what ppl are telling you. You are paying lip service but your not "hearing it". The other issue is your so scared that you "dirty little secret is going to get out you have tunnel vision.
BadOne
I just want to point out that people are jumping on Hannah because she clearly thinks her way is the only way, and the fact that she keeps attacking me and other through repetitive swearing and degradation. I'm not spineless, far from it. I've come out to most of my friends and family. My parents are the only ones left and I keep it secret because I'm not interested in hurting them. They believe I am the only one of their children that turned out normal, held down a job, and will essentially be the American dream. So yes, okay, I'm afraid. I'm afraid of seeing the look in their eyes when they realized that their older children were wife beaters and whores, and then their youngest child is a transgender. I'm afraid of seeing them crushed because of something that they cannot fully comprehend. Maybe if I didn't have a soul I would have no problem with it, or maybe if I thought they had the capacity to handle it or change their way of thinking. The simple truth here is that they don't, and while I wish they could know me, they can't. I made that decision, and every family member I've come out to says the same thing.
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