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Arpig -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 3:58:33 AM)

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....this is so not what I intended this thread to turn into.
It happens, that's another thing you'll get used to if you stick around.




LafayetteLady -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 5:08:47 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SailingBum


Uh it has a lot to do with "everything" Do you really think writing the theory of relativity was "easy" Do you really think the ppl I killed in the name of freedom was "easy" at the age of 18. Or the parents who watch their child die because the can't afford to see a doctor what do you think that is "easy".

Support my ass. Come back for the war walk thru any US airport with your uniform on. Ppl walk up to you spit on you call you baby killer. On the network news every night 10's of thousand of protesters saying what evil ppl soldiers are. This went on every night for YEARS! So tell me stella how hard you have it. You had a choice to make I on the other hand did not! Unless of course you consider some asshole shooting at you and me not killing him a choice.

You think you have it hard? I'll give you a gun and you go kill ppl wound others and then you tell me which is harder to live with... Dressing up like a bitch or killing ppl.

Are you fucking kidding me who ever told you life was easy??? If your biggest problem in life is telling your parents that you like to wear high heels YOU are the one that has it easy. Trust me on this.

How fucking dare you tell me how hard your life is... Ive had friends killed on a monthly basis. I have friends with no legs some with no arms. I've had friends die in my arms while waiting for a chopper meanwhile I trying to save their life. Ive been in situations where I didn't know if I was going to come out alive. And yet you have the gall to tell me how hard your life is. Go fuck yourself.

BadOne


Ok, first of all, you would have had to go to war sometime in the sixties/early 70s to "not have a choice." You voluntarily joined the military, so yea, you had a choice.

Your ignorance is so blatant it is pathetic. I shudder to think what would happen if your children have serious issues to deal with because YOU certainly wouldn't be supportive.

Perhaps you should get some post military therapy. It seriously appears you need it.




DarkSteven -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 5:15:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Stella, welcome back.

With all due respect, SailingBum, you have no clue what you're talking about. The fact that you're injecting random crap about your service and Einstein into a discussion about sexual identity is an indication.  My sub is a transgender and I won't claim to understand it, but she sure as hell does.

For example, I never understood is how powerful the drive is to associate with another gender identity.  I am happy being a man and, had I been born female, I would have been content with that.  A TG has to be willing to go through a LOT, including frequently alienation of family and friends, and loss of previous identity.  (And simply the sexual reassignment surgery alone can run $25K.)  I can't imagine wanting it that much.

ETOX123, I'm going to give you some advice which you may not appreciate. 

1. Develop some new friends, those that understand you.  From the sounds of that party, I think you're already doing that.
2. Reconsider your ties to your family.  Sorry to be this blunt, but if all of your other siblings are whores and abusers, your upbringing can't have been that stellar.
3. Decide in the next few years.  My sub is one of very few MtFs that transitioned when she was almost late in life and had it looking good.  And she had to contend with fallout from her spouse and two kids.  The earlier you do it, the more effect the HRT will have, and of course, the longer life you will have ahead of you.

Good luck.



Dark I like and respect the post of yours that Ive read. With that said you really dont know what your talking about. WOW random crap ehh. What part of my posts dont you understand? Surly not the part about getting shot at being easier than some mental masturbation of considering becoming TG. <remember she called me out how hard her life is>

Who know maybe it was the part where I said many ppl have accomplished great things by their mid 20's and poster on here are still worrying about telling their parents...whatfucking ever.

What part dont you get.

BadOne



You still don't get it.  To be fair, I had no idea about it until February this year, but I didn't go spouting off about it, especially when experts like stella chimed in.

1. Being a transgender isn't sexual like being a crossdresser is.  It's NOT a kinky kick - it's feeling wrong in the role they're physically in.
2. You keep thinking about the servicemen who got shot at.  Instead, think about those who deserted.  Not because they were afraid, but because they felt that war was wrong.  They would have faced jail, being cut off from their family and friends, having a black mark on their record, etc.  That's kinda similar to what being a TG is like - feeling compelled to do something that society says is wrong, and facing ostracization from loved ones as a result.

The idea that people have accomplished wonderful things in their 20s is irrelevant. Hell, my major accomplishment to date is putting bread on the table.




tazzygirl -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 5:17:37 AM)

Im suspecting the Mods will be along soon enough to take care of the "problem".




LafayetteLady -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 5:21:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynn
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At 22, living by your convictions is not usually something that has taken strong hold yet.
you underestimate the strength of young people's convictions.


Chuckles
Agreed.
Hell, at 22 one should live by their convictions. WTF else be young?
Course, at 35 one should live by reality, which is an entirely different deal.



Einstein wrote e =mc squared in his early 20's

BadOne



Wanna try to explain how that has ANYTHING to do with the courage of your convictions? A mathemetician comes up with a math equation, which is reallly what the theory of relativity is.

Do you even KNOW what having the courage of your convictions is? It's being able to speak up about something being wrong when the whole room is telling you it's right. It having the ability to be open about who you are in the face of bigots.

It's NOT about following the crowd into a protest, it isn't about being and "anarchist" (being young and hating authority is SO not new).

It is about being able to express your opinion without violence, without bullying, without resorting to any of the types of things YOU have done.

And again, you so obviously have no understanding about human sexuality than the fact that, how did you put it? You like to smack your bitch around?




LafayetteLady -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 5:26:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

yea know suffice to say 16 million yes million Americans served in WW 2 so yes courage under fire is quite common. You still dont get it your story about how difficult it is to be whatever it is that you are was real easy compared to what others have gone through. What you fail to understand is that most ppl suck it up and shine in the face of adversity and there is ppl like you who complain about how difficult you life is.

By choice I dont hang out with the ppl that are "poor me my life is difficult". Guess what stella life can be tuff and demanding it's all in how you deal with it. And for you to compare your in your words hard life to my life when you have no clue what my life is about is baseless. So I chose to give you a clue about my life. Some ppl look for the best in everything and others find fault with why it's not "going their way"

BadOne


Now you are spouting bullshit. You talking about YOUR military service, or making up stories about WWII vets? Because there ain't no way in hell you served in that war, so you have NO comprehension of what they went through, regardless of what any might have told you. Any more than people can comprehend YOUR military service (if it actually existed).

Again, the clue about your life is that you probably have a violent streak and need therapy.




crazyml -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 5:42:24 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


Do you even KNOW what having the courage of your convictions is? It's being able to speak up about something being wrong when the whole room is telling you it's right. It having the ability to be open about who you are in the face of bigots.

It's NOT about following the crowd into a protest, it isn't about being and "anarchist" (being young and hating authority is SO not new).

It is about being able to express your opinion without violence, without bullying, without resorting to any of the types of things YOU have done.



Ker-fucking-bingo.






MissKittyDeVine -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 6:11:55 AM)

Steven, not in reference to any post in particular, but your posts in general, I think that you are one of the most rational, sensible and pleasant posters on these boards. Would there were more like you.




VideoAdminDelta -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 10:52:49 AM)

A number of posts have been removed for personal attacks, name calling, or some other violation of the forum guidelines.  Please remain on topic.

Thank you.




Ninebelowzero -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 10:53:12 AM)

Someone quotede about the number of serving men in WW2.

It is absolutely irrelevant to the thread, not just off topic but totally without juxtaposition. That generation did not have the choices we do. Choice leads to dilemma. Further we all remember or grandparents generation. A nation of stoics if ever there was one, They were made in the great depression, we are baby boomers, made of lesser material, softer, spoilt & wanting. Don't confuse the two. Our grandparents could out eat, out drink, out run, out fight & out fuck us all even on an off day.




PeonForHer -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 10:55:41 AM)

God, Delta, are you sure you made the right choice when you said 'yes' to this job?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:01:11 AM)

Goodness, what have I missed?




PeonForHer -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:09:48 AM)

The usual, Lady Hib, the usual. A thread starts with an OP presenting a serious problem. Some people try to be helpful. Then, others turn up to "call bullshit". Those 'bullshit callers' are quickly followed by those who who charge the OP with being a "whiner". (There's no real way of presenting any problem at all without being able to avoid that charge, of course.) Then, the debate turns into one of morals, this matter being what most exercises everyone and in which everyone feels most comfortable. Then, we're onto the solid old division that everyone knows and loves: good versus evil; one person's fine old home truth versus another's.

And then the OP buggers off, if he hasn't done so already.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:12:41 AM)

I've been chatting with him on the other side, he' s all right so far. I think I stopped reading after Stella's post.





LaTigresse -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:13:26 AM)

I think I stopped after the first few pages........I just saw your 'Goodness, what have I missed' scroll across the top and clicked on it.




GreedyTop -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:15:04 AM)

Thanks, Delta!

I think the OP had a perfectly legit question, given how he phrased it.

I'm with agirl and a few others in their responses.




ETOX123 -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:23:46 AM)

Actually I'm still here :)




PeonForHer -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:24:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I've been chatting with him on the other side, he' s all right so far. I think I stopped reading after Stella's post.




Well done, Hibbie - you'e a diamond!

To be honest, I'm beginning to think that if people are sympathetic to any given OP's problem, and feel able to help, it'd be better to take him or her to one side, so to speak. I don't always hold with the oft-expressed maxim here, 'You asked for opinions, now you're getting them.' Sometimes people open themselves up to vulnerabilities here, only to have a team of arses wade in to give them more of exactly what they've suffered from arses in the outside world. Me, I'd probably sod off and never come back.




PeonForHer -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:25:35 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ETOX123

Actually I'm still here :)


That's the spirit! Just keep your fly-swatter handy. [;)]




HannahLynn -> RE: When a Domme Blackmails you (11/10/2011 11:25:44 AM)

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Me, I'd probably sod off and never come back.
oo please do.




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