ETOX123
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ORIGINAL: Arpig quote:
I just want to point out that people are jumping on Hannah because she clearly thinks her way is the only way, and the fact that she keeps attacking me and other through repetitive swearing and degradation. No, that's just Hannah being Hannah. She's always like that, even when she's being nice, she's not nice. Most of the people on here have learned not to pay too much attention to the cursing and put-downs. If you stick around, you'll get used to it too. It behooves you, however, to pay attention to what she says, as she generally has a very clear and realistic view of things, and in all honesty, is not often wrong. And as far as insisting that her way is the only way, well how does that differ from you? You came here and asked for advice, and have rejected just about all of it because it isn't what you want to hear. If you're looking for a pity party, you came to the wrong place, we don't do those here. Too many sadists I suppose. Well, since you did ask for advice, here's my advice. Suck it up. You screwed up royally, and there is probably nothing you can do about it. You can go along with the blackmailer, or you can tell her to get stuffed. If you chose the latter, then its out of your hands. If the blackmailer does follow through with her threats, oh well, that's the way the cookie crumbles. If you didn't want pictures of you in a dress to get back to your parents, then you shouldn't have sent them out to a stranger online. But you did. There really is no advice we can give you other than what was said on the first page. Call the cops, and accept that your secret is most probably now out. You have been dragged out of the closet against your will. That's truly unfortunate, but please don't ask me for sympathy, because it is entirely your fault you find yourself in this position. And stop whining and making excuses and complaining that we are attacking you. We're not, we're giving you advice. The only advice worth getting. You're 26 now, time to put aside little boy things and be a man. You fucked up, so suck it up, man up, and deal. What advice have I rejected exactly? I investigated and got help from another CM member. If you'd read through this thread you would know that. I came to a conclusion, and though I didn't share it, I can assure you the danger has passed. What did I do wrong? You're attacking me for something I didn't even do. I didn't reject any advice, in fact over the course of the discussion I made it clear that I have come out to a number of family members, and whether or not I come out to my parents? That's just none of your damn business now is it?
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