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new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/10/2011 10:50:17 PM

SubmissiveBeast

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Hi all, I'm 26, female, submissive tendencies. New to bdsm. Had a friend start telling me about it & something just clicked into place. Been doing LOTS of reading online. Looking for more info, some friends to help me along and be able to talk with. Thanks!!

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 1:24:26 AM

Sashareign

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Hi SubmissiveBeast,

Welcome to Our World. That "Our" includes you now. Hope you like it. First thing I would say is make sure to research how to set your filters. I have a feeling you might get way too many messages. That can be disrupting to your journey. Explore the site, make some contributions (posts) and I am sure there are some friends waiting out there for you.

There are plenty of veterans to help out us young folk who are still learning to tie knots and such. Don't be afraid, and jump in. Also be of good cheer. It goes a long way and is much appreciated.

All the best,

-Sasha

< Message edited by Sashareign -- 11/11/2011 1:26:17 AM >

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 1:57:49 AM

DarkSteven

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 2:03:24 AM

HypnoDomVentura

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We love the right mindset rather than the externals...but when both come together...Yummmmm!

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 2:32:20 AM

SubmissiveBeast

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Stole your signature! Love it! My friends on FB officially think I'm a lesbian now though, lol

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 2:36:36 AM

SubmissiveBeast

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sashareign

Hi SubmissiveBeast,

Welcome to Our World. That "Our" includes you now. Hope you like it. First thing I would say is make sure to research how to set your filters. I have a feeling you might get way too many messages. That can be disrupting to your journey. Explore the site, make some contributions (posts) and I am sure there are some friends waiting out there for you.

There are plenty of veterans to help out us young folk who are still learning to tie knots and such. Don't be afraid, and jump in. Also be of good cheer. It goes a long way and is much appreciated.

All the best,

-Sasha

Thanks sasha! Much appreciated, ill look into the filter settings tomorrow. Thank you!

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 2:55:45 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the discussion side of CM, Beast !!

You will find a ton of information in old threads once you learn how to use the search function.

Feel free to jump in and start your own thread(s) if you have specific questions. We don't bite (much).

A mentor is always a great idea ! You need someone local, and I suspect Portland has a very active BDSM scene.

Join FetLife, and you will be able to do a quick search for events in your area. Most larger urban areas have a group for the under 30s.

Good luck on your journey.

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 5:18:15 AM

ashjor911

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Welcome To CM

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my name is : bonsh ... jamesh bonsh.
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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 7:15:24 AM

XFootSlave4U

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... Oh hai!

Welcome!

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 7:37:31 AM

BossyShoeBitch

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SubmissiveBeast

Had a friend start telling me about it & something just clicked into place.

Doesn't get less complicated than that! Welcome to CM (and to a future filled with more fun than you ever though possible!)

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 10:27:59 AM

SubmissiveBeast

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Thank tou all!

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 2:49:54 PM

MyHazelLabyrinth

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Heya!

Welcome to CM!

You can see by my delightful vanilla cone that i am still a newb, however not a n00b! :)

Make sure you check out the acid test for identifying the Doms from the posers.

Take things uber slow, there is no need to rush for the sake of it.

And what else can i say....ummm oh yes! It is a good idea to set yourself lots of limits so that as you grow and learn and experience you can choose to lift them. It is better to start with alot of limits than none at all. Keep it sane!

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 4:19:32 PM

MistressDarkArt

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Glad to have you join us. Enjoy!

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/11/2011 9:00:00 PM

SubmissiveBeast

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MyHazelLabyrinth

Heya!

Welcome to CM!

You can see by my delightful vanilla cone that i am still a newb, however not a n00b! :)

Make sure you check out the acid test for identifying the Doms from the posers.

Take things uber slow, there is no need to rush for the sake of it.

And what else can i say....ummm oh yes! It is a good idea to set yourself lots of limits so that as you grow and learn and experience you can choose to lift them. It is better to start with alot of limits than none at all. Keep it sane!

Can some explain the acid test? I searched and found nothing...
Thanks!

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/12/2011 12:43:50 AM

Delilya

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Best of luck in your journey.

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/12/2011 5:45:42 AM

Hillwilliam

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SubmissiveBeast

Can some explain the acid test? I searched and found nothing...
Thanks!

If it looks like a wanker, walks like a wanker and talks like a wanker.....well, it's not a Dom.

Seriously. look for people who want to get to know you as a person first. Any initial email that starts with Get on your knees, slut, bitch, whore, Meet your master, or other similar things is from a wanker.
A Dominant will simply contact you and tell you about himself and possibly ask about your non kink related interests.
It's just like in the non kink world. If you were having a beer at your favorite pub and some guy came up and said "Suck my cock slut". I bet you wouldn't go home with him.
Likewise. Someone who conducted himself as a gentleman and intrigued you with non sexual conversation would possibly at least get your phone number.

< Message edited by Hillwilliam -- 11/12/2011 5:46:37 AM >

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Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/12/2011 8:26:23 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome Subm, hope you can find that which you seek, or maybe it's just tongue in cheek. No matter, there's something about your pic which i find very appealing, sorry what were you saying?

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/13/2011 2:52:24 PM

domrichguy

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Hello welcome.

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RE: new sub, soaking in ALL the information - 11/27/2011 3:25:56 AM

MyHazelLabyrinth

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Hey

sorry i didn't reply quicker, for some reason i'm not being notyfied when people reply so i had no idea ...sorry

here is the link for the acid test http://www.mybdsm.com/pages/kalanasc/bdsm/acidtest.html i think you may have found it already, since it was weeks ago when i mentioned it, but it's a good read anyway.

Hope it's helpful in some way :)

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