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wiltswitch -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 4:13:44 PM)

what my comments are based on are why should anyone think that they are above someone else because they are not their sub, as thats what not replying is in most cases. Yes i understand that it can be annoying when the same type of people mail you with "want too do me", but disrepecting them just makes them want to try again and again. Why not just say "sorry to busy to have time too bye" then its sorted and there isnt any comeback. What i am not liking about this site is alot of younger Doms thinking that not replying is them showing power when actually if someone wants to learn from their experiance all they are being is rude and Doms an't rude are they??? are you???




bandit25 -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 4:17:51 PM)

WHAT?




JohnWarren -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 4:30:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: wiltswitch

what my comments are based on are why should anyone think that they are above someone else because they are not their sub, as thats what not replying is in most cases. Yes i understand that it can be annoying when the same type of people mail you with "want too do me", but disrepecting them just makes them want to try again and again. Why not just say "sorry to busy to have time too bye" then its sorted and there isnt any comeback. What i am not liking about this site is alot of younger Doms thinking that not replying is them showing power when actually if someone wants to learn from their experiance all they are being is rude and Doms an't rude are they??? are you???


You know what they are thinking when they don't respond?  How clever of you.

For your information, doms are people; some are rude; some are not. 




MstrssPassion -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 4:39:49 PM)

Your pissed off because those of us who decide to not reply differ from your line of thinking... that a polite reply proves we are a real dom.

Sorry.... but your not the one receiving the overwhelming amount of email that is not worth the bandwidth or time for a reply. Your also not the one that has been elected to tell others what to do with their email. Talk about pompous.

Many of the ladies on the board are EXTREMELY specific about what they want & HOW they want to be responded to by those viewing their profile. This is not domming someone, it is being straight forward & precise.

It doesn't matter what a person does... a silent no or a polite no... many people just don't take the hint that a no is a no & a no means NO... & as far as the the polite no stopping unwanted mail vs. the silent no... I get far more second, third... tenth email from people I have said a polite no to... those I do not respond to for the most part don't email me back. I have also followed up with blocks to ensure no more mail.

The silent no works best for me.

Darn... I bet I just outed myself as being the biggest fake on the site, not only do I not reply, block unwanted mail after the first reply but I also delete without viewing...

[sm=kiss.gif]





mtumwawaBwana -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 4:49:32 PM)

why is it everyone else gets to be the "true fake"?

i wanna be the "true fake"

whens it goinna be my turn???



waaaaaaa

goes off to sit in my corner pouting, guess i'll go back to reading from my big black book of rules from the born-again-virgins club.......since everyones soo greedy with the "true fake" and not sharing




Invictus754 -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 5:03:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: wiltswitch
...so reply with a polite comment and stop trying to protend your the ultimate Dom by saying you wont reply ... so stop trying to Dom other peoples  protental subs....take this as a warning and lets sort areselfs out on here

Why don't you take your protensious self and erectile mysfunction off CollarMe because you aren't so polite urself.
 
When did you drop out of skool?  Thurd greyd?
 
Did you consider that maybe the ones who were more intelligent than you weren't responding? 
 
Do you see why you received no answers?  I'd spell it out for you, but...well, you know...




smilezz -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 5:26:43 PM)

Uhmm....do i get ice cream now?[sm=mrpuffy.gif]

~smilezz~




SweetSarijane -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 6:21:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty


Good, just making sure I was not the only one who was a bit 'lost'. [sm=confused.gif] Take notice though, what forum this is in. Point made.


[sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=tongue.gif][8D][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]
ROFLMAO Oh I did, I did take notice right off. Oh yeah...point definitely made. *grin*




Evanesce -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 8:08:38 PM)

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I love you Denise!  You crack me up![sm=biggrin.gif]


LOL!  Yeah, but some of these people just make it so easy, yanno?
 
I'm still trying to wrap my little pea brain around the idea that somehow NOT replying to someone's email is actually domming them.  I always thought dominating someone required some form of action.




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 8:29:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Evanesce

Ahem...  ::: in my best Cartman voice :::

Fake fakity fake fake fake!


AH HAH!!!!!  I always suspected that you were a fake fake, Denice.  Us REAL fakes can always tell.




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 8:32:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: wiltswitch

What i am not liking about this site is alot of younger Doms thinking that not replying is them showing power


Actually, they're thinking that not replying is showing lack of interest in you, not power.




angelface183 -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 8:38:04 PM)

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 what my comments are based on are why should anyone think that they are above someone else because they are not their sub, as thats what not replying is in most cases. 


You are WAY too sensitive.  The people on this site are real people (except for fastlane: he's a hologram, benji: he's a dog and what can I say about Sir RavenMuse: He's a Legend) who have real lives and responsibilities.  I myself have a 60 hour work week.  I also have a dog and all of the responsibility that comes with being a good daughter/sister/aunt, not to mention all of the stuff that I do to take care of my home.  I am certain that my situation is not unique.

When I joined this site I received a great deal of mail; some I answered, some I did not.  I also sent out a lot of emails; some were answered some were not.  I figured that if I did not receive a response for someone that either they were also inundated with mail and were too busy to respond or that they were not interested.  Perhaps I was too chubby or too short or too smart or lived too far away.  Whatever the reason though, they chose not to contact me.  Instead of dwelling on it, I moved on to other candidates. 

Have you spent any time on "traditional" dating sites?  It works the exact same way.  If you like someone you contact them, if you don't you move on.  That is the beauty of the online environment.  You are not face to face with someone.  You do not have to give a reason for not wanting to become aquainted. 

You are imagining a control issue where none exists.  You are implying a that a dominant dynamic already exists between you and your prospective Dommes.  You have no relationship with them, therefore they do not recognize the powerplay that is seeming to torture you.  You are nothing more than a profile and a picture and that is all that they should be to you. 

For you to become offended, and may I say obsessive, is unhealthy.  After all, it is not like they threw a drink in your face in a crowded bar; they just chose to not respond to an email.  Move on, get over it, grow up.  This is online.  It is only real when more than one person decides to make it so. 

Best of luck to you.




mtumwawaBwana -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 8:45:04 PM)

sneaks up and steals the "true fake" away from everyone and greedily hides it away.....



MINE ...ALL MINE, I TELL YAS......MINE[:D]



and i'm not sharing......you cant make me




livinandlearnin -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 8:57:49 PM)

not that I really care cause I'm sure I'm one of those fake's not sure whether I'm a real fake or a fake fake LOL but I think he was trying to say he had contacted some Dom's for advice and learning and they didnt contact him back...Bad Doms LOL.... As Doms dont ya'll know your supposed to answer back every wannabe and such that send you such well spoken and written emails??? LOL

Yes I am being sarcastic as I just worked 16 hours and have to be back at work for another 16 hours in less than 5 hours but couldnt let this go by LOL (or should I say I couldnt let this go bye as the OP of this thread would have?)




FelinePersuasion -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 10:00:44 PM)

And just so you know, when you say sorry not interested half the time they ask why a ton of times try to convince you they're the one you should look at, or ask ok then got any female friends looking for a subby?

People don't not reply cause thwey're being dominant over someone they don't reply cause their simply not interested and can't be bothered.

quote:

ORIGINAL: wiltswitch

what my comments are based on are why should anyone think that they are above someone else because they are not their sub, as thats what not replying is in most cases. Yes i understand that it can be annoying when the same type of people mail you with "want too do me", but disrepecting them just makes them want to try again and again. Why not just say "sorry to busy to have time too bye" then its sorted and there isnt any comeback. What i am not liking about this site is alot of younger Doms thinking that not replying is them showing power when actually if someone wants to learn from their experiance all they are being is rude and Doms an't rude are they??? are you???




BitaTruble -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 10:08:22 PM)

[sm=applause.gif] <-- for all the posters who actually understood the OP. Even with his second post, I'm still not 'getting' his problem.

Gawds.. must be the menopause. [sm=biggrin.gif]




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 10:52:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

[sm=applause.gif] <-- for all the posters who actually understood the OP. Even with his second post, I'm still not 'getting' his problem.

Gawds.. must be the menopause. [sm=biggrin.gif]


I think he's P.O.d because you didn't answer his email swearing eternal devotion to you, Celeste.

Or maybe it was somebody else.




Reflectivesoul -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/26/2006 11:59:20 PM)

Harry,
 
Are you sure he isnt P.O'd that you didnt answer his e-mail? *giggles* Ya know since you're e-mail is broken and all maybe he's feelin a lil jaded n used cause you didnt reply......
 
Oh and BTW I've become one of those who doesnt answer mail now too so count me in for a slice of the fake pie lol. I've just grown bored with replying to ignorant trolls who obviously send the same fucking letter to every person on this site, demanding what they want, what they have to have out of the experience, then expect and demand a reply back.....
 




TxBlkMistress -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/27/2006 12:08:41 AM)

Wow Evanesce...you too?   I thought that was domming was as well....hmmmm...guess we both have the same out dated domme book.....LOL




TxBlkMistress -> RE: how many true fakes and fake fakes there are on here!!!! (5/27/2006 12:15:05 AM)

Amen angelface....maybe his problem is that between his bad grammar and bad attitude. NO one replies back.   But then again there's no way any of this could be "his" fault.   LOL




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