angelface183
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Joined: 4/12/2006 Status: offline
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what my comments are based on are why should anyone think that they are above someone else because they are not their sub, as thats what not replying is in most cases. You are WAY too sensitive. The people on this site are real people (except for fastlane: he's a hologram, benji: he's a dog and what can I say about Sir RavenMuse: He's a Legend) who have real lives and responsibilities. I myself have a 60 hour work week. I also have a dog and all of the responsibility that comes with being a good daughter/sister/aunt, not to mention all of the stuff that I do to take care of my home. I am certain that my situation is not unique. When I joined this site I received a great deal of mail; some I answered, some I did not. I also sent out a lot of emails; some were answered some were not. I figured that if I did not receive a response for someone that either they were also inundated with mail and were too busy to respond or that they were not interested. Perhaps I was too chubby or too short or too smart or lived too far away. Whatever the reason though, they chose not to contact me. Instead of dwelling on it, I moved on to other candidates. Have you spent any time on "traditional" dating sites? It works the exact same way. If you like someone you contact them, if you don't you move on. That is the beauty of the online environment. You are not face to face with someone. You do not have to give a reason for not wanting to become aquainted. You are imagining a control issue where none exists. You are implying a that a dominant dynamic already exists between you and your prospective Dommes. You have no relationship with them, therefore they do not recognize the powerplay that is seeming to torture you. You are nothing more than a profile and a picture and that is all that they should be to you. For you to become offended, and may I say obsessive, is unhealthy. After all, it is not like they threw a drink in your face in a crowded bar; they just chose to not respond to an email. Move on, get over it, grow up. This is online. It is only real when more than one person decides to make it so. Best of luck to you.
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