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DarkSteven -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 5:58:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: USEmeABUSEmeNJ13 That's exactly how I see it. In my opinion, I'm not cheating if I get penetrated. I see it that way because than I'm not taking my penis and putting it into another womans pussy. It's not for me to judge that at all. Take it up (no pun intended) with your girlfriend. If she agrees, fine. Actually, I'm having flashbacks to Clinton...

SadisticMs2 -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 6:22:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: USEmeABUSEmeNJ13 That's exactly how I see it. In my opinion, I'm not cheating if I get penetrated. I see it that way because than I'm not taking my penis and putting it into another womans pussy. I'm sure that's how you see it - because it helps you live with the fact that you want to deceive your girlfriend. I noticed you also posted elsewhere about being a human toilet...which means you'd also be taking those germs back to her as well. Ethics matter, kiddo. And don't think that because someone is kinky that ethics don't matter to them. You might be able to pay someone to overlook your obvious shortcomings, but we all know how you feel about that. Man up - if you want to slut around then dump your girlfriend - she deserves better than this.

SadisticMs2 -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 6:28:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop votes that we keep SadisticMs2 Sure! I have an extra room and.... Oh. You mean, keep her in the forums. I guess I'm okay with that. Hmmmph. LOL I'm around...just not often.

searching4mysir -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 6:55:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SadisticMs2 quote: ORIGINAL: USEmeABUSEmeNJ13 That's exactly how I see it. In my opinion, I'm not cheating if I get penetrated. I see it that way because than I'm not taking my penis and putting it into another womans pussy. I'm sure that's how you see it - because it helps you live with the fact that you want to deceive your girlfriend. I noticed you also posted elsewhere about being a human toilet...which means you'd also be taking those germs back to her as well. Ethics matter, kiddo. And don't think that because someone is kinky that ethics don't matter to them. You might be able to pay someone to overlook your obvious shortcomings, but we all know how you feel about that. Man up - if you want to slut around then dump your girlfriend - she deserves better than this. If there was a way to find her, I would almost feel obligated to show her what kind of "man" she is involved with, for her own health and safety. She deserves far better than him. Any woman would deserve better.

lizi -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 8:47:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: USEmeABUSEmeNJ13 Ok...you've all made your points and believe me I do understand them all. I guess when it really comes down to it you all know more than I do (obviously) and I'll admit that I was and am wrong. When I started this thread I never thought I'd get the response that I did. Thank you all for helping me with my situation. I realize that what was said probably wasn't meant in a bad way rather to try and help me. Thank you all again. -DJ I thought you were on your way to becoming a better person after reading this and then saw your next entry in this thread. quote: That's exactly how I see it. In my opinion, I'm not cheating if I get penetrated. I see it that way because than I'm not taking my penis and putting it into another womans pussy. I'm so glad these threads exist here for anyone to check out and look at so anyone who is considering taking up with you can see just what kind of person you are. You really are clueless, people here that are into kinky things look for decent people that they can trust- even if it's for a casual fling. You just showed in unequivocal terms that you are so low you'll debate semantics in order to get off, instead of valuing the woman in your life that trusts you. I can only hope that she wises up and kicks your backpedaling ass to the curb.

SadisticMs2 -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 8:52:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir If there was a way to find her, I would almost feel obligated to show her what kind of "man" she is involved with, for her own health and safety. She deserves far better than him. Any woman would deserve better. Ethics again, but he should indeed be careful.....his clueless behavior and comments may well piss off the wrong person. As exhibited by his comments, not everyone values ethical behavior. One certainly shouldn't rely on the ethics of others to cover up the lack of ethics of their own. Sadly, it's just so common for a self-proclaimed submissive to run around demanding what he wants and on his terms and then getting his knickers in a twist because women (dominant women at that) won't comply. It's interesting, because I'm really wondering who or what they think they are submitting to. Some learn why their behavior is so off-putting to the very women that they want to attract, but few ever do. As a woman, I know that how a man treats his past and present relationships is exactly how he'd treat me if I were in any kind of relationship with him. If he doesn't care about her personal safety and health, he sure isn't going to care about mine. If he doesn't care if he's honest with her, then he won't care about being honest with me. If he runs his mouth off to complete strangers about intimate details of his personal life, then I can expect that he would similarly have no respect for my privacy. I deserve better than that from those I chose to spend my time with, so such an individual would not receive any of my time. I can only hope his girlfriend values herself enough tok know that she also deserves better.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 9:01:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: USEmeABUSEmeNJ13 In my opinion, I'm not cheating if I get penetrated. I see it that way because than I'm not taking my penis and putting it into another womans pussy. But you're taking it up the ass from someone & that's not sex?? If your having sex w/ someone w/o your g/f knowing and approving, then you're cheating. quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir If there was a way to find her, I would almost feel obligated to show her what kind of "man" she is involved with, for her own health and safety. She deserves far better than him. Any woman would deserve better. I'd stay away from that one. Just like, yesterday a 19 yo sub asked me to write to his g/f and tell her he's on here. I said hell no cause it's not my place to do it. NBMG ~edited for spelling~

GreedyTop -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 9:45:49 AM)
NBMG.. but he's GETTING the anal.. so it's not HIS fault (or something) therefore he isnt cheating!!! ZOMG!! rolls eyes

xxblushesxx -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 9:52:15 AM)
If you're putting your dick into someone's (insert body part here) or if someone is putting a dick (or a strap-on) into your (insert body here) it's fucking. If you're fucking someone else or being fucked, it's all the same; FUCKING. If you have a partner who doesn't know about said activities, it's fucking cheating. No, my mind was not invaded by Hannah here, but it seemed appropriate.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 10:26:50 AM)
You have to wonder if he thought his girlfriend was cheating if some guy fucked her with a dildo.

Ninebelowzero -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 10:37:02 AM)
Always thought someone should of asked Prez Clinton how he would feel if he found another mans goo on one of Hilary's dresses. quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady You have to wonder if he thought his girlfriend was cheating if some guy fucked her with a dildo.

BoxwineForBrunch -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 10:50:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: USEmeABUSEmeNJ13 Hello everyone. I just wanted to see if there are any domme that do not charge? I've been on here for a while (previously as dschmertz until my girlfriend found out I was on here and I changed my name). Every Domme that I've talked to requires a tribute or some other form of payment. Are there any out there that don't require a tribute? how did your gf find out you were on here? what was the convo like when she discovered your nefarious secret? did she kick you in the nuts (hey i need j.o fodder too, bro)? did she go out and fuck your whole crew? did she just cry and mope around? how did that make you feel? do you love your gf? do you like yourself? will you fall in love with the hypothetical woman out there who is going to use you and abuse you online and not ask for any of your cash money? if you can't afford even a little trib why aren't you out there hustling some paper until you can? the time you waste whining and pining away is time you could be earning some money. these are the questions you should be answering. do you know why? because until you start filling in your details a little bit you're nothing but a few ill-chosen words on a screen and the "all" you say you have to offer is worth nada. i get what you're looking for and it's not impossible to find. but if you're going to find it, you have to be able to present yourself as a character with something interesting for some sadist to abuse. two last notes. first, man, i know it seems like you're going to find the kind of woman you're looking for at a site like this, but you're probably not. i can tell you right now that the character traits you're looking for are not OMG DEEPLY SERIOUS DOMMELY enough for most boards and certainly not for any "local scene" jive parties. not hating on anyone just saying it is a personality type that does not socialize well with other self-proclaimed dominant women as a rule. you're looking for women who are probably younger, capricious, sadistic, a little unhinged and who probably don't identify as "dominant women" so much as they identify as "bitches who like to fuck with people." if you do run into girls like that on bdsm sites they're generally lurkers who will approach you if you have bothered to make yourself seem interesting and they are always highly in demand. second you're being a total sleazoid to your girlfriend. stop equivocating on that front--you're straight up being a slimeball. rein in your appetites or end the relationship. does your gf have an account here? is she hot? if so have her pm me. thanks :D

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 10:52:15 AM)
Okay, Boxwine? MOST EXCELLENT POST!!

kalikshama -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 11:24:52 AM)
quote: In my opinion, I'm not cheating if I get penetrated. I see it that way because than I'm not taking my penis and putting it into another womans pussy. [image]http://digitaldaily.allthingsd.com/files/2010/02/double-facepalm.jpg[/image]

GreedyTop -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 11:27:46 AM)
votes to keep Boxwine

BoxwineForBrunch -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 11:51:40 AM)
aww thanks Lady Hibiscus, Greedy Top. it's nice to be appreciated :)

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 11:52:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoxwineForBrunch aww thanks Lady Hibiscus, Greedy Top. it's nice to be appreciated :) 'sall good. So don't wreck it by becoming a douche later on, mmmkay? [:D]

searching4mysir -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 11:57:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl I'd stay away from that one. Just like, yesterday a 19 yo sub asked me to write to his g/f and tell her he's on here. I said hell no cause it's not my place to do it. In my defense, I did say almost. [:-]

LafayetteLady -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 2:31:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero Always thought someone should of asked Prez Clinton how he would feel if he found another mans goo on one of Hilary's dresses. quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady You have to wonder if he thought his girlfriend was cheating if some guy fucked her with a dildo. Oh man! for some reason I read that as "Perez Hilton" and kept wondering what that guy had said about the Clinton incident!

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Tributes... (11/14/2011 3:40:11 PM)
Excellent post Boxwine. AND, if no one's said it yet....Welcome to CM and the Message Boards!!

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