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Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 4:23:17 AM   
laborboleta


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Status: offline 		I just had my very first spanking on Friday. I know Sir was relatively careful and gentle. It never got beyond a sharp sting. Of course I had to look in the mirror later . I found a big bruise on one cheek, which surprised me a lot. Is it normal to have bruising (as opposed to just redness), or is it just that I bruise too easily? Any insight would be appreciated.

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 4:26:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it's normal. I don't normally bruise well at all; I don't tend to carry them around for days like some people do, but one of my biggest bruises came from spanking thing. I never thought to look because I know that I just don't tend to keep them, but I had one excessively sore cheek for a couple of days, and lo' and behold, there it was.

Severity of bruising is kind of an individual thing -- if you're just starting, you'll start to figure out what's normal for you.


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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 4:37:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you, Lilly. You are always there with good answers to everyone's questions. Do you ever sleep?

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 6:25:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Haha right now, actually no. I'm working on a really large painting and I normally work small so it's a challenge. My paint stuff and computer are in the same room, so if I get stuck at 3 am, I play around online.

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 6:27:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		My first spanking left my butt a big black messy bruise... I could barely sit... ahh.. memories.

But I do bruise easily.

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 6:38:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		it's normal, especially if it's something you've not had done to you before.



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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 6:41:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		No, when I say I bruise easily... lol... i do. The man rolled over in bed and jabbed me in the upper arm with his elbow. I had a nasty looking bruise for a week.

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 6:45:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Haha -- now see, in those situations, I will bruise easily. If I wander into furniture, or the back of my car (or the front of my car), or fall off the stairs, or something like that. =p 
But from an intentional activity? Nope. =p


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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 7:24:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, I do have to admit that the first time involved a bamboo cane and a fantastically long blow job.. we... umm... both got caught up in the moment and... well...

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/14/2011 7:46:44 AM   
laborboleta


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Status: offline 		As I've gotten older I find I bruise more easily, though I also heal pretty quickly. At any given time I have bruises on my thighs, just the size of large cat paws, from my big (23lb) guy climbing onto my lap.

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/15/2011 9:48:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just wondering if you take anything like aspirin or warfarin etc? Any anti coagulant or similar would enhance the bruising.

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/17/2011 1:11:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I bruise easily.  I think it's normal to bruise a little after a spanking. 

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/17/2011 2:07:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Spanking and paddling compress a large amount of tissue. Stingy spanking will cause less bruising because it's primarily about the skin surface. Thuddy spanking will cause more bruising because it's about going deep.

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RE: Bruising from spanking? - 11/17/2011 7:11:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well from personal experiences.... the longer I've been doing this, and the more I've gotten spanked and all that... the less I bruise. One of my first heavy experiences left me with a lot of bruising over both cheeks, and now scenes that are just as hard don't bruise as nicely!

But I like bruises.

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