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DarkSteven -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 1:36:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon Collarme is a place where WOMEN find what they are looking for. Men too if they are after Men. Actually, men do find what they're looking for sometimes. Whiny little boys who call themselves Doms may have some difficulties, though. Edited to add: Okay, look. You've specifically asked to not get responses like the one I just gave. But what the heck else should I give? You asked for feedback, and you tried to specify that you only get positive feedback. Your journal entry basically says that you're a great guy and see women with assholes, so the system's broken. Try something else: ask WHY that is. Either women prefer assholes, you're assigning assholishness to other men, you're not as great a guy as you think.... Have you gotten the idea yet? If YOU don't like how things are going, then YOU have the obligation to change. YES, it means hearing things you may not like. YES, it may involve some hard work. What is it you want? Comfortable failure, or a chance at results?

Deceptakon -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 1:42:13 PM)
Here you all go, Grins http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 ">

poise -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 1:50:27 PM)
shakes her groove thang

Lockit -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 1:52:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon Here you all go, Grins http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 "> Now, you're getting it! lol Do I have to admit how old I was when this song came out? [sm=dance.gif]

Deceptakon -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 1:56:51 PM)
Nope, only what you were wearing when this song came out, and then a one word reply on what you think of it now....lol

myotherself -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 1:59:25 PM)
I love that song! It was my first ginge crush too...[:D]

Lockit -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 2:00:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon Nope, only what you were wearing when this song came out, and then a one word reply on what you think of it now....lol ROFL... you are hopeless! A short skirt that looked like a cheer leader skirt, shorty top, with a scarf in my hair with a bow on top and sneakers. Memories! [:D]

SoulAlloy -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 2:04:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon Collarme is a place where WOMEN find what they are looking for. Men too if they are after Men. Nope men find women that they are looking for too... Can't see the journal entry you're on about now, guessing you've either deleted it or it's been reported... With regards to the profile, here are my thoughts: Respecting how others choose to live their lives is seen by many as a positive attribute, and your profile doesn't really indicate you feel that way (perhaps this is related to the assholiness replies?) This statement is kind of pointless really (but then I'm a pedantic sod) "I am looking for a submissive either new to the scene, or experienced. ", that does encompass all submissives when you think about it. There's a few grammar errors that could be tidied up, and not sure about having a pic of a tied up woman on your profile, as arty as the pic is. Possibly going into some of these other goals you have might make the whole thing less kink orientated. On the positive you're clear about what you're looking for

Buzzzz -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 3:02:50 PM)
quote: quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon Collarme is a place where WOMEN find what they are looking for. Men too if they are after Men. I don't think I ever met someone from cm , but that isn't what I am here for. so, for me it is kinda true, but I doubt all men will agree with this statement.

Fornica -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 4:44:22 PM)
I've been reading along, and have given much thought to what the problem might be. It finally came to me a min ago! You're a pompous douchebag! HTH :) <3 Fornica quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon I have been on this site for around 5 years now. Kept the basic ideal of my profile but have changed it 5 different times on here, due to not being replied too enough to keep the effort on going. I have wrote a recent journal, that I would love for each an everyone of you to read. Feed back upon such can be emailed or written here on this thread. Regardless of such, I do ask you to limit your negative opinions and realize this is me pouring myself into text, and to come on here and say something other than positive or helpful, would be just showing your hand and exposing some sort of hidden agenda inside you. They have games for that, I swear. Again, the journal entry is on my profile, enjoy and thank you. http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1251278/details.htm

HeatherMcLeather -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 5:46:31 PM)
I'm wondering what journal entry it is we're supposed to comment on positively. The one calling us all self-righteous fucks?

JanahX -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 7:28:57 PM)
dude ... I cant even get through any of your bitch ass whiny sentences without cringing. You come off sounding completely mental. WHAT A FUCKING BORE .... ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

tazzygirl -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 7:35:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon I agree with what you said, but also after 5 years being on this site, I've done many of what you mentioned, and I'm just not pressed to spend another 5 years doing the same. The ratio game is not worth it in my honest opinion. Didn't work well when I was in High school, Air force, or College, internet is just all 3 combined with 2 million other things. That journal was my closing argument to my profile and attendance here. But thank you for the reply. Your profile says to me... "Dont take me seriously".

defiantbadgirl -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 7:47:00 PM)
OP I'd be happy to try to help but I didn't see this thread until after the journal entry you referred to was deleted. I doubt you're finding some of the rude responses helpful.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 8:02:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl OP I'd be happy to try to help but I didn't see this thread until after the journal entry you referred to was deleted. I doubt you're finding some of the rude responses helpful. It was just a lot of whiny ass ranting and raving, so you didn't miss much.[8\|] And I doubt that he's even listening to the more helpful responses anyway. NBMG

DomMeinCT -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/19/2011 9:18:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon I have been on this site for around 5 years now. I do ask you to limit your negative opinions and realize this is me pouring myself into text, and to come on here and say something other than positive or helpful, would be just showing your hand and exposing some sort of hidden agenda inside you. You've been on here 5 years, presumably reading these forums, then you post a thread asking people to only give you positive feedback? You have very unrealistic expectations of what you knew would be the norm here. Other than that, and despite the fact that you've characterized many of the 3 pages of responses as negative, many of them should be instructional for you; they invariably point to the fact that you appear negative and defensive. You can't change anyone else here, but only you can change you.

Fornica -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/20/2011 4:06:46 AM)
Apparently. quote: ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather I'm wondering what journal entry it is we're supposed to comment on positively. The one calling us all self-righteous fucks?

thishereboi -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/20/2011 5:02:33 AM)
you write this in your journal... Due to the ignorance of this site's population, the following journal had to be shoved up a few asses... in the meantime you can enjoy this You self righteous fucks. and then ask for feedback, but you don't want anything negative. [8\|] Yea good luck with that.

Fornica -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/20/2011 5:07:56 AM)
It's like he threw sand in our faces and stormed off with his pail and shovel.

thishereboi -> RE: A plea for some assistance. (11/20/2011 5:10:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deceptakon Very true, but I have revised my profile more times that I can remember, this certainly isn't the 1st reconfig, or complete redo I have attempted, nor is it the 1st message board post, although they all went alot nicer than this one. It wouldn't matter what I put in my profile, Some will love it some will hate it, that's nature of the beast, but really what it is coming down to, is this magical aspect of which I haven't any clue as to what it is. I could make 40 profiles, all different in every nature, and still be in the same situations, hell, I could get all of you to write me one, and get the same outcome. If what I have highlighted is true, then maybe you should look for the constant in the equation.

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